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[**i think something very bad happened to my sister**](%5Bhttps://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/%5D(https://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/)) (recovered with unddit as post was deleted) - 3 weeks ago\n
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Throw away because this is seriously terrifying.\n
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I scope reddit a lot and I really don’t know where to go, but I hope I can be helped here. I’m 14M, I’m American but live in Asia, being vauge because I don’t want this traced back to me if the situation is as bad as it seems.\n
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I don’t know if I should give some sort of background or anything, but up until about 7 months ago, I lived with my Mom (39) and my dad (41) plus my little sister(9). I say was because my sister is no longer here, she’s in “boarding school”.\n
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I want to preface this by saying we are not bad kids, we’re half white, half Asian, when my grandpa (in dads side) got sick 4 years ago we moved here so my dad can take care of him. Me and my sister worked hard to learn the language, despite her age, she actually caught on better than me and I was so impressed with her.\n
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The issue began with grandma, she would really look down on my sister and I love my sister and didn’t like it one bit. My mom said its cultural and I shouldn’t make a fuss but it was hard when grandma really started making it obvious, she got me clothes, games, etc, but my sis got no attention. I should mention that 4 years ago, we lived with Grandpa and Grandma, in that time of me getting spoiled, my sister got repremandd for everything she did, I swear, it was super unfair you wouldn’t believe.\n
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Just under a year ago grandpa passed and my parents decided we’d stay here since I already speak and read pretty fluently. Grandma spoke to everyone about how rude and unladylike my sister is and my parents went along with it when I completely think that’s wrong! Seven months ago her and Grandma went out and my parents said she’d be at boarding school for the summer- JUST the summer.\n
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After 3 months I got anxious and asked when she’d be back and my ended up crying at the question, I was talked to by my dad and he said she loved boarding school so much she didn’t want to come back yet. Like…??? Is that how boarding school works? I don’t think so, maybe I’ve been watching to much TV or reading to much reddit, but we’re in another country and I swear what they were doing was emotional abuse.\n
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Still, it gets worse, after 5 months, I still hadn’t gotten any contact, no message, no letters, nothing, and that’s when my dad started making her room into his office space. We actually got into a big fight over it and I ended up with more chores, but he never answered why he was doing it if she’d be back soon. Anyway, it’s now been 7 months since that car trip that took my sister away and the final nail in the coffin hit, I was looking through the attic for my mom and found a box with some of her old stuff, including her phone. Why wouldn’t she have her phone?\n
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I really just want to know if there’s anything I can do, no one will tell me which boarding school she’s at, I’m told not to worry about it because I’m a child. I know I’m to young to do much but if there’s anything I can do, please help. When I think about it I can’t stop remembering the way my mom cried that day, it makes me shiver, I’ve been imagining the worst and I’d hate if it ended up being something along my mind.\n
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[****Update: Haven’t seen my sister in a long while.****](%5Bhttps://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/%5D(https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/)) - 8 days ago\n
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Hi Reddit! Its been a crazy few weeks but I absolutely needed to update as soon as possible. Sorry my post got locked ans I appreciate everyone who spoke to me via DMs, sorry to those I couldn’t get to- it was a lot.\n
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I should get on with the most important of the update, what I finally ended up doing. So thanks to the super community that is reddit, I was able to get in touch with a few different sources, the least favorite of which was a phone call towards those that help find trafficked children. I knew my family would be investigated and actually went to meet up with another family in that time, so basically, a redditor close to my age, who I’ll keep private, met with me and she had already showed my story to her family.\n
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They ended up letting me stay with them for a bit and made the proper calls to make sure it wasn’t illegal, I actually even specified that I wasn’t running from home, and I’d come back after the investigation. It didn’t sit so well with authorities and I was actually forced to go back home, but it only got stranger from there.\n
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I went back home to a completely empty house, even Grandma was gone, so I was allowed to stay with the other family for the time being. They were extremely kind, for a week I didn’t get any news and, bless her mother’s heart but I was told I had a home here no matter the results. So, a few days after a week had passed, I get a call and it turns out they found my sister!\n
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My family had been taken in for questioning and were placed in holding for quite a while, I’m not sure why they didn’t tell me this immediately though. I don’t actually know the full story, but my sister was living close 700 Kilometers away, yeah, nearly a whole days drive, it wasn’t summer school, or boarding school, or anything like that- My Dad sold her to get married.\n
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My mom was off the hook as 1, I still needed a parent, and 2, she wasn’t in on it until it was a decent way in. My dad and grandma have been arrested though and I’m back living with my mom and sister now. I’m still in contact with rhe redditor that let me stay with her and I’ll forever be greatful, I have no idea what would have happened if I was around when authorities came knocking. She’s my angel!\n
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On a more depressing note, my sister doesn’t speak much, but she seemed to cheer up after I let her read my post. She said she felt abandoned and alone, among other things, but seeing how I and plenty of strangers gave their hearts for her made her very happy so thank you all.\n
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Sorry for being ao vauge here but I’m trying to protect identities. This isn’t over by a long shot, there’s still things that are going to happen, but I have my sister, and that’s all thanks to reddit. Thank you.\n
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OP note: I’m marking this concluded for now because they got her back\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wfjbwu/oops_9_year_old_sister_was_sent_to_boarding/)
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/throwawaygodimawful](/u/throwawaygodimawful) in [r/legaladvice](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice)**\n
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[**i think something very bad happened to my sister**](%5Bhttps://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/%5D(https://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/)) (recovered with unddit as post was deleted) - 3 weeks ago\n
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Throw away because this is seriously terrifying.\n
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I scope reddit a lot and I really don’t know where to go, but I hope I can be helped here. I’m 14M, I’m American but live in Asia, being vauge because I don’t want this traced back to me if the situation is as bad as it seems.\n
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I don’t know if I should give some sort of background or anything, but up until about 7 months ago, I lived with my Mom (39) and my dad (41) plus my little sister(9). I say was because my sister is no longer here, she’s in “boarding school”.\n
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I want to preface this by saying we are not bad kids, we’re half white, half Asian, when my grandpa (in dads side) got sick 4 years ago we moved here so my dad can take care of him. Me and my sister worked hard to learn the language, despite her age, she actually caught on better than me and I was so impressed with her.\n
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The issue began with grandma, she would really look down on my sister and I love my sister and didn’t like it one bit. My mom said its cultural and I shouldn’t make a fuss but it was hard when grandma really started making it obvious, she got me clothes, games, etc, but my sis got no attention. I should mention that 4 years ago, we lived with Grandpa and Grandma, in that time of me getting spoiled, my sister got repremandd for everything she did, I swear, it was super unfair you wouldn’t believe.\n
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Just under a year ago grandpa passed and my parents decided we’d stay here since I already speak and read pretty fluently. Grandma spoke to everyone about how rude and unladylike my sister is and my parents went along with it when I completely think that’s wrong! Seven months ago her and Grandma went out and my parents said she’d be at boarding school for the summer- JUST the summer.\n
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After 3 months I got anxious and asked when she’d be back and my ended up crying at the question, I was talked to by my dad and he said she loved boarding school so much she didn’t want to come back yet. Like…??? Is that how boarding school works? I don’t think so, maybe I’ve been watching to much TV or reading to much reddit, but we’re in another country and I swear what they were doing was emotional abuse.\n
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Still, it gets worse, after 5 months, I still hadn’t gotten any contact, no message, no letters, nothing, and that’s when my dad started making her room into his office space. We actually got into a big fight over it and I ended up with more chores, but he never answered why he was doing it if she’d be back soon. Anyway, it’s now been 7 months since that car trip that took my sister away and the final nail in the coffin hit, I was looking through the attic for my mom and found a box with some of her old stuff, including her phone. Why wouldn’t she have her phone?\n
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I really just want to know if there’s anything I can do, no one will tell me which boarding school she’s at, I’m told not to worry about it because I’m a child. I know I’m to young to do much but if there’s anything I can do, please help. When I think about it I can’t stop remembering the way my mom cried that day, it makes me shiver, I’ve been imagining the worst and I’d hate if it ended up being something along my mind.\n
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[****Update: Haven’t seen my sister in a long while.****](%5Bhttps://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/%5D(https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/)) - 8 days ago\n
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Hi Reddit! Its been a crazy few weeks but I absolutely needed to update as soon as possible. Sorry my post got locked ans I appreciate everyone who spoke to me via DMs, sorry to those I couldn’t get to- it was a lot.\n
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I should get on with the most important of the update, what I finally ended up doing. So thanks to the super community that is reddit, I was able to get in touch with a few different sources, the least favorite of which was a phone call towards those that help find trafficked children. I knew my family would be investigated and actually went to meet up with another family in that time, so basically, a redditor close to my age, who I’ll keep private, met with me and she had already showed my story to her family.\n
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They ended up letting me stay with them for a bit and made the proper calls to make sure it wasn’t illegal, I actually even specified that I wasn’t running from home, and I’d come back after the investigation. It didn’t sit so well with authorities and I was actually forced to go back home, but it only got stranger from there.\n
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I went back home to a completely empty house, even Grandma was gone, so I was allowed to stay with the other family for the time being. They were extremely kind, for a week I didn’t get any news and, bless her mother’s heart but I was told I had a home here no matter the results. So, a few days after a week had passed, I get a call and it turns out they found my sister!\n
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My family had been taken in for questioning and were placed in holding for quite a while, I’m not sure why they didn’t tell me this immediately though. I don’t actually know the full story, but my sister was living close 700 Kilometers away, yeah, nearly a whole days drive, it wasn’t summer school, or boarding school, or anything like that- My Dad sold her to get married.\n
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My mom was off the hook as 1, I still needed a parent, and 2, she wasn’t in on it until it was a decent way in. My dad and grandma have been arrested though and I’m back living with my mom and sister now. I’m still in contact with rhe redditor that let me stay with her and I’ll forever be greatful, I have no idea what would have happened if I was around when authorities came knocking. She’s my angel!\n
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On a more depressing note, my sister doesn’t speak much, but she seemed to cheer up after I let her read my post. She said she felt abandoned and alone, among other things, but seeing how I and plenty of strangers gave their hearts for her made her very happy so thank you all.\n
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Sorry for being ao vauge here but I’m trying to protect identities. This isn’t over by a long shot, there’s still things that are going to happen, but I have my sister, and that’s all thanks to reddit. Thank you.\n
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OP note: I’m marking this concluded for now because they got her back\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wfjbwu/oops_9_year_old_sister_was_sent_to_boarding/)
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/throwawaygodimawful](/u/throwawaygodimawful) in [r/legaladvice](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice)**\n
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trigger warnings:\n
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show spoilerhuman trafficking, child abuse\n
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show spoilerhorrifying, but the ending is hopeful\n
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[**i think something very bad happened to my sister**](%5Bhttps://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/%5D(https://www.unddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/vuhwrz/i_think_something_very_bad_happened_to_my_sister/)) (recovered with unddit as post was deleted) - 3 weeks ago\n
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Throw away because this is seriously terrifying.\n
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I scope reddit a lot and I really don’t know where to go, but I hope I can be helped here. I’m 14M, I’m American but live in Asia, being vauge because I don’t want this traced back to me if the situation is as bad as it seems.\n
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I don’t know if I should give some sort of background or anything, but up until about 7 months ago, I lived with my Mom (39) and my dad (41) plus my little sister(9). I say was because my sister is no longer here, she’s in “boarding school”.\n
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I want to preface this by saying we are not bad kids, we’re half white, half Asian, when my grandpa (in dads side) got sick 4 years ago we moved here so my dad can take care of him. Me and my sister worked hard to learn the language, despite her age, she actually caught on better than me and I was so impressed with her.\n
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The issue began with grandma, she would really look down on my sister and I love my sister and didn’t like it one bit. My mom said its cultural and I shouldn’t make a fuss but it was hard when grandma really started making it obvious, she got me clothes, games, etc, but my sis got no attention. I should mention that 4 years ago, we lived with Grandpa and Grandma, in that time of me getting spoiled, my sister got repremandd for everything she did, I swear, it was super unfair you wouldn’t believe.\n
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Just under a year ago grandpa passed and my parents decided we’d stay here since I already speak and read pretty fluently. Grandma spoke to everyone about how rude and unladylike my sister is and my parents went along with it when I completely think that’s wrong! Seven months ago her and Grandma went out and my parents said she’d be at boarding school for the summer- JUST the summer.\n
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After 3 months I got anxious and asked when she’d be back and my ended up crying at the question, I was talked to by my dad and he said she loved boarding school so much she didn’t want to come back yet. Like…??? Is that how boarding school works? I don’t think so, maybe I’ve been watching to much TV or reading to much reddit, but we’re in another country and I swear what they were doing was emotional abuse.\n
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Still, it gets worse, after 5 months, I still hadn’t gotten any contact, no message, no letters, nothing, and that’s when my dad started making her room into his office space. We actually got into a big fight over it and I ended up with more chores, but he never answered why he was doing it if she’d be back soon. Anyway, it’s now been 7 months since that car trip that took my sister away and the final nail in the coffin hit, I was looking through the attic for my mom and found a box with some of her old stuff, including her phone. Why wouldn’t she have her phone?\n
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I really just want to know if there’s anything I can do, no one will tell me which boarding school she’s at, I’m told not to worry about it because I’m a child. I know I’m to young to do much but if there’s anything I can do, please help. When I think about it I can’t stop remembering the way my mom cried that day, it makes me shiver, I’ve been imagining the worst and I’d hate if it ended up being something along my mind.\n
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[****Update: Haven’t seen my sister in a long while.****](%5Bhttps://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/%5D(https://www.reddit.com/user/throwawaygodimawful/comments/w8s254/update_havent_seen_my_sister_in_a_long_while/)) - 8 days ago\n
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Hi Reddit! Its been a crazy few weeks but I absolutely needed to update as soon as possible. Sorry my post got locked ans I appreciate everyone who spoke to me via DMs, sorry to those I couldn’t get to- it was a lot.\n
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I should get on with the most important of the update, what I finally ended up doing. So thanks to the super community that is reddit, I was able to get in touch with a few different sources, the least favorite of which was a phone call towards those that help find trafficked children. I knew my family would be investigated and actually went to meet up with another family in that time, so basically, a redditor close to my age, who I’ll keep private, met with me and she had already showed my story to her family.\n
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They ended up letting me stay with them for a bit and made the proper calls to make sure it wasn’t illegal, I actually even specified that I wasn’t running from home, and I’d come back after the investigation. It didn’t sit so well with authorities and I was actually forced to go back home, but it only got stranger from there.\n
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I went back home to a completely empty house, even Grandma was gone, so I was allowed to stay with the other family for the time being. They were extremely kind, for a week I didn’t get any news and, bless her mother’s heart but I was told I had a home here no matter the results. So, a few days after a week had passed, I get a call and it turns out they found my sister!\n
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My family had been taken in for questioning and were placed in holding for quite a while, I’m not sure why they didn’t tell me this immediately though. I don’t actually know the full story, but my sister was living close 700 Kilometers away, yeah, nearly a whole days drive, it wasn’t summer school, or boarding school, or anything like that- My Dad sold her to get married.\n
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My mom was off the hook as 1, I still needed a parent, and 2, she wasn’t in on it until it was a decent way in. My dad and grandma have been arrested though and I’m back living with my mom and sister now. I’m still in contact with rhe redditor that let me stay with her and I’ll forever be greatful, I have no idea what would have happened if I was around when authorities came knocking. She’s my angel!\n
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On a more depressing note, my sister doesn’t speak much, but she seemed to cheer up after I let her read my post. She said she felt abandoned and alone, among other things, but seeing how I and plenty of strangers gave their hearts for her made her very happy so thank you all.\n
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Sorry for being ao vauge here but I’m trying to protect identities. This isn’t over by a long shot, there’s still things that are going to happen, but I have my sister, and that’s all thanks to reddit. Thank you.\n
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**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
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OP note: I’m marking this concluded for now because they got her back\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wfjbwu/oops_9_year_old_sister_was_sent_to_boarding/)
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> Haskell researcher Javier Escuella remains hopeful that one day they may be able to double or even triple the number of industry programmers who give a shit about Haskell. “I believe the root cause of the popularity problem is Haskell’s lack of reasonable support for mutually recursive generic container types. If we can create a monadic composition-functor wrapper that is perceived as sufficiently sexy by hardened industry veterans, then I think we will see an uptick in giving a shit, possibly as much as a full extra person.”\n
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\n
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> The worldwide Haskell community met up over beers today to celebrate their unprecedented discovery of an industry programmer who gives a shit about Haskell.\n
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> On Wednesday, researchers issued a press release revealing that 27-year-old Seth Briars of North Carolina, a Java programmer at Blackwater accounting firm Ross and Fordham, actually gives a shit about Haskell.\n
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> “That, or it was an off-by-1 error not detectable by our type system,” Van Der Linde added. “But we don’t, uh, like to dwell on, I mean with good unit testing practices we can, um… sorry, I need to get some water.”\n
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> “It’s a beautiful, elegant language,” Briars observed as he busied himself cleaning a fingernail. “You’d be hard-pressed to find a more expressive and composable core. And they’ve made astounding advances over the years in performance, interoperability, extensibility, tooling and documentation.”\n
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> “I’m kind of surprised I’m the only person on earth who gives a shit about it,” Briars continued. “I’d have thought there would be more people following the press releases closely and then not using Haskell. But they all just skip the press releases and go straight to the not using it part.”\n
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> “People see words like monads and category theory,” Briars continued, swatting invisible flies around his head for emphasis, “and their Giving a Shit gene shuts down faster than a teabagger with a grade-school arithmetic book. I’m really disappointed that more programmers don’t get actively involved in reading endless threads about how to subvert Haskell’s type system to accomplish basic shit you can do in other languages. But I guess that’s the lazy, ignorant, careless world we live in: the so-called ‘real’ world.”\n
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> Haskell researcher Javier Escuella remains hopeful that one day they may be able to double or even triple the number of industry programmers who give a shit about Haskell. “I believe the root cause of the popularity problem is Haskell’s lack of reasonable support for mutually recursive generic container types. If we can create a monadic composition-functor wrapper that is perceived as sufficiently sexy by hardened industry veterans, then I think we will see an uptick in giving a shit, possibly as much as a full extra person.”\n
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> Haskell aficionado Harold MacDougal is not quite as sanguine as his colleague Escuella. “I doubt Haskell will ever be appreciated by the uneducated natives of this industry. As exciting as it is, the discovery of Briars should be considered an anomaly, and not as a sign that more people will ever give a shit. Programmers only seem to pay attention to things when there is humor involved.”\n
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> “We do have an experimental humor monad,” added MacDougal. “But it doesn’t seem to be getting much adoption. Haskell fans just don’t see the need for it.”\n
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[Source](https://web.archive.org/web/20101206132817/http://steve-yegge.blogspot.com:80/2010/12/haskell-researchers-announce-discovery.html)
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[UPDATE](https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/u9m2p0/mil_gifted_me_laser_tattoo_removal_for_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf): Thank you so much for all the great suggestions on what to do with the gift certificate. I actually have a friend who is the director of a restorative justice organization. I asked her if she had any clients with hate symbols they would like removed and it turns out she works with a guy who has a swastika on his arm that he hides every day because he is so ashamed. This is particularly significant and powerful for me because I’m Jewish. Anyway, I am dropping it off today and I’m really pleased that something that started as a disrespectful slight from my mother in law turned into this. Thank you Reddit!\n
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\n
Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/utb24d/oop_is_gifted_laser_tattoo_removal_by_her/)
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\n
3 years ago, my husband and I hosted our families for my birthday dinner. It was our first big get-together after getting married and everyone was nice enough to bring me a gift. I was going to open them after everyone left but MiL handed me an envelope at the dinner table and insisted I open it immediately.\n
\n
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\n
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\n
[UPDATE](https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/u9m2p0/mil_gifted_me_laser_tattoo_removal_for_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf): Thank you so much for all the great suggestions on what to do with the gift certificate. I actually have a friend who is the director of a restorative justice organization. I asked her if she had any clients with hate symbols they would like removed and it turns out she works with a guy who has a swastika on his arm that he hides every day because he is so ashamed. This is particularly significant and powerful for me because I’m Jewish. Anyway, I am dropping it off today and I’m really pleased that something that started as a disrespectful slight from my mother in law turned into this. Thank you Reddit!\n
\n
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\n
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\n
Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/utb24d/oop_is_gifted_laser_tattoo_removal_by_her/)
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ETA for fuck’s sake, even this post had to be censored down to go through. It took about 15 attempts.\n
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A few times recently I’ve had posts refuse to go through with great big ‘you’ve been blocked!’ banners.\n
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It seems to be very sensitive to mentions of *being mean to people*, not advocacy, just *mentioning the existence* of certain topics, and it seems to be way too hair-triggered.\n
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I just now tried to post about the ethics of meat consumption, and why people see certain aspects as more troubling than others. Certainly nothing explicit or provocative, just the difference in perception between harvesting meat and *deliberate unkindess* - as abstract concepts.\n
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I refuse to do the stupid zoomer thing of cens*ring words with numbers and punctuation, and frankly I shouldn’t have to.\n
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I’m not sure how you’re meant to be able to have a sane conversation about ethics or politics if you’re not allowed to mention *people being mean*. God knows what would happen if someone tried to report actions perpetrated in an *akka-akka-kablooey-competition* zone.\n
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ETA for fuck’s sake, even this post had to be censored down to go through. It took about 15 attempts.\n
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A few times recently I’ve had posts refuse to go through with great big ‘you’ve been blocked!’ banners.\n
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It seems to be very sensitive to mentions of *being mean to people*, not advocacy, just *mentioning the existence* of certain topics, and it seems to be way too hair-triggered.\n
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I just now tried to post about the ethics of meat consumption, and why people see certain aspects as more troubling than others. Certainly nothing explicit or provocative, just the difference in perception between harvesting meat and *deliberate unkindess* - as abstract concepts.\n
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I refuse to do the stupid zoomer thing of cens*ring words with numbers and punctuation, and frankly I shouldn’t have to.\n
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I’m not sure how you’re meant to be able to have a sane conversation about ethics or politics if you’re not allowed to mention *people being mean*. God knows what would happen if someone tried to report actions perpetrated in an *akka-akka-kablooey-competition* zone.\n
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/ThrowRAcrib](/u/ThrowRAcrib) in [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)**\n
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[**My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pa68y8/my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of_having/) - 23/08/21\n
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I (31M) and my wife (29F) had a baby last December. It was a traumatic birth and my wife developed postpartum depression. While she was originally going to go back to work after the birth, she’s been struggling enough that we decided to wait until our daughter was a year old and reassess. She has been going to therapy weekly. With my wife home full time, I’ve had to work increased hours. This is something we discussed prior to making this decision and she knew this from the start.\n
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A few weeks ago, my boss approached me about a project that would require a lot of overtime in a short amount of time. It would both be great financially and for my career. I talked to my wife about it and she agreed that I should say yes to my boss. For the four weeks I’d be working on this, my MIL and her best friend, Jessie (29F, name changed) would come help out with some of the duties that I typically do.\n
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I turned around and asked what it was a sign of. Immediately, my wife started crying and Jessie started accusing me of having an affair. She told me that I must hate my wife because she has PPD and am not attracted to her because she gained weight from the pregnancy. Neither of these things are true. I’m trying my best to help my wife through her PPD while supporting our family. And I think she looks great how she is right now, she just hasn’t wanted to have sex and I haven’t pushed.\n
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Jessie then demanded to see my phone. I told her no. She told me that’s a sign that I’m guilty. I told my wife that I would let her see my phone if she wanted to. She nodded and something inside me broke. I guess it was the thought that she actually believed I was having an affair really got to me. And that she didn’t trust me after everything we’ve been through.\n
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Well, she looked through the phone and there was no evidence. Jessie started saying that I deleted the evidence. She started screaming and woke up our daughter, so I told her to get out of the house. Eventually, she left and I went to calm our daughter since my wife was still on the couch crying.\n
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When my daughter was asleep again, I sat down by my wife and tried to talk to her about what’s been happening. She told me that she’s been worried ever since I started working all the overtime. I told her that we’d talked about how good of an opportunity it was and she agreed to letting me take on this project. She said it was very suspicious to increase the length of the project. I told her that sometimes that happens. She wanted more evidence, so I showed her messages and emails with timestamps from work and paystubs showing the OT. She said she believed me and was sorry for doubting me, it was just that Jessie had been telling her that these were all signs that I was cheating. I asked her why she believed Jessie more than me, and why she didn’t come to me with her concerns. She didn’t have a real answer.\n
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It’s been a couple weeks and the project is over. I actually scaled back and am trying to work a little less than I was before the project so I can spend more time with my wife and daughter. But I feel so burnt out trying to do everything and becoming resentful because in the back of my mind, I know that my wife doesn’t trust me. I ask myself, what happens the next time I have a project? Or I have to run errands one day? Or if I have a business trip? Am I going to come back every time to accusations that I’m cheating?\n
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I’ve tried bringing it up a couple times but my wife tells me it’s not the time and that she’s tired or sad. I try to be mindful of her feelings but I wonder if that means that I can never have any of my own.\n
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I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice for how I can move forward?\n
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[**Update: My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pcu6sk/update_my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of/) - 27/08/21\n
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Thank you to everyone for all of the advice and support on my previous post. I think a lot of you pointed out what should have been obvious, that I need to get a therapist and start looking after my own mental health. A couple people asked for an update, so I’m giving one, but it’s not happy.\n
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That night I approached my wife and told her that I was going to find a therapist. I didn’t connect it to her accusations or anything, just said that I was having a tough time and needed therapy. She shrugged and told me to do whatever.\n
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Next day, I got home from work and our room and my home office were ripped apart. Things everywhere. Important papers scattered. I don’t see her but our daughter’s in her room crying… My wife left her alone, her cell phone’s off. I call my in-laws and a few friends, but no one’s seen her. I’m starting to get worried and I call my mom to see if she can babysit while I go out and look for her.\n
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Before my mom can get home, my wife gets back – Jessie’s driving. Jessie doesn’t come in (she hasn’t been back in the house since I kicked her out because she was “offended” by my behavior) but my wife does. She’s clearly upset, been crying. I ask what happened. I thought at first the house might have been robbed. She starts screaming at me that I’m being unfaithful and that the therapy is a front so I can meet my mistress. I try to calm her down and tell her that’s not true, but she came at me and she hit me. My nose is broken.\n
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She kind of realized what she did and sat down on the couch and went comatose, just stared at the wall. I went into my daughter’s room and locked the door. Called my mom to tell her what happened (she was already on her way) and my MIL to ask her to come over and take care of my wife. I packed a bag for my daughter and when my mom got there, we left. My wife didn’t even look up. We dropped my daughter off with my dad and then went to urgent care for my nose. I got blood all over my mom’s new Subaru.\n
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My daughter and I are staying with my parents for a while and my wife’s staying with hers. I am looking into getting a restraining order against Jessie.\n
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My wife and I are separating. I love her but I won’t live with someone who hurts me and who could potentially hurt our daughter. I am not going forward with a divorce yet, with the hopes that my wife will get the treatment she needs and we can work things out. My in-laws told me that they’re looking at in-patient treatment at a local hospital. But I also have everything well documented in case of an eventual custody battle.\n
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My heart’s broken because I know this isn’t my wife, this is a sickness in her mind. But I need to keep myself and our daughter safe and give her the space to recover. I’m hoping that this is the right decision.\n
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Thanks again everyone.\n
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Edit: Thank you all for your feedback. I’ve talked to my parents after reading your comments and came to the conclusion that for my daughter’s protection, I need to file a police report. I am headed to the station now.\n
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[**Do I let the woman I fault with my wife’s death let her speak at her funeral?**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pfumfn/do_i_let_the_woman_i_fault_with_my_wifes_death/) - 01/09/21\n
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TL;DR: A woman fed lies to my wife, suffering from postpartum depression, that led to a mental breakdown and her death. She now wants to speak at my wife’s funeral. Denying her would start trouble, which I’m not sure would be worth it.\n
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There’s more context for this situation in my post history.\n
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My wife passed on early Monday morning. Convinced by her friend Jessie that I was having an affair that I did not have, she had a mental break, which resulted in my taking our infant daughter and staying with my parents for a while. She was with her parents, who planned on taking her to the hospital for in-patient treatment on Monday.\n
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On Sunday night she came to my parents’ house and demanded I give her our daughter. Because she had left her alone for several hours the last time she was responsible for her and had gotten physical with me, I refused. I offered to let her come in and spend time with her while my parents and I were present, but she didn’t want to come in and wanted to take our daughter with her. She was upset but left eventually. A few hours later, she drove her parents’ car into a tree and died.\n
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The friend, Jessie, came to see my daughter and me yesterday. After some tears, she told me that she was planning to speak at my wife’s funeral. She had already cleared it with my in-laws but was letting me know as a courtesy. I told her she would not be speaking at the funeral. We fought and she left after telling me that I was an asshole and not the only person who loved my wife.\n
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I talked to my in-laws who are adamant that Jessie be allowed to speak. She and my wife knew each other since they were kids and my in-laws are close to her. We’re all very fragile right now and I fear that pushing this further would hurt my relationship with my in-laws, which I don’t want. Still, the thought of seeing Jessie up there at my wife’s funeral makes me feel sick. I don’t think I can stand to listen to her, knowing that she took joy in my wife’s deteriorating mental health and picked up my wife, leaving my daughter home alone.\n
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That being said, I don’t trust myself to make the best decisions right now. My mind’s clouded by grief, guilt, and fear. My parents are split on what to do and I don’t have the energy to reach out to my friends. So I’m coming here again to ask for your advice.\n
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Thank you.\n
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/ThrowRAcrib](/u/ThrowRAcrib) in [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)**\n
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trigger warnings:\n
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show spoilerchild neglect, suicide\n
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*This was previously posted here over a year ago.*\n
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[**My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pa68y8/my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of_having/) - 23/08/21\n
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I (31M) and my wife (29F) had a baby last December. It was a traumatic birth and my wife developed postpartum depression. While she was originally going to go back to work after the birth, she’s been struggling enough that we decided to wait until our daughter was a year old and reassess. She has been going to therapy weekly. With my wife home full time, I’ve had to work increased hours. This is something we discussed prior to making this decision and she knew this from the start.\n
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A few weeks ago, my boss approached me about a project that would require a lot of overtime in a short amount of time. It would both be great financially and for my career. I talked to my wife about it and she agreed that I should say yes to my boss. For the four weeks I’d be working on this, my MIL and her best friend, Jessie (29F, name changed) would come help out with some of the duties that I typically do.\n
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Jessie is a SAHM with a four year-old and a two year-old. She began coming over during the day and would watch the kids with my wife.\n
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Three weeks into the project, it became clear that we’d need a few more weeks to get it together. I went home that night and talked to my wife about it. She said she was okay with it, but got very cold in the days after. It wasn’t unusual behavior over the past few months, so I didn’t think much about it and tried not to take it personally.\n
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During the last week of the project, I got home one night and saw that Jessie was still at the house. I didn’t think much about it, said hi to her and my wife, and then went to go check on our daughter. Before I could get to her room, I heard Jessie say something along the lines of, “He doesn’t even stop to greet you. Definitely a sign.”\n
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I turned around and asked what it was a sign of. Immediately, my wife started crying and Jessie started accusing me of having an affair. She told me that I must hate my wife because she has PPD and am not attracted to her because she gained weight from the pregnancy. Neither of these things are true. I’m trying my best to help my wife through her PPD while supporting our family. And I think she looks great how she is right now, she just hasn’t wanted to have sex and I haven’t pushed.\n
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Jessie then demanded to see my phone. I told her no. She told me that’s a sign that I’m guilty. I told my wife that I would let her see my phone if she wanted to. She nodded and something inside me broke. I guess it was the thought that she actually believed I was having an affair really got to me. And that she didn’t trust me after everything we’ve been through.\n
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Well, she looked through the phone and there was no evidence. Jessie started saying that I deleted the evidence. She started screaming and woke up our daughter, so I told her to get out of the house. Eventually, she left and I went to calm our daughter since my wife was still on the couch crying.\n
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When my daughter was asleep again, I sat down by my wife and tried to talk to her about what’s been happening. She told me that she’s been worried ever since I started working all the overtime. I told her that we’d talked about how good of an opportunity it was and she agreed to letting me take on this project. She said it was very suspicious to increase the length of the project. I told her that sometimes that happens. She wanted more evidence, so I showed her messages and emails with timestamps from work and paystubs showing the OT. She said she believed me and was sorry for doubting me, it was just that Jessie had been telling her that these were all signs that I was cheating. I asked her why she believed Jessie more than me, and why she didn’t come to me with her concerns. She didn’t have a real answer.\n
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It’s been a couple weeks and the project is over. I actually scaled back and am trying to work a little less than I was before the project so I can spend more time with my wife and daughter. But I feel so burnt out trying to do everything and becoming resentful because in the back of my mind, I know that my wife doesn’t trust me. I ask myself, what happens the next time I have a project? Or I have to run errands one day? Or if I have a business trip? Am I going to come back every time to accusations that I’m cheating?\n
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I’ve tried bringing it up a couple times but my wife tells me it’s not the time and that she’s tired or sad. I try to be mindful of her feelings but I wonder if that means that I can never have any of my own.\n
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I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice for how I can move forward?\n
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[**Update: My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pcu6sk/update_my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of/) - 27/08/21\n
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Thank you to everyone for all of the advice and support on my previous post. I think a lot of you pointed out what should have been obvious, that I need to get a therapist and start looking after my own mental health. A couple people asked for an update, so I’m giving one, but it’s not happy.\n
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That night I approached my wife and told her that I was going to find a therapist. I didn’t connect it to her accusations or anything, just said that I was having a tough time and needed therapy. She shrugged and told me to do whatever.\n
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Next day, I got home from work and our room and my home office were ripped apart. Things everywhere. Important papers scattered. I don’t see her but our daughter’s in her room crying… My wife left her alone, her cell phone’s off. I call my in-laws and a few friends, but no one’s seen her. I’m starting to get worried and I call my mom to see if she can babysit while I go out and look for her.\n
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Before my mom can get home, my wife gets back – Jessie’s driving. Jessie doesn’t come in (she hasn’t been back in the house since I kicked her out because she was “offended” by my behavior) but my wife does. She’s clearly upset, been crying. I ask what happened. I thought at first the house might have been robbed. She starts screaming at me that I’m being unfaithful and that the therapy is a front so I can meet my mistress. I try to calm her down and tell her that’s not true, but she came at me and she hit me. My nose is broken.\n
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She kind of realized what she did and sat down on the couch and went comatose, just stared at the wall. I went into my daughter’s room and locked the door. Called my mom to tell her what happened (she was already on her way) and my MIL to ask her to come over and take care of my wife. I packed a bag for my daughter and when my mom got there, we left. My wife didn’t even look up. We dropped my daughter off with my dad and then went to urgent care for my nose. I got blood all over my mom’s new Subaru.\n
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My daughter and I are staying with my parents for a while and my wife’s staying with hers. I am looking into getting a restraining order against Jessie.\n
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My wife and I are separating. I love her but I won’t live with someone who hurts me and who could potentially hurt our daughter. I am not going forward with a divorce yet, with the hopes that my wife will get the treatment she needs and we can work things out. My in-laws told me that they’re looking at in-patient treatment at a local hospital. But I also have everything well documented in case of an eventual custody battle.\n
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My heart’s broken because I know this isn’t my wife, this is a sickness in her mind. But I need to keep myself and our daughter safe and give her the space to recover. I’m hoping that this is the right decision.\n
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Thanks again everyone.\n
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Edit: Thank you all for your feedback. I’ve talked to my parents after reading your comments and came to the conclusion that for my daughter’s protection, I need to file a police report. I am headed to the station now.\n
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[**Do I let the woman I fault with my wife’s death let her speak at her funeral?**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pfumfn/do_i_let_the_woman_i_fault_with_my_wifes_death/) - 01/09/21\n
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TL;DR: A woman fed lies to my wife, suffering from postpartum depression, that led to a mental breakdown and her death. She now wants to speak at my wife’s funeral. Denying her would start trouble, which I’m not sure would be worth it.\n
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There’s more context for this situation in my post history.\n
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My wife passed on early Monday morning. Convinced by her friend Jessie that I was having an affair that I did not have, she had a mental break, which resulted in my taking our infant daughter and staying with my parents for a while. She was with her parents, who planned on taking her to the hospital for in-patient treatment on Monday.\n
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On Sunday night she came to my parents’ house and demanded I give her our daughter. Because she had left her alone for several hours the last time she was responsible for her and had gotten physical with me, I refused. I offered to let her come in and spend time with her while my parents and I were present, but she didn’t want to come in and wanted to take our daughter with her. She was upset but left eventually. A few hours later, she drove her parents’ car into a tree and died.\n
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The friend, Jessie, came to see my daughter and me yesterday. After some tears, she told me that she was planning to speak at my wife’s funeral. She had already cleared it with my in-laws but was letting me know as a courtesy. I told her she would not be speaking at the funeral. We fought and she left after telling me that I was an asshole and not the only person who loved my wife.\n
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I talked to my in-laws who are adamant that Jessie be allowed to speak. She and my wife knew each other since they were kids and my in-laws are close to her. We’re all very fragile right now and I fear that pushing this further would hurt my relationship with my in-laws, which I don’t want. Still, the thought of seeing Jessie up there at my wife’s funeral makes me feel sick. I don’t think I can stand to listen to her, knowing that she took joy in my wife’s deteriorating mental health and picked up my wife, leaving my daughter home alone.\n
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That being said, I don’t trust myself to make the best decisions right now. My mind’s clouded by grief, guilt, and fear. My parents are split on what to do and I don’t have the energy to reach out to my friends. So I’m coming here again to ask for your advice.\n
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Thank you.\n
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**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xwn9ln/my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of_having/)
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/ThrowRAcrib](/u/ThrowRAcrib) in [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)**\n
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trigger warnings:\n
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show spoilerchild neglect, suicide\n
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*This was previously posted here over a year ago.*\n
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[**My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pa68y8/my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of_having/) - 23/08/21\n
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I (31M) and my wife (29F) had a baby last December. It was a traumatic birth and my wife developed postpartum depression. While she was originally going to go back to work after the birth, she’s been struggling enough that we decided to wait until our daughter was a year old and reassess. She has been going to therapy weekly. With my wife home full time, I’ve had to work increased hours. This is something we discussed prior to making this decision and she knew this from the start.\n
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A few weeks ago, my boss approached me about a project that would require a lot of overtime in a short amount of time. It would both be great financially and for my career. I talked to my wife about it and she agreed that I should say yes to my boss. For the four weeks I’d be working on this, my MIL and her best friend, Jessie (29F, name changed) would come help out with some of the duties that I typically do.\n
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Jessie is a SAHM with a four year-old and a two year-old. She began coming over during the day and would watch the kids with my wife.\n
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Three weeks into the project, it became clear that we’d need a few more weeks to get it together. I went home that night and talked to my wife about it. She said she was okay with it, but got very cold in the days after. It wasn’t unusual behavior over the past few months, so I didn’t think much about it and tried not to take it personally.\n
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During the last week of the project, I got home one night and saw that Jessie was still at the house. I didn’t think much about it, said hi to her and my wife, and then went to go check on our daughter. Before I could get to her room, I heard Jessie say something along the lines of, “He doesn’t even stop to greet you. Definitely a sign.”\n
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I turned around and asked what it was a sign of. Immediately, my wife started crying and Jessie started accusing me of having an affair. She told me that I must hate my wife because she has PPD and am not attracted to her because she gained weight from the pregnancy. Neither of these things are true. I’m trying my best to help my wife through her PPD while supporting our family. And I think she looks great how she is right now, she just hasn’t wanted to have sex and I haven’t pushed.\n
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Jessie then demanded to see my phone. I told her no. She told me that’s a sign that I’m guilty. I told my wife that I would let her see my phone if she wanted to. She nodded and something inside me broke. I guess it was the thought that she actually believed I was having an affair really got to me. And that she didn’t trust me after everything we’ve been through.\n
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Well, she looked through the phone and there was no evidence. Jessie started saying that I deleted the evidence. She started screaming and woke up our daughter, so I told her to get out of the house. Eventually, she left and I went to calm our daughter since my wife was still on the couch crying.\n
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When my daughter was asleep again, I sat down by my wife and tried to talk to her about what’s been happening. She told me that she’s been worried ever since I started working all the overtime. I told her that we’d talked about how good of an opportunity it was and she agreed to letting me take on this project. She said it was very suspicious to increase the length of the project. I told her that sometimes that happens. She wanted more evidence, so I showed her messages and emails with timestamps from work and paystubs showing the OT. She said she believed me and was sorry for doubting me, it was just that Jessie had been telling her that these were all signs that I was cheating. I asked her why she believed Jessie more than me, and why she didn’t come to me with her concerns. She didn’t have a real answer.\n
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It’s been a couple weeks and the project is over. I actually scaled back and am trying to work a little less than I was before the project so I can spend more time with my wife and daughter. But I feel so burnt out trying to do everything and becoming resentful because in the back of my mind, I know that my wife doesn’t trust me. I ask myself, what happens the next time I have a project? Or I have to run errands one day? Or if I have a business trip? Am I going to come back every time to accusations that I’m cheating?\n
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I’ve tried bringing it up a couple times but my wife tells me it’s not the time and that she’s tired or sad. I try to be mindful of her feelings but I wonder if that means that I can never have any of my own.\n
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I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice for how I can move forward?\n
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[**Update: My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn’t have one**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pcu6sk/update_my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of/) - 27/08/21\n
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Thank you to everyone for all of the advice and support on my previous post. I think a lot of you pointed out what should have been obvious, that I need to get a therapist and start looking after my own mental health. A couple people asked for an update, so I’m giving one, but it’s not happy.\n
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That night I approached my wife and told her that I was going to find a therapist. I didn’t connect it to her accusations or anything, just said that I was having a tough time and needed therapy. She shrugged and told me to do whatever.\n
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Next day, I got home from work and our room and my home office were ripped apart. Things everywhere. Important papers scattered. I don’t see her but our daughter’s in her room crying… My wife left her alone, her cell phone’s off. I call my in-laws and a few friends, but no one’s seen her. I’m starting to get worried and I call my mom to see if she can babysit while I go out and look for her.\n
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Before my mom can get home, my wife gets back – Jessie’s driving. Jessie doesn’t come in (she hasn’t been back in the house since I kicked her out because she was “offended” by my behavior) but my wife does. She’s clearly upset, been crying. I ask what happened. I thought at first the house might have been robbed. She starts screaming at me that I’m being unfaithful and that the therapy is a front so I can meet my mistress. I try to calm her down and tell her that’s not true, but she came at me and she hit me. My nose is broken.\n
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She kind of realized what she did and sat down on the couch and went comatose, just stared at the wall. I went into my daughter’s room and locked the door. Called my mom to tell her what happened (she was already on her way) and my MIL to ask her to come over and take care of my wife. I packed a bag for my daughter and when my mom got there, we left. My wife didn’t even look up. We dropped my daughter off with my dad and then went to urgent care for my nose. I got blood all over my mom’s new Subaru.\n
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My daughter and I are staying with my parents for a while and my wife’s staying with hers. I am looking into getting a restraining order against Jessie.\n
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My wife and I are separating. I love her but I won’t live with someone who hurts me and who could potentially hurt our daughter. I am not going forward with a divorce yet, with the hopes that my wife will get the treatment she needs and we can work things out. My in-laws told me that they’re looking at in-patient treatment at a local hospital. But I also have everything well documented in case of an eventual custody battle.\n
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My heart’s broken because I know this isn’t my wife, this is a sickness in her mind. But I need to keep myself and our daughter safe and give her the space to recover. I’m hoping that this is the right decision.\n
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Thanks again everyone.\n
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Edit: Thank you all for your feedback. I’ve talked to my parents after reading your comments and came to the conclusion that for my daughter’s protection, I need to file a police report. I am headed to the station now.\n
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[**Do I let the woman I fault with my wife’s death let her speak at her funeral?**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/pfumfn/do_i_let_the_woman_i_fault_with_my_wifes_death/) - 01/09/21\n
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TL;DR: A woman fed lies to my wife, suffering from postpartum depression, that led to a mental breakdown and her death. She now wants to speak at my wife’s funeral. Denying her would start trouble, which I’m not sure would be worth it.\n
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There’s more context for this situation in my post history.\n
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My wife passed on early Monday morning. Convinced by her friend Jessie that I was having an affair that I did not have, she had a mental break, which resulted in my taking our infant daughter and staying with my parents for a while. She was with her parents, who planned on taking her to the hospital for in-patient treatment on Monday.\n
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On Sunday night she came to my parents’ house and demanded I give her our daughter. Because she had left her alone for several hours the last time she was responsible for her and had gotten physical with me, I refused. I offered to let her come in and spend time with her while my parents and I were present, but she didn’t want to come in and wanted to take our daughter with her. She was upset but left eventually. A few hours later, she drove her parents’ car into a tree and died.\n
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The friend, Jessie, came to see my daughter and me yesterday. After some tears, she told me that she was planning to speak at my wife’s funeral. She had already cleared it with my in-laws but was letting me know as a courtesy. I told her she would not be speaking at the funeral. We fought and she left after telling me that I was an asshole and not the only person who loved my wife.\n
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I talked to my in-laws who are adamant that Jessie be allowed to speak. She and my wife knew each other since they were kids and my in-laws are close to her. We’re all very fragile right now and I fear that pushing this further would hurt my relationship with my in-laws, which I don’t want. Still, the thought of seeing Jessie up there at my wife’s funeral makes me feel sick. I don’t think I can stand to listen to her, knowing that she took joy in my wife’s deteriorating mental health and picked up my wife, leaving my daughter home alone.\n
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That being said, I don’t trust myself to make the best decisions right now. My mind’s clouded by grief, guilt, and fear. My parents are split on what to do and I don’t have the energy to reach out to my friends. So I’m coming here again to ask for your advice.\n
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Thank you.\n
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**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xwn9ln/my_wife_and_her_best_friend_accused_me_of_having/)
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> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
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> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
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No-Ladder7811\n
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> Samyang kimchi ramen noodles from the Asian store are my go to. Now they blow the arse of you but well worth it. If too spicy instead of water, use some milk, to make a creamier broth to tone it down a bit.\n
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> They aren’t all the same at all, according to my kid who’ll only eat Shin Ramen (Nongshim) from the asian stores. Believe me, the kid’s a connoisseur\n
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dreamcomenull\n
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> Samyang is great. But be careful - they have some extra spicy noodles. And by extra I mean the most spicy noodles in the world. No jokes\n
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> Why would you abandon koka for some new whore?\n
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> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
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> I found the instructions very clear and easy to follow. I found the bowl design of the packaging fantastically efficient. I fried some bacon and mushrooms to add to the noodles and can clearly see how ramen so quickly became a staple food in Eastern climes.\n
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> What I did not expect was the life altering revelation that Samyang would bring to me. A moment of such clarity of spirit and placement within the wide universe that I felt as if I was looking at myself from without.\n
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> In this moment of catharsis I discovered that there are two types of bucket-lists.\n
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> The other is a not so fun list of things you never want to learn about yourself.\n
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> Today I learned I am a bitch. But not just any type of bitch.\n
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> Have you ever met one of those absolute chodes that goes around saying stuff like, “I love spicy food,” - “Nothing is too hot for me.” - “If I could bottle hellfire I’d sprinkle it on my chips.” And then folds like a cheap trick at the first sing of heat.\n
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> Today, laddies and djents, I am that chode.\n
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> Here and now I swear blind that I’ll never again attest that I eat hot all the time. Or that I love jalapenos. Or that I put chili flakes on everything.\n
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> I am a heat-bitch, and I see that now. Samyang 2x spicy scorched my soul from my lean flanks, twisted me once around the sun, and sat me back down, blistered and burned, to revel at the scope of my folly.\n
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> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
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> Pray for me if you can.\n
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SteveK27982\n
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> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
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urpleWomat\n
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> I’ll wait for the update before I try them.\n
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> OP is dead. There will be no update.\n
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[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15yqhw4/new_ramen_noodle_brands_scare_me/)
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**Original Jan 5, 2023**\n
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> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
> \n
> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
> \n
> (I will also fight anyone that says instant noodles don’t deserve a foodie tag.)\n
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RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
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No-Ladder7811\n
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> Samyang kimchi ramen noodles from the Asian store are my go to. Now they blow the arse of you but well worth it. If too spicy instead of water, use some milk, to make a creamier broth to tone it down a bit.\n
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Cabhert5\n
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> They aren’t all the same at all, according to my kid who’ll only eat Shin Ramen (Nongshim) from the asian stores. Believe me, the kid’s a connoisseur\n
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dreamcomenull\n
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> Samyang is great. But be careful - they have some extra spicy noodles. And by extra I mean the most spicy noodles in the world. No jokes\n
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azlolazlo\n
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> Why would you abandon koka for some new whore?\n
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leosp633fc\n
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> Dude, koka is boring. Go to an Asian shop and be adventurous!\n
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**Update Jan 13, 2023**\n
\n
> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
> \n
> I found the instructions very clear and easy to follow. I found the bowl design of the packaging fantastically efficient. I fried some bacon and mushrooms to add to the noodles and can clearly see how ramen so quickly became a staple food in Eastern climes.\n
> \n
> What I did not expect was the life altering revelation that Samyang would bring to me. A moment of such clarity of spirit and placement within the wide universe that I felt as if I was looking at myself from without.\n
> \n
> In this moment of catharsis I discovered that there are two types of bucket-lists.\n
> \n
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> \n
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> \n
> Today I learned I am a bitch. But not just any type of bitch.\n
> \n
> Have you ever met one of those absolute chodes that goes around saying stuff like, “I love spicy food,” - “Nothing is too hot for me.” - “If I could bottle hellfire I’d sprinkle it on my chips.” And then folds like a cheap trick at the first sing of heat.\n
> \n
> Today, laddies and djents, I am that chode.\n
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> \n
> I am a heat-bitch, and I see that now. Samyang 2x spicy scorched my soul from my lean flanks, twisted me once around the sun, and sat me back down, blistered and burned, to revel at the scope of my folly.\n
> \n
> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
> \n
> Pray for me if you can.\n
\n
---\n
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RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
SteveK27982\n
\n
> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
\n
---\n
\n
urpleWomat\n
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> I’ll wait for the update before I try them.\n
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---\n
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\n
> OP is dead. There will be no update.\n
\n
---\n
\n
This post is considered concluded as OOP has stated that they are deceased\n
\n
I am not OOP\n
\n
[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15yqhw4/new_ramen_noodle_brands_scare_me/)
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I am not The OOP, OOP is u/pyrpaul on Reddit\n
\n
Originally posted to r/CasualIreland\n
\n
**Original Jan 5, 2023**\n
\n
> So I’ve been seeing a lot of new brands on the shelves as late. One brand was called apollo, the other samyang, I think.\n
> \n
> Has anyone tried? Any use? Is there even a difference from Koka, or is ramen just ramen?\n
> \n
> (I will also fight anyone that says instant noodles don’t deserve a foodie tag.)\n
\n
---\n
\n
RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
No-Ladder7811\n
\n
> Samyang kimchi ramen noodles from the Asian store are my go to. Now they blow the arse of you but well worth it. If too spicy instead of water, use some milk, to make a creamier broth to tone it down a bit.\n
\n
---\n
\n
Cabhert5\n
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> They aren’t all the same at all, according to my kid who’ll only eat Shin Ramen (Nongshim) from the asian stores. Believe me, the kid’s a connoisseur\n
\n
---\n
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dreamcomenull\n
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> Samyang is great. But be careful - they have some extra spicy noodles. And by extra I mean the most spicy noodles in the world. No jokes\n
\n
---\n
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azlolazlo\n
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> Why would you abandon koka for some new whore?\n
\n
---\n
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leosp633fc\n
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> Dude, koka is boring. Go to an Asian shop and be adventurous!\n
\n
---\n
\n
**Update Jan 13, 2023**\n
\n
> So I managed to pick up a pot of Samyang 2x spicy hot chicken flavor, and I have been happily storing it away until this evening when I planned to finally tuck in.\n
> \n
> I found the instructions very clear and easy to follow. I found the bowl design of the packaging fantastically efficient. I fried some bacon and mushrooms to add to the noodles and can clearly see how ramen so quickly became a staple food in Eastern climes.\n
> \n
> What I did not expect was the life altering revelation that Samyang would bring to me. A moment of such clarity of spirit and placement within the wide universe that I felt as if I was looking at myself from without.\n
> \n
> In this moment of catharsis I discovered that there are two types of bucket-lists.\n
> \n
> One is the normal super fun lists of things you want to do in the life.\n
> \n
> The other is a not so fun list of things you never want to learn about yourself.\n
> \n
> Today I learned I am a bitch. But not just any type of bitch.\n
> \n
> Have you ever met one of those absolute chodes that goes around saying stuff like, “I love spicy food,” - “Nothing is too hot for me.” - “If I could bottle hellfire I’d sprinkle it on my chips.” And then folds like a cheap trick at the first sing of heat.\n
> \n
> Today, laddies and djents, I am that chode.\n
> \n
> Here and now I swear blind that I’ll never again attest that I eat hot all the time. Or that I love jalapenos. Or that I put chili flakes on everything.\n
> \n
> I am a heat-bitch, and I see that now. Samyang 2x spicy scorched my soul from my lean flanks, twisted me once around the sun, and sat me back down, blistered and burned, to revel at the scope of my folly.\n
> \n
> There is no god, only heat. Yet still I pray that my lips will cease to hurt.\n
> \n
> Pray for me if you can.\n
\n
---\n
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RELEVANT COMMENTS\n
\n
SteveK27982\n
\n
> Best of luck with it the other end!\n
\n
---\n
\n
urpleWomat\n
\n
> I’ll wait for the update before I try them.\n
\n
---\n
\n
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\n
> OP is dead. There will be no update.\n
\n
---\n
\n
This post is considered concluded as OOP has stated that they are deceased\n
\n
I am not OOP\n
\n
[Source](https://reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15yqhw4/new_ramen_noodle_brands_scare_me/)
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I suppose the community was unfortunately eliminated because of the politics of the instance where it is hosted, but I am not sure, if I directly go to the community there is nothing, it does not seem to exist anymore. And maybe it’s related to one of the post of a mod no long ago, which was asking someone to join as a mod because “Someone has been uploading illegal content to the community”\n
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I suppose the community was unfortunately eliminated because of the politics of the instance where it is hosted, but I am not sure, if I directly go to the community there is nothing, it does not seem to exist anymore. And maybe it’s related to one of the post of a mod no long ago, which was asking someone to join as a mod because “Someone has been uploading illegal content to the community”\n
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