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**Original Jan 5, 2023**\n
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> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
> \n
> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
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> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
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> \n
> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
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> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
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I am not OOP\n
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\n
Originally posted to r/CasualIreland\n
\n
**Original Jan 5, 2023**\n
\n
> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
> \n
> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
> \n
> (I will also fight anyone that says instant noodles don’t deserve a foodie tag.)\n
\n
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RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
No-Ladder7811\n
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> Samyang kimchi ramen noodles from the Asian store are my go to. Now they blow the arse of you but well worth it. If too spicy instead of water, use some milk, to make a creamier broth to tone it down a bit.\n
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Cabhert5\n
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> They aren’t all the same at all, according to my kid who’ll only eat Shin Ramen (Nongshim) from the asian stores. Believe me, the kid’s a connoisseur\n
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dreamcomenull\n
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azlolazlo\n
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> Why would you abandon koka for some new whore?\n
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leosp633fc\n
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> Dude, koka is boring. Go to an Asian shop and be adventurous!\n
\n
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**Update Jan 13, 2023**\n
\n
> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
> \n
> I found the instructions very clear and easy to follow. I found the bowl design of the packaging fantastically efficient. I fried some bacon and mushrooms to add to the noodles and can clearly see how ramen so quickly became a staple food in Eastern climes.\n
> \n
> What I did not expect was the life altering revelation that Samyang would bring to me. A moment of such clarity of spirit and placement within the wide universe that I felt as if I was looking at myself from without.\n
> \n
> In this moment of catharsis I discovered that there are two types of bucket-lists.\n
> \n
> One is the normal super fun lists of things you want to do in the life.\n
> \n
> The other is a not so fun list of things you never want to learn about yourself.\n
> \n
> Today I learned I am a bitch. But not just any type of bitch.\n
> \n
> Have you ever met one of those absolute chodes that goes around saying stuff like, “I love spicy food,” - “Nothing is too hot for me.” - “If I could bottle hellfire I’d sprinkle it on my chips.” And then folds like a cheap trick at the first sing of heat.\n
> \n
> Today, laddies and djents, I am that chode.\n
> \n
> Here and now I swear blind that I’ll never again attest that I eat hot all the time. Or that I love jalapenos. Or that I put chili flakes on everything.\n
> \n
> I am a heat-bitch, and I see that now. Samyang 2x spicy scorched my soul from my lean flanks, twisted me once around the sun, and sat me back down, blistered and burned, to revel at the scope of my folly.\n
> \n
> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
> \n
> Pray for me if you can.\n
\n
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RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
SteveK27982\n
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> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
\n
---\n
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urpleWomat\n
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> I’ll wait for the update before I try them.\n
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\n
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> OP is dead. There will be no update.\n
\n
---\n
\n
This post is considered concluded as OOP has stated that they are deceased\n
\n
I am not OOP\n
\n
[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15yqhw4/new_ramen_noodle_brands_scare_me/)
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I am not The OOP, OOP is u/pyrpaul on Reddit\n
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Originally posted to r/CasualIreland\n
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**Original Jan 5, 2023**\n
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> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
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> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
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> (I will also fight anyone that says instant noodles don’t deserve a foodie tag.)\n
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No-Ladder7811\n
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> Samyang kimchi ramen noodles from the Asian store are my go to. Now they blow the arse of you but well worth it. If too spicy instead of water, use some milk, to make a creamier broth to tone it down a bit.\n
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Cabhert5\n
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> They aren’t all the same at all, according to my kid who’ll only eat Shin Ramen (Nongshim) from the asian stores. Believe me, the kid’s a connoisseur\n
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dreamcomenull\n
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> Samyang is great. But be careful - they have some extra spicy noodles. And by extra I mean the most spicy noodles in the world. No jokes\n
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azlolazlo\n
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> Why would you abandon koka for some new whore?\n
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> Dude, koka is boring. Go to an Asian shop and be adventurous!\n
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**Update Jan 13, 2023**\n
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> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
> \n
> I found the instructions very clear and easy to follow. I found the bowl design of the packaging fantastically efficient. I fried some bacon and mushrooms to add to the noodles and can clearly see how ramen so quickly became a staple food in Eastern climes.\n
> \n
> What I did not expect was the life altering revelation that Samyang would bring to me. A moment of such clarity of spirit and placement within the wide universe that I felt as if I was looking at myself from without.\n
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> In this moment of catharsis I discovered that there are two types of bucket-lists.\n
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> One is the normal super fun lists of things you want to do in the life.\n
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> The other is a not so fun list of things you never want to learn about yourself.\n
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> Today I learned I am a bitch. But not just any type of bitch.\n
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> Have you ever met one of those absolute chodes that goes around saying stuff like, “I love spicy food,” - “Nothing is too hot for me.” - “If I could bottle hellfire I’d sprinkle it on my chips.” And then folds like a cheap trick at the first sing of heat.\n
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> Today, laddies and djents, I am that chode.\n
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> Here and now I swear blind that I’ll never again attest that I eat hot all the time. Or that I love jalapenos. Or that I put chili flakes on everything.\n
> \n
> I am a heat-bitch, and I see that now. Samyang 2x spicy scorched my soul from my lean flanks, twisted me once around the sun, and sat me back down, blistered and burned, to revel at the scope of my folly.\n
> \n
> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
> \n
> Pray for me if you can.\n
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SteveK27982\n
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> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
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urpleWomat\n
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> I’ll wait for the update before I try them.\n
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> OP is dead. There will be no update.\n
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This post is considered concluded as OOP has stated that they are deceased\n
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I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15yqhw4/new_ramen_noodle_brands_scare_me/)
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- [you can support me here](https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kurononeko)\n
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I am NOT OP. Original post by u/DaddyDorr94 in r/relationship_advice\n
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Possibly ongoing, more updates to follow.\n
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**My (M28) Wife (F26) has scammed multiple people, and lied to me about it. - 7th August 2023**\n
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> So about a week ago, I got this Facebook message from some lady saying that my wife scammed her out of some money shipping baby clothes. I went to my wife about it before talking to the lady, and my wife said “I’ve never seen this lady in my life, she’s just trying to get you to send her $30.” She then went on to block the lady, and that was that. Well this morning I got a message request from a different lady saying how my wife scammed her out of $120, and sent me screenshots of her and my wife’s conversation and transactions. I unblocked the other lady, and she also sent me conversations and transactions. And apparently THERE ARE OTHERS. So I now have 3 ladies in my DMs with proof that my wife scammed them out of money, lied to them about having a miscarriage, and saying she was on bed rest and couldn’t. (She’s at work as a bartender rn, she’s not on no damn bed rest)\n
> \n
> The thing that irks me the most is how quick she was to lie to me and block the lady. It didn’t feel right, but I thought oh well, she wouldn’t lie about something like this. Now I’m just sitting here wondering how much more she’s lied about, and don’t feel like I can even trust her.\n
> \n
> My wife doesn’t know I have all of this information, any idea of what I should do next?\n
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> Her reaction is a bit sus. She just said “I’ve never seen her before. She’s trying to get money from you”? I’d be all WTF? Who is this? Why do they think that??? Give me their details so I can clear this up.\n
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> I’d put a hold on my credit and check all my accounts TBH. If it turns out she’s really doing this I’d find and attorney divorce. If these people are genuine victims and they found you they can find your friends, family and employer.\n
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OOP\n
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> Her reaction was what drove me to believe these people. Took my phone and blocked this lady and denied denied denied. Buuut from the messages this lady had with my wife, I fully believe my wife scammed her. And on top she LIED to them. Said I shipped their packages, lied and said she had a miscarriage and had to be bed ridden, and basically just tried to play the victim the entire time when she had no intentions of giving this lady her stuff. (Even “sold” her some clothing she already gave to somebody else)\n
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> \u{200B}It wasn’t that odd to me either, but how quick she was to block the lady is what I found a bit suspicious, buuut I didn’t do anything bc I believed her. Apparently the OG lady made a post on some moms group fb page and that’s how they all found me. PLUS like a week ago, my wife just randomly deleted her Facebook account. And it lines up exactly for when the OG lady threatened to make a public post about my wife\n
> \n
> They paid her on a PayPal, that isn’t her actual PayPal, she’s at work rn, but I’m going to try to do some digging into that later, buuut basically that whole Facebook group has my wife on a “no sell list” bc this isn’t the first time this has happened apparently. (The OG lady who contacted me invited me and showed me the public post she made shaming my wife for what she did)\n
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> Talk to her about why she’s doing it and what else she’s lied about, she should be worried about the police too\n
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OOP\n
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> I don’t think she’ll be honest at this point. I got invited to the fb group my wife sold this stuff in, and they have a whole like 3 posts talking about how she’s on a ban list, and she’s cheated people out of money etc.\n
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> If someone told my husband I was scamming them, I would be out of my mind! I would certainly want to get to the bottom of it!!! I would turn into Sherlock Holmes, figure out what happened, make public posts about a scammer stealing my identity, and figure a way to put an end to all of it. Seems a little odd, the way your wife brushed it off and just blocked them on your phone. Wouldn’t you want to clear your name if that happened to you? So I agree it seems a little suspicious how she is behaving, I donno though.\n
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OOP\n
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> I fully believed her at first! She’s given me 0 reason to not. Buuut through further investigation I completely believe it. There’s a whole moms group on fb that swaps baby clothes and they have her on a no sell list bc she’s done this sort of thing before apparently. Makes me really question what else she’s lied about\n
> \n
> I was worried about that too! Which is why I didn’t go to my wife first. But after investigating most of the day, I believe my wife absolutely was the bad person here. They have her banned on this moms group bc she’s done this before apparently\n
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> liars lie. this wont stop at facebook scamming, and it is only a matter of time before it hurts you much more directly.\n
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OOP\n
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> That’s what I’m worried about. I work out of state too, so she would have plenty of opportunity to “lie” to me and I’d never know\n
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**Update 9th August 2023**\n
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> I confronted my wife with all of the evidence that’s she 1000% did this including the money trail, and had my phone recording everything and a hidden security camera going to watch it all, and she still denied it all. And then told me I was a “joke of a husband” for not believing her in this whole ordeal. And she continued to berate me for about 45 minutes, and say just awful things. Anytime I would bring up a point she would just dismiss it and continue to gas light me. So I’m taking my 2 year old daughter, and going to my buddy’s house for the rest of the week.\n
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> I am so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, I am in these Facebook groups and see women scamming all the time… it’s sad that it is affecting you. I hope for the best outcome for you and your family, whatever that may be.\n
> \n
> I hate those type of people, they are horrid. Many are getting sued and partners are suffering for it. Even though your wife is the one doing it, they can come after you too or you may be stuck with the financial burden of her losing small claims cases. What she’s doing is sick. I’m so ssorr\n
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Reminder - I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15szvoy/my_wife_has_scammed_multiple_people_and_lied_to/)
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I am NOT OP. Original post by u/DaddyDorr94 in r/relationship_advice\n
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Possibly ongoing, more updates to follow.\n
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**My (M28) Wife (F26) has scammed multiple people, and lied to me about it. - 7th August 2023**\n
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> So about a week ago, I got this Facebook message from some lady saying that my wife scammed her out of some money shipping baby clothes. I went to my wife about it before talking to the lady, and my wife said “I’ve never seen this lady in my life, she’s just trying to get you to send her $30.” She then went on to block the lady, and that was that. Well this morning I got a message request from a different lady saying how my wife scammed her out of $120, and sent me screenshots of her and my wife’s conversation and transactions. I unblocked the other lady, and she also sent me conversations and transactions. And apparently THERE ARE OTHERS. So I now have 3 ladies in my DMs with proof that my wife scammed them out of money, lied to them about having a miscarriage, and saying she was on bed rest and couldn’t. (She’s at work as a bartender rn, she’s not on no damn bed rest)\n
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> The thing that irks me the most is how quick she was to lie to me and block the lady. It didn’t feel right, but I thought oh well, she wouldn’t lie about something like this. Now I’m just sitting here wondering how much more she’s lied about, and don’t feel like I can even trust her.\n
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> My wife doesn’t know I have all of this information, any idea of what I should do next?\n
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> Her reaction is a bit sus. She just said “I’ve never seen her before. She’s trying to get money from you”? I’d be all WTF? Who is this? Why do they think that??? Give me their details so I can clear this up.\n
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> I’d put a hold on my credit and check all my accounts TBH. If it turns out she’s really doing this I’d find and attorney divorce. If these people are genuine victims and they found you they can find your friends, family and employer.\n
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> Her reaction was what drove me to believe these people. Took my phone and blocked this lady and denied denied denied. Buuut from the messages this lady had with my wife, I fully believe my wife scammed her. And on top she LIED to them. Said I shipped their packages, lied and said she had a miscarriage and had to be bed ridden, and basically just tried to play the victim the entire time when she had no intentions of giving this lady her stuff. (Even “sold” her some clothing she already gave to somebody else)\n
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> \u{200B}It wasn’t that odd to me either, but how quick she was to block the lady is what I found a bit suspicious, buuut I didn’t do anything bc I believed her. Apparently the OG lady made a post on some moms group fb page and that’s how they all found me. PLUS like a week ago, my wife just randomly deleted her Facebook account. And it lines up exactly for when the OG lady threatened to make a public post about my wife\n
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> They paid her on a PayPal, that isn’t her actual PayPal, she’s at work rn, but I’m going to try to do some digging into that later, buuut basically that whole Facebook group has my wife on a “no sell list” bc this isn’t the first time this has happened apparently. (The OG lady who contacted me invited me and showed me the public post she made shaming my wife for what she did)\n
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> Talk to her about why she’s doing it and what else she’s lied about, she should be worried about the police too\n
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> I don’t think she’ll be honest at this point. I got invited to the fb group my wife sold this stuff in, and they have a whole like 3 posts talking about how she’s on a ban list, and she’s cheated people out of money etc.\n
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> If someone told my husband I was scamming them, I would be out of my mind! I would certainly want to get to the bottom of it!!! I would turn into Sherlock Holmes, figure out what happened, make public posts about a scammer stealing my identity, and figure a way to put an end to all of it. Seems a little odd, the way your wife brushed it off and just blocked them on your phone. Wouldn’t you want to clear your name if that happened to you? So I agree it seems a little suspicious how she is behaving, I donno though.\n
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> I fully believed her at first! She’s given me 0 reason to not. Buuut through further investigation I completely believe it. There’s a whole moms group on fb that swaps baby clothes and they have her on a no sell list bc she’s done this sort of thing before apparently. Makes me really question what else she’s lied about\n
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> I was worried about that too! Which is why I didn’t go to my wife first. But after investigating most of the day, I believe my wife absolutely was the bad person here. They have her banned on this moms group bc she’s done this before apparently\n
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> liars lie. this wont stop at facebook scamming, and it is only a matter of time before it hurts you much more directly.\n
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OOP\n
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> That’s what I’m worried about. I work out of state too, so she would have plenty of opportunity to “lie” to me and I’d never know\n
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**Update 9th August 2023**\n
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> I confronted my wife with all of the evidence that’s she 1000% did this including the money trail, and had my phone recording everything and a hidden security camera going to watch it all, and she still denied it all. And then told me I was a “joke of a husband” for not believing her in this whole ordeal. And she continued to berate me for about 45 minutes, and say just awful things. Anytime I would bring up a point she would just dismiss it and continue to gas light me. So I’m taking my 2 year old daughter, and going to my buddy’s house for the rest of the week.\n
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> I am so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, I am in these Facebook groups and see women scamming all the time… it’s sad that it is affecting you. I hope for the best outcome for you and your family, whatever that may be.\n
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> I hate those type of people, they are horrid. Many are getting sued and partners are suffering for it. Even though your wife is the one doing it, they can come after you too or you may be stuck with the financial burden of her losing small claims cases. What she’s doing is sick. I’m so ssorr\n
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Reminder - I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15szvoy/my_wife_has_scammed_multiple_people_and_lied_to/)
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I am NOT OP. Original post by u/DaddyDorr94 in r/relationship_advice\n
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Possibly ongoing, more updates to follow.\n
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**My (M28) Wife (F26) has scammed multiple people, and lied to me about it. - 7th August 2023**\n
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> So about a week ago, I got this Facebook message from some lady saying that my wife scammed her out of some money shipping baby clothes. I went to my wife about it before talking to the lady, and my wife said “I’ve never seen this lady in my life, she’s just trying to get you to send her $30.” She then went on to block the lady, and that was that. Well this morning I got a message request from a different lady saying how my wife scammed her out of $120, and sent me screenshots of her and my wife’s conversation and transactions. I unblocked the other lady, and she also sent me conversations and transactions. And apparently THERE ARE OTHERS. So I now have 3 ladies in my DMs with proof that my wife scammed them out of money, lied to them about having a miscarriage, and saying she was on bed rest and couldn’t. (She’s at work as a bartender rn, she’s not on no damn bed rest)\n
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> The thing that irks me the most is how quick she was to lie to me and block the lady. It didn’t feel right, but I thought oh well, she wouldn’t lie about something like this. Now I’m just sitting here wondering how much more she’s lied about, and don’t feel like I can even trust her.\n
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> My wife doesn’t know I have all of this information, any idea of what I should do next?\n
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> Her reaction is a bit sus. She just said “I’ve never seen her before. She’s trying to get money from you”? I’d be all WTF? Who is this? Why do they think that??? Give me their details so I can clear this up.\n
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> I’d put a hold on my credit and check all my accounts TBH. If it turns out she’s really doing this I’d find and attorney divorce. If these people are genuine victims and they found you they can find your friends, family and employer.\n
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OOP\n
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> Her reaction was what drove me to believe these people. Took my phone and blocked this lady and denied denied denied. Buuut from the messages this lady had with my wife, I fully believe my wife scammed her. And on top she LIED to them. Said I shipped their packages, lied and said she had a miscarriage and had to be bed ridden, and basically just tried to play the victim the entire time when she had no intentions of giving this lady her stuff. (Even “sold” her some clothing she already gave to somebody else)\n
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> \u{200B}It wasn’t that odd to me either, but how quick she was to block the lady is what I found a bit suspicious, buuut I didn’t do anything bc I believed her. Apparently the OG lady made a post on some moms group fb page and that’s how they all found me. PLUS like a week ago, my wife just randomly deleted her Facebook account. And it lines up exactly for when the OG lady threatened to make a public post about my wife\n
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> They paid her on a PayPal, that isn’t her actual PayPal, she’s at work rn, but I’m going to try to do some digging into that later, buuut basically that whole Facebook group has my wife on a “no sell list” bc this isn’t the first time this has happened apparently. (The OG lady who contacted me invited me and showed me the public post she made shaming my wife for what she did)\n
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> Talk to her about why she’s doing it and what else she’s lied about, she should be worried about the police too\n
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> I don’t think she’ll be honest at this point. I got invited to the fb group my wife sold this stuff in, and they have a whole like 3 posts talking about how she’s on a ban list, and she’s cheated people out of money etc.\n
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> If someone told my husband I was scamming them, I would be out of my mind! I would certainly want to get to the bottom of it!!! I would turn into Sherlock Holmes, figure out what happened, make public posts about a scammer stealing my identity, and figure a way to put an end to all of it. Seems a little odd, the way your wife brushed it off and just blocked them on your phone. Wouldn’t you want to clear your name if that happened to you? So I agree it seems a little suspicious how she is behaving, I donno though.\n
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> I fully believed her at first! She’s given me 0 reason to not. Buuut through further investigation I completely believe it. There’s a whole moms group on fb that swaps baby clothes and they have her on a no sell list bc she’s done this sort of thing before apparently. Makes me really question what else she’s lied about\n
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> I was worried about that too! Which is why I didn’t go to my wife first. But after investigating most of the day, I believe my wife absolutely was the bad person here. They have her banned on this moms group bc she’s done this before apparently\n
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> liars lie. this wont stop at facebook scamming, and it is only a matter of time before it hurts you much more directly.\n
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OOP\n
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> That’s what I’m worried about. I work out of state too, so she would have plenty of opportunity to “lie” to me and I’d never know\n
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**Update 9th August 2023**\n
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> I confronted my wife with all of the evidence that’s she 1000% did this including the money trail, and had my phone recording everything and a hidden security camera going to watch it all, and she still denied it all. And then told me I was a “joke of a husband” for not believing her in this whole ordeal. And she continued to berate me for about 45 minutes, and say just awful things. Anytime I would bring up a point she would just dismiss it and continue to gas light me. So I’m taking my 2 year old daughter, and going to my buddy’s house for the rest of the week.\n
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> I am so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, I am in these Facebook groups and see women scamming all the time… it’s sad that it is affecting you. I hope for the best outcome for you and your family, whatever that may be.\n
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> I hate those type of people, they are horrid. Many are getting sued and partners are suffering for it. Even though your wife is the one doing it, they can come after you too or you may be stuck with the financial burden of her losing small claims cases. What she’s doing is sick. I’m so ssorr\n
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Reminder - I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15szvoy/my_wife_has_scammed_multiple_people_and_lied_to/)
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I am not the original poster. Original post by u/RoadIsland123 in r/AmItheAsshole.\n
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> I F30 don’t have the best relationship with my husband’s mom. Since day one she tried to make remarks and compare me to her ??. She then tried to get on my good side and started overly praising everything I do and sometimes even copying me like that one time when she LITERALLY dyed her hair purple just like mine and when everyone pointed out how ridiculous she looked, she actually blamed me and accused me of trying to make a joke out of her.\n
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> Things got quieter, suspiciously quieter. the day of the trip came and we got to the airport at 2pm. My husband was walking ahead of me and was looking left and right like he was looking for someone. I asked him but he didn’t respond. He lead me to the waiting area and first thing I saw was his mom standing there with her luggage . I froze in my spot, I felt a cold wave washing over me and I was fuming inside. She and my husband were hugging that’s when I quietly turned around and started walking towards the exit. My husband followed me while shouting at me to stop. he tried to stop me but I told him off the harshest way possible. He tried to say I was overreacting and that his mom was there “anyway” and I should let it go and not mess the trip up for us. I told him he and his mom could still go and that I was going home.\n
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> I went home and sobbed into my dog’s fur for several minutes. turned out he booked her a ticket without me knowing. an hour later he came home yelling and raging about how pathetic and spiteful I was to walk out and go home and ruin the trip last minute. I told him he caused this to happen. he said that I was being so hard on his mom it’s ridiculous. I refused to fight any more but he kept on berating me then called my family to tell them that the trip was cancelled and that it was because of me. My family said that I shouldn’t have ruined it for myself and should’ve sucked it up and done my best to enjoy.\n
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> Did I really overreact?\n
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**UPDATE AITA for walking out of the Airport when I saw my husband’s mom standing there with her luggage?**\n
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**Mon, May 16, 2022**\n
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> Hello!.\n
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> I don’t know where to begin…it’s been an absolute nightmare recently. And I feel like I was losing my sanity.\n
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> So for more details about my situation. I have to admit that my husband’s mom favors him over all his siblings. this affected his relationship with them and me as well. He’s never seen an issue with how differently his mom treats him, it bothered me and made me feel uncomfortable. The whole dynamic made me feel uncomfortable. Going Low contact has never even been an option. Like he has to see her or call her everyday.\n
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> Most of his siblings don’t talk to him and I 100% believe it’s because of his mom’s favoritism like I said. He does bare some blame for not seeing how wrong this is till this day.\n
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> In many instances I found myself making excuses for his behavior. Even in my post. I did it spontaneously and I don’t know why. But I guess it’s because of how much I love him and because I really really wanted to be able to work things this type of things out without letting them affect our marriage.\n
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> Regarding what happened with the trip, He tried to have a talk with me and most of what he said came from place of blame, Blame towards me. I just couldn’t continue with this argument. I told him I needed space and that I would be going to stay with my sister for a while. He didn’t take it well, he literally got up from the couch and opened the door telling me to go right then. In that moment and seeing how he was still not even anywhere near understanding what he has done just… made things perfectly clear to me. I just had pictured years and years of my life being lived like that and I was like no…I can’t do it, Can’t take anymore of it especially when he keeps focusing on being right every time. His mom can do no wrong. I’m always the aggressive, crazy, jealous, pathetic, overreactor.\n
> \n
> All these people’s opinions, advice and concerns were like a spark…like the wake up call I really needed. Though I wish that it didn’t get this far but what’s done is done.\n
> \n
> Right now I’m staying with my sister (I brought my dog with me as well) He sent me his last message telling I’m the one choosing to end what we had together but I believe it’s the other way around, especially with how he keeps making his mom the victim in this situation. It’s become clear now that we keep going in circles with no end in reach and I’m just so exhausted and overwhelmed. I’m not mad at him and don’t expect him to change but… at least I’m given options to decide what’s best for me and my future even if it’s separation and divorce.\n
> \n
> A big thank you to those who reached out with resources that I feel very very lucky to have come across. Just wanted to give you an update since many of you asked for it.\n
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I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15r3n8y/aita_for_walking_out_of_the_airport_when_i_saw_my/)
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I am not the original poster. Original post by u/RoadIsland123 in r/AmItheAsshole.\n
\n
**Wed, May 11, 2022**\n
\n
> I F30 don’t have the best relationship with my husband’s mom. Since day one she tried to make remarks and compare me to her ??. She then tried to get on my good side and started overly praising everything I do and sometimes even copying me like that one time when she LITERALLY dyed her hair purple just like mine and when everyone pointed out how ridiculous she looked, she actually blamed me and accused me of trying to make a joke out of her.\n
> \n
> So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband’s mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent people to talk to me into letting her come, even threatened to call the police and make some complaint up to get us to stay if she can’t come. My husband said we should just take her but I told him he was wrong to tell her about the trip in the first place. He gave me an ultimatum. said he wouldn’t go if she can’t come and I told him I’d gladly call his bluff which made him take his words back and say “FINE! I will tell her to stop it because we won’t take her”.\n
> \n
> Things got quieter, suspiciously quieter. the day of the trip came and we got to the airport at 2pm. My husband was walking ahead of me and was looking left and right like he was looking for someone. I asked him but he didn’t respond. He lead me to the waiting area and first thing I saw was his mom standing there with her luggage . I froze in my spot, I felt a cold wave washing over me and I was fuming inside. She and my husband were hugging that’s when I quietly turned around and started walking towards the exit. My husband followed me while shouting at me to stop. he tried to stop me but I told him off the harshest way possible. He tried to say I was overreacting and that his mom was there “anyway” and I should let it go and not mess the trip up for us. I told him he and his mom could still go and that I was going home.\n
> \n
> I went home and sobbed into my dog’s fur for several minutes. turned out he booked her a ticket without me knowing. an hour later he came home yelling and raging about how pathetic and spiteful I was to walk out and go home and ruin the trip last minute. I told him he caused this to happen. he said that I was being so hard on his mom it’s ridiculous. I refused to fight any more but he kept on berating me then called my family to tell them that the trip was cancelled and that it was because of me. My family said that I shouldn’t have ruined it for myself and should’ve sucked it up and done my best to enjoy.\n
> \n
> Did I really overreact?\n
\n
Judgement: Not the A-hole\n
\n
**UPDATE AITA for walking out of the Airport when I saw my husband’s mom standing there with her luggage?**\n
\n
**Mon, May 16, 2022**\n
\n
> Hello!.\n
> \n
> I don’t know where to begin…it’s been an absolute nightmare recently. And I feel like I was losing my sanity.\n
> \n
> So for more details about my situation. I have to admit that my husband’s mom favors him over all his siblings. this affected his relationship with them and me as well. He’s never seen an issue with how differently his mom treats him, it bothered me and made me feel uncomfortable. The whole dynamic made me feel uncomfortable. Going Low contact has never even been an option. Like he has to see her or call her everyday.\n
> \n
> Most of his siblings don’t talk to him and I 100% believe it’s because of his mom’s favoritism like I said. He does bare some blame for not seeing how wrong this is till this day.\n
> \n
> In many instances I found myself making excuses for his behavior. Even in my post. I did it spontaneously and I don’t know why. But I guess it’s because of how much I love him and because I really really wanted to be able to work things this type of things out without letting them affect our marriage.\n
> \n
> Regarding what happened with the trip, He tried to have a talk with me and most of what he said came from place of blame, Blame towards me. I just couldn’t continue with this argument. I told him I needed space and that I would be going to stay with my sister for a while. He didn’t take it well, he literally got up from the couch and opened the door telling me to go right then. In that moment and seeing how he was still not even anywhere near understanding what he has done just… made things perfectly clear to me. I just had pictured years and years of my life being lived like that and I was like no…I can’t do it, Can’t take anymore of it especially when he keeps focusing on being right every time. His mom can do no wrong. I’m always the aggressive, crazy, jealous, pathetic, overreactor.\n
> \n
> All these people’s opinions, advice and concerns were like a spark…like the wake up call I really needed. Though I wish that it didn’t get this far but what’s done is done.\n
> \n
> Right now I’m staying with my sister (I brought my dog with me as well) He sent me his last message telling I’m the one choosing to end what we had together but I believe it’s the other way around, especially with how he keeps making his mom the victim in this situation. It’s become clear now that we keep going in circles with no end in reach and I’m just so exhausted and overwhelmed. I’m not mad at him and don’t expect him to change but… at least I’m given options to decide what’s best for me and my future even if it’s separation and divorce.\n
> \n
> A big thank you to those who reached out with resources that I feel very very lucky to have come across. Just wanted to give you an update since many of you asked for it.\n
\n
I am not OOP\n
\n
[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15r3n8y/aita_for_walking_out_of_the_airport_when_i_saw_my/)
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> \n
> So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband’s mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent people to talk to me into letting her come, even threatened to call the police and make some complaint up to get us to stay if she can’t come. My husband said we should just take her but I told him he was wrong to tell her about the trip in the first place. He gave me an ultimatum. said he wouldn’t go if she can’t come and I told him I’d gladly call his bluff which made him take his words back and say “FINE! I will tell her to stop it because we won’t take her”.\n
> \n
> Things got quieter, suspiciously quieter. the day of the trip came and we got to the airport at 2pm. My husband was walking ahead of me and was looking left and right like he was looking for someone. I asked him but he didn’t respond. He lead me to the waiting area and first thing I saw was his mom standing there with her luggage . I froze in my spot, I felt a cold wave washing over me and I was fuming inside. She and my husband were hugging that’s when I quietly turned around and started walking towards the exit. My husband followed me while shouting at me to stop. he tried to stop me but I told him off the harshest way possible. He tried to say I was overreacting and that his mom was there “anyway” and I should let it go and not mess the trip up for us. I told him he and his mom could still go and that I was going home.\n
> \n
> I went home and sobbed into my dog’s fur for several minutes. turned out he booked her a ticket without me knowing. an hour later he came home yelling and raging about how pathetic and spiteful I was to walk out and go home and ruin the trip last minute. I told him he caused this to happen. he said that I was being so hard on his mom it’s ridiculous. I refused to fight any more but he kept on berating me then called my family to tell them that the trip was cancelled and that it was because of me. My family said that I shouldn’t have ruined it for myself and should’ve sucked it up and done my best to enjoy.\n
> \n
> Did I really overreact?\n
\n
Judgement: Not the A-hole\n
\n
**UPDATE AITA for walking out of the Airport when I saw my husband’s mom standing there with her luggage?**\n
\n
**Mon, May 16, 2022**\n
\n
> Hello!.\n
> \n
> I don’t know where to begin…it’s been an absolute nightmare recently. And I feel like I was losing my sanity.\n
> \n
> So for more details about my situation. I have to admit that my husband’s mom favors him over all his siblings. this affected his relationship with them and me as well. He’s never seen an issue with how differently his mom treats him, it bothered me and made me feel uncomfortable. The whole dynamic made me feel uncomfortable. Going Low contact has never even been an option. Like he has to see her or call her everyday.\n
> \n
> Most of his siblings don’t talk to him and I 100% believe it’s because of his mom’s favoritism like I said. He does bare some blame for not seeing how wrong this is till this day.\n
> \n
> In many instances I found myself making excuses for his behavior. Even in my post. I did it spontaneously and I don’t know why. But I guess it’s because of how much I love him and because I really really wanted to be able to work things this type of things out without letting them affect our marriage.\n
> \n
> Regarding what happened with the trip, He tried to have a talk with me and most of what he said came from place of blame, Blame towards me. I just couldn’t continue with this argument. I told him I needed space and that I would be going to stay with my sister for a while. He didn’t take it well, he literally got up from the couch and opened the door telling me to go right then. In that moment and seeing how he was still not even anywhere near understanding what he has done just… made things perfectly clear to me. I just had pictured years and years of my life being lived like that and I was like no…I can’t do it, Can’t take anymore of it especially when he keeps focusing on being right every time. His mom can do no wrong. I’m always the aggressive, crazy, jealous, pathetic, overreactor.\n
> \n
> All these people’s opinions, advice and concerns were like a spark…like the wake up call I really needed. Though I wish that it didn’t get this far but what’s done is done.\n
> \n
> Right now I’m staying with my sister (I brought my dog with me as well) He sent me his last message telling I’m the one choosing to end what we had together but I believe it’s the other way around, especially with how he keeps making his mom the victim in this situation. It’s become clear now that we keep going in circles with no end in reach and I’m just so exhausted and overwhelmed. I’m not mad at him and don’t expect him to change but… at least I’m given options to decide what’s best for me and my future even if it’s separation and divorce.\n
> \n
> A big thank you to those who reached out with resources that I feel very very lucky to have come across. Just wanted to give you an update since many of you asked for it.\n
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I am not OOP\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15r3n8y/aita_for_walking_out_of_the_airport_when_i_saw_my/)
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I am not the OP. These posts were made by u/throwramalo on Reddit\n
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OOP’s original post was made to r/ relationship advice in 2021 before the subreddit implemented a rule for 18+ posts only. So when OOP tried to make a new update, he wasn’t allowed to, so he instead added it to the bottom of the post she shared on his own subreddit\n
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**Original Post: October 22nd, 2021**\n
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> I don’t live with my parents and moved into a dorm when I went to college. I’m attending out of state and moved out for personal reasons, but I moved out on decent terms because I compromised after something happened in high school. One of the reasons I moved out was because of an argument that came at the tail end of other personal things from over the years. My parents are heavily involved in their church (they’re both leaders), and long story short, they weren’t crazy about my girlfriend and preferred I date someone from the church who would share the same belief. I met my ex-girlfriend at a job I worked in high school, and it’s important to note that my sister and I were homeschooled through a group that is associated with our church. So, they didn’t like when I found someone outside of that circle and began to tell me that they “shouldn’t have let me get a job” at 16\n
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> So, as a result, they began to treat my sister differently and said that they wouldn’t let her work until she graduated, and they have been more adamant about keeping her social interaction to within the church only since I was 16ish with my ex. They also made her go through a purity course that I didn’t have to along with telling her lies about my ex being someone who slept around (at 16), and they constantly used her as an example too. I only introduced them to my ex-girlfriend out of respect I felt I owed them at the time, but if I could do it over, I wouldn’t because of how it caused them to treat my sister differently. From only church friends to purity and not letting her wear certain swimsuits or fitted clothes that “looks like something my girlfriend would wear” as they once said, I regretted it because they were strict on her because of me, and they hated my ex because she wasn’t religious and said she was why I stopped going to church around that age\n
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> After my girlfriend and I broke up eventually (when we were still in high school), I became close with my sister and tried to spend more time with her, and I also decided to attend a weeknight Bible study and take her to youth to get back in their graces, and we bonded on those drives and had some good talks (where I vented about my parents), and they even eased up on my sister somewhat after we broke up (letting her go to a sports camp in the summer that wasn’t a part of our church). I knew I wasn’t religious, but going to church felt familiar when I was depressed, and my parents easing up felt like another plus. If it meant she’d have it easier, I figured it was bearable. So, I continued to attend through graduation until I moved out and went to college on good terms, and I kept a connection with her as a result until I screwed it up recently, and that’s why I’m looking for advice\n
> \n
> My sister wanted tickets to Simone Biles’s “Gold Over America” tour for her birthday, and she told me during one of our usual calls as I’m on dorm. However, I’ve quickly come to regret it since coming home for her birthday like I always had, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to anymore. When I purchased the tickets, I surprised her with a premium pass that allowed her to be on the floor with the other performers during the final act to dance alongside them, and it also comes with a Q&A meeting among other things too. She was really excited when she received everything, and her parents seemed excited too. However, her parents called me a few days later once I went back to my dorm, and their stance was different from the night she received it. They said that they weren’t allowing her to go and pointed to the olympics as the reason why, and they blamed me for buying the tickets and said I “should’ve known better”.\n
> \n
> They pointed to how Simone Biles withdrew and said that she was “teaching girls to be soft” and compared it to participation trophies that are “supposed to make you feel good about mediocrity”. They also said that Simone was “getting a pass because everyone who’s black currently is”, and they said it was the “same as George Floyd” because people “overlooked his criminal past to push the BLM message”. They also said that “society is encouraging you to be a victim by praising her for withdrawing”, and they even said that Serena Williams got a “pass for her meltdowns because she’s black” and even called her a “bad role-model”. They also said that the phrase mental health is “being thrown around like the girls who claim Me Too” because they think that the victims are at fault, and talking to them was like talking to a brick wall no matter what I refuted. For future context, mom’s black and dad is hispanic\n
> \n
> I was not aware of their stance on Simone until they called, but I knew their stance on BLM and even talked to my sister in the past about how it was wrong during 2020 especially. I just didn’t expect them to rope their rant about Simone into it, and they said I wasn’t allowed to see her anymore because I “should’ve known better” before purchasing the tickets. My sister also hasn’t answered her phone since I spoke to them, and I fully believe that they are responsible for it. I just need advice on how to fix this situation because I feel like they’re serious about not letting me see her anymore, and I’m open to anything to fix this situation\n
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**Update: March 21st, 2022**\n
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> As of writing, I’m currently on a break from school to focus more on work, but I plan to go back soon to finish my bachelors. I also haven’t been able to see my sister since my last update where my parents said they didn’t want me around her anymore, and that included taking her to church too. I was really hard on myself for giving the tickets because I felt it ruined everything we had, but I’ve since found a therapist who’s been really helpful, and she is the reason I’m updating. I was very sheltered growing up because of homeschooling, but talking to her has really been eye-opening too\n
> \n
> My therapist helped me realize my mistake in going back to church in high school for the reasons that I did; the breakup with my high school ex that had me really down, and because I felt guilty for my parents being strict on my sister as a result of me getting a girlfriend. I convinced myself that I could make her life easier by returning to church and getting to drive her (to youth) that gave us time to talk in the car away from my parents (about many of their harmful views), but my therapist said that my parents never eased up; they simply dangled privileges because their love was conditional and based on church. She also said that they were a ticking time bomb because their end goal was probably to get me to return to church more than just Wednesday Bible study, but me buying the tickets was probably their last straw\n
> \n
> She said that my parent’s treatment of my sister was not my fault, but solely theirs because I was in high school and that I felt the need to take it on myself. I’m trying to do better while continuing with my therapist, and we established that I’ll no longer keep any communication with my parents. In regards to my sister, she said she could probably find ways to reach me if she truly wanted to someday (from friends who know me or when she gets her own devices someday). My therapist also told me not to beat myself up because until meeting her, I barely had any outside opinions that could give advice (I knew people at my job in high school, but we weren’t close except for my ex, and I was introverted in college too). She also said that religious people can be really conditional in their love and especially in the case of really religious parents, and talking to her has taught me so much that I never knew from being homeschooled. I believe I’ll hear from her again someday, but my therapist is suggesting working on myself at the moment and trying to be stable enough to be able to give her a place one day potentially since my parents won’t let her work, and that’s pretty much my only goal right now\n
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I am not OOP\n
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Original: [reddit.com/…/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16185s9/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_to_simone/)
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I am not the OP. These posts were made by u/throwramalo on Reddit\n
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OOP’s original post was made to r/ relationship advice in 2021 before the subreddit implemented a rule for 18+ posts only. So when OOP tried to make a new update, he wasn’t allowed to, so he instead added it to the bottom of the post she shared on his own subreddit\n
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**Original Post: October 22nd, 2021**\n
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> I don’t live with my parents and moved into a dorm when I went to college. I’m attending out of state and moved out for personal reasons, but I moved out on decent terms because I compromised after something happened in high school. One of the reasons I moved out was because of an argument that came at the tail end of other personal things from over the years. My parents are heavily involved in their church (they’re both leaders), and long story short, they weren’t crazy about my girlfriend and preferred I date someone from the church who would share the same belief. I met my ex-girlfriend at a job I worked in high school, and it’s important to note that my sister and I were homeschooled through a group that is associated with our church. So, they didn’t like when I found someone outside of that circle and began to tell me that they “shouldn’t have let me get a job” at 16\n
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> So, as a result, they began to treat my sister differently and said that they wouldn’t let her work until she graduated, and they have been more adamant about keeping her social interaction to within the church only since I was 16ish with my ex. They also made her go through a purity course that I didn’t have to along with telling her lies about my ex being someone who slept around (at 16), and they constantly used her as an example too. I only introduced them to my ex-girlfriend out of respect I felt I owed them at the time, but if I could do it over, I wouldn’t because of how it caused them to treat my sister differently. From only church friends to purity and not letting her wear certain swimsuits or fitted clothes that “looks like something my girlfriend would wear” as they once said, I regretted it because they were strict on her because of me, and they hated my ex because she wasn’t religious and said she was why I stopped going to church around that age\n
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> After my girlfriend and I broke up eventually (when we were still in high school), I became close with my sister and tried to spend more time with her, and I also decided to attend a weeknight Bible study and take her to youth to get back in their graces, and we bonded on those drives and had some good talks (where I vented about my parents), and they even eased up on my sister somewhat after we broke up (letting her go to a sports camp in the summer that wasn’t a part of our church). I knew I wasn’t religious, but going to church felt familiar when I was depressed, and my parents easing up felt like another plus. If it meant she’d have it easier, I figured it was bearable. So, I continued to attend through graduation until I moved out and went to college on good terms, and I kept a connection with her as a result until I screwed it up recently, and that’s why I’m looking for advice\n
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> My sister wanted tickets to Simone Biles’s “Gold Over America” tour for her birthday, and she told me during one of our usual calls as I’m on dorm. However, I’ve quickly come to regret it since coming home for her birthday like I always had, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to anymore. When I purchased the tickets, I surprised her with a premium pass that allowed her to be on the floor with the other performers during the final act to dance alongside them, and it also comes with a Q&A meeting among other things too. She was really excited when she received everything, and her parents seemed excited too. However, her parents called me a few days later once I went back to my dorm, and their stance was different from the night she received it. They said that they weren’t allowing her to go and pointed to the olympics as the reason why, and they blamed me for buying the tickets and said I “should’ve known better”.\n
> \n
> They pointed to how Simone Biles withdrew and said that she was “teaching girls to be soft” and compared it to participation trophies that are “supposed to make you feel good about mediocrity”. They also said that Simone was “getting a pass because everyone who’s black currently is”, and they said it was the “same as George Floyd” because people “overlooked his criminal past to push the BLM message”. They also said that “society is encouraging you to be a victim by praising her for withdrawing”, and they even said that Serena Williams got a “pass for her meltdowns because she’s black” and even called her a “bad role-model”. They also said that the phrase mental health is “being thrown around like the girls who claim Me Too” because they think that the victims are at fault, and talking to them was like talking to a brick wall no matter what I refuted. For future context, mom’s black and dad is hispanic\n
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> I was not aware of their stance on Simone until they called, but I knew their stance on BLM and even talked to my sister in the past about how it was wrong during 2020 especially. I just didn’t expect them to rope their rant about Simone into it, and they said I wasn’t allowed to see her anymore because I “should’ve known better” before purchasing the tickets. My sister also hasn’t answered her phone since I spoke to them, and I fully believe that they are responsible for it. I just need advice on how to fix this situation because I feel like they’re serious about not letting me see her anymore, and I’m open to anything to fix this situation\n
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**Update: March 21st, 2022**\n
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> As of writing, I’m currently on a break from school to focus more on work, but I plan to go back soon to finish my bachelors. I also haven’t been able to see my sister since my last update where my parents said they didn’t want me around her anymore, and that included taking her to church too. I was really hard on myself for giving the tickets because I felt it ruined everything we had, but I’ve since found a therapist who’s been really helpful, and she is the reason I’m updating. I was very sheltered growing up because of homeschooling, but talking to her has really been eye-opening too\n
> \n
> My therapist helped me realize my mistake in going back to church in high school for the reasons that I did; the breakup with my high school ex that had me really down, and because I felt guilty for my parents being strict on my sister as a result of me getting a girlfriend. I convinced myself that I could make her life easier by returning to church and getting to drive her (to youth) that gave us time to talk in the car away from my parents (about many of their harmful views), but my therapist said that my parents never eased up; they simply dangled privileges because their love was conditional and based on church. She also said that they were a ticking time bomb because their end goal was probably to get me to return to church more than just Wednesday Bible study, but me buying the tickets was probably their last straw\n
> \n
> She said that my parent’s treatment of my sister was not my fault, but solely theirs because I was in high school and that I felt the need to take it on myself. I’m trying to do better while continuing with my therapist, and we established that I’ll no longer keep any communication with my parents. In regards to my sister, she said she could probably find ways to reach me if she truly wanted to someday (from friends who know me or when she gets her own devices someday). My therapist also told me not to beat myself up because until meeting her, I barely had any outside opinions that could give advice (I knew people at my job in high school, but we weren’t close except for my ex, and I was introverted in college too). She also said that religious people can be really conditional in their love and especially in the case of really religious parents, and talking to her has taught me so much that I never knew from being homeschooled. I believe I’ll hear from her again someday, but my therapist is suggesting working on myself at the moment and trying to be stable enough to be able to give her a place one day potentially since my parents won’t let her work, and that’s pretty much my only goal right now\n
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I am not OOP\n
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Original: [reddit.com/…/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16185s9/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_to_simone/)
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> I don’t live with my parents and moved into a dorm when I went to college. I’m attending out of state and moved out for personal reasons, but I moved out on decent terms because I compromised after something happened in high school. One of the reasons I moved out was because of an argument that came at the tail end of other personal things from over the years. My parents are heavily involved in their church (they’re both leaders), and long story short, they weren’t crazy about my girlfriend and preferred I date someone from the church who would share the same belief. I met my ex-girlfriend at a job I worked in high school, and it’s important to note that my sister and I were homeschooled through a group that is associated with our church. So, they didn’t like when I found someone outside of that circle and began to tell me that they “shouldn’t have let me get a job” at 16\n
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> So, as a result, they began to treat my sister differently and said that they wouldn’t let her work until she graduated, and they have been more adamant about keeping her social interaction to within the church only since I was 16ish with my ex. They also made her go through a purity course that I didn’t have to along with telling her lies about my ex being someone who slept around (at 16), and they constantly used her as an example too. I only introduced them to my ex-girlfriend out of respect I felt I owed them at the time, but if I could do it over, I wouldn’t because of how it caused them to treat my sister differently. From only church friends to purity and not letting her wear certain swimsuits or fitted clothes that “looks like something my girlfriend would wear” as they once said, I regretted it because they were strict on her because of me, and they hated my ex because she wasn’t religious and said she was why I stopped going to church around that age\n
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> After my girlfriend and I broke up eventually (when we were still in high school), I became close with my sister and tried to spend more time with her, and I also decided to attend a weeknight Bible study and take her to youth to get back in their graces, and we bonded on those drives and had some good talks (where I vented about my parents), and they even eased up on my sister somewhat after we broke up (letting her go to a sports camp in the summer that wasn’t a part of our church). I knew I wasn’t religious, but going to church felt familiar when I was depressed, and my parents easing up felt like another plus. If it meant she’d have it easier, I figured it was bearable. So, I continued to attend through graduation until I moved out and went to college on good terms, and I kept a connection with her as a result until I screwed it up recently, and that’s why I’m looking for advice\n
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> My sister wanted tickets to Simone Biles’s “Gold Over America” tour for her birthday, and she told me during one of our usual calls as I’m on dorm. However, I’ve quickly come to regret it since coming home for her birthday like I always had, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to anymore. When I purchased the tickets, I surprised her with a premium pass that allowed her to be on the floor with the other performers during the final act to dance alongside them, and it also comes with a Q&A meeting among other things too. She was really excited when she received everything, and her parents seemed excited too. However, her parents called me a few days later once I went back to my dorm, and their stance was different from the night she received it. They said that they weren’t allowing her to go and pointed to the olympics as the reason why, and they blamed me for buying the tickets and said I “should’ve known better”.\n
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> They pointed to how Simone Biles withdrew and said that she was “teaching girls to be soft” and compared it to participation trophies that are “supposed to make you feel good about mediocrity”. They also said that Simone was “getting a pass because everyone who’s black currently is”, and they said it was the “same as George Floyd” because people “overlooked his criminal past to push the BLM message”. They also said that “society is encouraging you to be a victim by praising her for withdrawing”, and they even said that Serena Williams got a “pass for her meltdowns because she’s black” and even called her a “bad role-model”. They also said that the phrase mental health is “being thrown around like the girls who claim Me Too” because they think that the victims are at fault, and talking to them was like talking to a brick wall no matter what I refuted. For future context, mom’s black and dad is hispanic\n
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> I was not aware of their stance on Simone until they called, but I knew their stance on BLM and even talked to my sister in the past about how it was wrong during 2020 especially. I just didn’t expect them to rope their rant about Simone into it, and they said I wasn’t allowed to see her anymore because I “should’ve known better” before purchasing the tickets. My sister also hasn’t answered her phone since I spoke to them, and I fully believe that they are responsible for it. I just need advice on how to fix this situation because I feel like they’re serious about not letting me see her anymore, and I’m open to anything to fix this situation\n
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> As of writing, I’m currently on a break from school to focus more on work, but I plan to go back soon to finish my bachelors. I also haven’t been able to see my sister since my last update where my parents said they didn’t want me around her anymore, and that included taking her to church too. I was really hard on myself for giving the tickets because I felt it ruined everything we had, but I’ve since found a therapist who’s been really helpful, and she is the reason I’m updating. I was very sheltered growing up because of homeschooling, but talking to her has really been eye-opening too\n
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> My therapist helped me realize my mistake in going back to church in high school for the reasons that I did; the breakup with my high school ex that had me really down, and because I felt guilty for my parents being strict on my sister as a result of me getting a girlfriend. I convinced myself that I could make her life easier by returning to church and getting to drive her (to youth) that gave us time to talk in the car away from my parents (about many of their harmful views), but my therapist said that my parents never eased up; they simply dangled privileges because their love was conditional and based on church. She also said that they were a ticking time bomb because their end goal was probably to get me to return to church more than just Wednesday Bible study, but me buying the tickets was probably their last straw\n
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I am not OOP\n
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Original: [reddit.com/…/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/16185s9/im20_purchased_my_sisterf13_tickets_to_simone/)
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> Sometimes my son get overstimulated and decides that he doesn’t was to go a few minutes into our walk so we just cut it short and today was 1 of these days.\n
> \n
> My boyfriend asked why we were back so early and I said that son didn’t feel comfortable so we came back and he flipped out on me, saying that is my fault and that I told him to get out so much that he felt pressed to come with me when he clearly didn’t want to.\n
> \n
> I don’t know what to think. I don’t see what I did as wrong, I only asked if he wanted to come with me, never told him to. Did I do something wrong here?\n
> \n
> EDIT: for the people asking/telling me to put my son in therapy: he is and has been for the past few months.\n
\n
VERDICT: NOT THE ASSHOLE\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
Travelcat67\n
\n
> Info: is your son being treated for his agoraphobia?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> Yes, he goes to a terapist about it and I’m also trying to get him more comfortable with coming out of the house by trying to take him with me.\n
\n
- \n
\n
StAlvis\n
\n
> INFO What strategies has your son’s psychologist advised for dealing with this disorder?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> I had to ask him to make sure I get everything right bet here you go:\n
> \n
> - going on walks and trying to make all of them a bit longer than the last one.\n
> - breathing exercises to help with his panick attacks and learning how to control them.\n
> - playing outside/ on the balcony(context: plays guitar and his room has a balcony).\n
> \n
> Along a few other things that I don’t know over the top of my head.\n
\n
**Update Aug 20, 2023**\n
\n
> Hello everyone, I will start off by thanking you for all the comments on my last post, due to some problems in the relationship with my boyfriend I sometimes had a hard time realising when I was in the wrong or when I didn’t do anything bad, as for the case in my previous post.\n
> \n
> I broke up with him over a month ago, partially thanks to the comments that made me pay more attention to him and realize how manipulative he was and a heated argument he had with my son while I was walking the dog. I could stand a lot from him and regret how many times I told myself to suck it up when he’d say something to me but always drew the line at my kid. It didn’t happen before but it does not need to happen more than once for him to make a habit out of it so I put it to a stop as I felt like it was the safest way.\n
> \n
> Regarding my son, he is doing good now and thanks to his therapist he has been getting better. He got his diagnosis in January and this Thursday he broke his record for our longest walk since, almost three hours. He also started getting out without me, thanks to one of his friends whom he met on a game about a year ago who recently moved to our city, I met him and his parents and they seem like amazing people so we did hand out at each other’s houses since.\n
> \n
> We do still have a lot to work on but I am happy to say that things are getting much better.\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
Arcadia7235\n
\n
> Do you think it’s a coincidence that your son is now progressing mentally now that the boyfriend is gone?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> Personally I think is mostly terapy, as he was progressing even with my boyfriend around but I won’t say is out of the quiestion. I didn’t catch it before and and I asked him(both then and some time later) if he’s sure it was the first time and he said yes.\n
> \n
> Now truth is that they had arguments before but not anything very serious as far as I am aware yet the case for this post is a physical fight but I was not allowed to say it in the post due to the subs rules being zero violence and updates are checked by admins before being posted so I was told to remove it.\n
\n
THIS IS A REPOST - I AM NOT THE OOP\n
\n
Original: [reddit.com/…/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_o…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/162fysg/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_out_of_the/)
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I am not The OOP, OOP is u/No-Idea4550 on Reddit\n
\n
AITA for taking my agoraphobic son out of the house?\n
\n
Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole\n
\n
TRIGGER WARNING: controlling behavior\n
\n
**Original Post June 22, 2023**\n
\n
> I have seen some people post some stories here so I decided to make an account and look for an outside perspective:\n
> \n
> I(31F) have a son(15M) that I gave birth to at 16. It was a dumb mistake and it gave me a bunch of struggles but I don’t regret it now.\n
> \n
> My son is agoraphobc and only gets out of the house to go to school. He has been on summer break for the past week but he didn’t go to school in his last week so he had been insiide for the past about 2 weeks.\n
> \n
> I made a habbit that whenever I walk my dog I ask him if he wants to come and he has denied me for the past 2 weeks. He doesn’t come most of the time but usualy does so about once a week.\n
> \n
> Today when I was getting ready he came up to me and asked if he could come with us and of course I said yes.\n
> \n
> On the other hand, my boyfriend(34M) has a big problem with this for whatever reason.\n
> \n
> Sometimes my son get overstimulated and decides that he doesn’t was to go a few minutes into our walk so we just cut it short and today was 1 of these days.\n
> \n
> My boyfriend asked why we were back so early and I said that son didn’t feel comfortable so we came back and he flipped out on me, saying that is my fault and that I told him to get out so much that he felt pressed to come with me when he clearly didn’t want to.\n
> \n
> I don’t know what to think. I don’t see what I did as wrong, I only asked if he wanted to come with me, never told him to. Did I do something wrong here?\n
> \n
> EDIT: for the people asking/telling me to put my son in therapy: he is and has been for the past few months.\n
\n
VERDICT: NOT THE ASSHOLE\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
Travelcat67\n
\n
> Info: is your son being treated for his agoraphobia?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> Yes, he goes to a terapist about it and I’m also trying to get him more comfortable with coming out of the house by trying to take him with me.\n
\n
- \n
\n
StAlvis\n
\n
> INFO What strategies has your son’s psychologist advised for dealing with this disorder?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> I had to ask him to make sure I get everything right bet here you go:\n
> \n
> - going on walks and trying to make all of them a bit longer than the last one.\n
> - breathing exercises to help with his panick attacks and learning how to control them.\n
> - playing outside/ on the balcony(context: plays guitar and his room has a balcony).\n
> \n
> Along a few other things that I don’t know over the top of my head.\n
\n
**Update Aug 20, 2023**\n
\n
> Hello everyone, I will start off by thanking you for all the comments on my last post, due to some problems in the relationship with my boyfriend I sometimes had a hard time realising when I was in the wrong or when I didn’t do anything bad, as for the case in my previous post.\n
> \n
> I broke up with him over a month ago, partially thanks to the comments that made me pay more attention to him and realize how manipulative he was and a heated argument he had with my son while I was walking the dog. I could stand a lot from him and regret how many times I told myself to suck it up when he’d say something to me but always drew the line at my kid. It didn’t happen before but it does not need to happen more than once for him to make a habit out of it so I put it to a stop as I felt like it was the safest way.\n
> \n
> Regarding my son, he is doing good now and thanks to his therapist he has been getting better. He got his diagnosis in January and this Thursday he broke his record for our longest walk since, almost three hours. He also started getting out without me, thanks to one of his friends whom he met on a game about a year ago who recently moved to our city, I met him and his parents and they seem like amazing people so we did hand out at each other’s houses since.\n
> \n
> We do still have a lot to work on but I am happy to say that things are getting much better.\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
Arcadia7235\n
\n
> Do you think it’s a coincidence that your son is now progressing mentally now that the boyfriend is gone?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> Personally I think is mostly terapy, as he was progressing even with my boyfriend around but I won’t say is out of the quiestion. I didn’t catch it before and and I asked him(both then and some time later) if he’s sure it was the first time and he said yes.\n
> \n
> Now truth is that they had arguments before but not anything very serious as far as I am aware yet the case for this post is a physical fight but I was not allowed to say it in the post due to the subs rules being zero violence and updates are checked by admins before being posted so I was told to remove it.\n
\n
THIS IS A REPOST - I AM NOT THE OOP\n
\n
Original: [reddit.com/…/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_o…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/162fysg/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_out_of_the/)
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I am not The OOP, OOP is u/No-Idea4550 on Reddit\n
\n
AITA for taking my agoraphobic son out of the house?\n
\n
Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole\n
\n
TRIGGER WARNING: controlling behavior\n
\n
**Original Post June 22, 2023**\n
\n
> I have seen some people post some stories here so I decided to make an account and look for an outside perspective:\n
> \n
> I(31F) have a son(15M) that I gave birth to at 16. It was a dumb mistake and it gave me a bunch of struggles but I don’t regret it now.\n
> \n
> My son is agoraphobc and only gets out of the house to go to school. He has been on summer break for the past week but he didn’t go to school in his last week so he had been insiide for the past about 2 weeks.\n
> \n
> I made a habbit that whenever I walk my dog I ask him if he wants to come and he has denied me for the past 2 weeks. He doesn’t come most of the time but usualy does so about once a week.\n
> \n
> Today when I was getting ready he came up to me and asked if he could come with us and of course I said yes.\n
> \n
> On the other hand, my boyfriend(34M) has a big problem with this for whatever reason.\n
> \n
> Sometimes my son get overstimulated and decides that he doesn’t was to go a few minutes into our walk so we just cut it short and today was 1 of these days.\n
> \n
> My boyfriend asked why we were back so early and I said that son didn’t feel comfortable so we came back and he flipped out on me, saying that is my fault and that I told him to get out so much that he felt pressed to come with me when he clearly didn’t want to.\n
> \n
> I don’t know what to think. I don’t see what I did as wrong, I only asked if he wanted to come with me, never told him to. Did I do something wrong here?\n
> \n
> EDIT: for the people asking/telling me to put my son in therapy: he is and has been for the past few months.\n
\n
VERDICT: NOT THE ASSHOLE\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
Travelcat67\n
\n
> Info: is your son being treated for his agoraphobia?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> Yes, he goes to a terapist about it and I’m also trying to get him more comfortable with coming out of the house by trying to take him with me.\n
\n
- \n
\n
StAlvis\n
\n
> INFO What strategies has your son’s psychologist advised for dealing with this disorder?\n
\n
OOP replied\n
\n
> I had to ask him to make sure I get everything right bet here you go:\n
> \n
> - going on walks and trying to make all of them a bit longer than the last one.\n
> - breathing exercises to help with his panick attacks and learning how to control them.\n
> - playing outside/ on the balcony(context: plays guitar and his room has a balcony).\n
> \n
> Along a few other things that I don’t know over the top of my head.\n
\n
**Update Aug 20, 2023**\n
\n
> Hello everyone, I will start off by thanking you for all the comments on my last post, due to some problems in the relationship with my boyfriend I sometimes had a hard time realising when I was in the wrong or when I didn’t do anything bad, as for the case in my previous post.\n
> \n
> I broke up with him over a month ago, partially thanks to the comments that made me pay more attention to him and realize how manipulative he was and a heated argument he had with my son while I was walking the dog. I could stand a lot from him and regret how many times I told myself to suck it up when he’d say something to me but always drew the line at my kid. It didn’t happen before but it does not need to happen more than once for him to make a habit out of it so I put it to a stop as I felt like it was the safest way.\n
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> Regarding my son, he is doing good now and thanks to his therapist he has been getting better. He got his diagnosis in January and this Thursday he broke his record for our longest walk since, almost three hours. He also started getting out without me, thanks to one of his friends whom he met on a game about a year ago who recently moved to our city, I met him and his parents and they seem like amazing people so we did hand out at each other’s houses since.\n
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> We do still have a lot to work on but I am happy to say that things are getting much better.\n
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> Do you think it’s a coincidence that your son is now progressing mentally now that the boyfriend is gone?\n
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> Personally I think is mostly terapy, as he was progressing even with my boyfriend around but I won’t say is out of the quiestion. I didn’t catch it before and and I asked him(both then and some time later) if he’s sure it was the first time and he said yes.\n
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> Now truth is that they had arguments before but not anything very serious as far as I am aware yet the case for this post is a physical fight but I was not allowed to say it in the post due to the subs rules being zero violence and updates are checked by admins before being posted so I was told to remove it.\n
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THIS IS A REPOST - I AM NOT THE OOP\n
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Original: [reddit.com/…/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_o…](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/162fysg/aita_for_taking_my_agoraphobic_son_out_of_the/)
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- [!femalefashionadvice@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/c/femalefashionadvice) (9 MAU)\n
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Also, please note that those communities are suffering from the current tedious discoverability of new content on Lemmy. I’m hoping to make them more popular with this post, as I’m sure those are topics that can interest a lot of people.\n
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Another thing to keep in mind is that Lemmy cannot replace 18 years of content creation overnight. It will take time for those communities to grow to the same level of content and activity than there counterpart, but with a bit of time, we’ll get there.\n
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The first place to look for is [lemmyverse.net](https://lemmyverse.net), but Lemmy.world communities are currently excluded for some reason ([github.com/tgxn/lemmy-explorer/issues/139](https://github.com/tgxn/lemmy-explorer/issues/139)).\n
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A second place is this community: [!newcommunities@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/c/newcommunities). People tend to promote their communities there, you can also ask for a community you are looking for.\n
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Finally, [!trendingcommunities@feddit.nl](https://feddit.nl/c/trendingcommunities) provides a daily report of communities becoming popular.
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