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    *This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
    \n
    TW:\n
    \n
    show spoilernegging\n
    \n
    [Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/gy79dx/boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_me_i_have_bo/) by [u/ThrowRA-doistink](/u/ThrowRA-doistink) in [r/relationshipadvice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice)\n
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    \n
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    \n
    I feel like I’m going crazy. I didn’t think I smelled bad in the beginning and I don’t think I smell bad now but I obviously smell bad to him right? Im that weirdo that keeps “sneakily” smelling their own armpits. I have been to the doctor and he has said there is nothing medically wrong. It has honestly gotten to the point where I literally shove my arm pit in friends and families faces asking if I smell bad, they all say I don’t smell like b.o. at all, one friend even said I smelled too clean like a lush store.\n
    \n
    I am getting so paranoid. He won’t cuddle or anything when he says I smell. I really don’t know what more I can do?\n
    \n
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    \n
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    \n
    Needless to say, his father is wrong. He’s packing his things and moving out of my house today\n
    \n
    Reminder: I am not the Original OP.\n
    ===================================\n
    \n
    *Disclaimer*\n
    \n
    *This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
    \n
    Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/va3ers/oops_boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_her_that_she/)
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    *This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
    \n
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    show spoilernegging\n
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    [Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/gy79dx/boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_me_i_have_bo/) by [u/ThrowRA-doistink](/u/ThrowRA-doistink) in [r/relationshipadvice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshipadvice)\n
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    I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything has been great except for one thing. Every single day, at least once, he will tell me that I stink and smell of b.o( body odour).\n
    \n
    When we met I showered every day, applied regular deodorant in the morning, brushed my teeth three times a day. Now I am so paranoid about smelling bad that I shower at least twice a day, I apply new industrial strength deodorant every few hours (I have a reminder on my phone), perfume, and I brush my teeth anytime I eat or drink something that isn’t water.\n
    \n
    I feel like I’m going crazy. I didn’t think I smelled bad in the beginning and I don’t think I smell bad now but I obviously smell bad to him right? Im that weirdo that keeps “sneakily” smelling their own armpits. I have been to the doctor and he has said there is nothing medically wrong. It has honestly gotten to the point where I literally shove my arm pit in friends and families faces asking if I smell bad, they all say I don’t smell like b.o. at all, one friend even said I smelled too clean like a lush store.\n
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    \n
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    \n
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    \n
    Needless to say, his father is wrong. He’s packing his things and moving out of my house today\n
    \n
    Reminder: I am not the Original OP.\n
    ===================================\n
    \n
    *Disclaimer*\n
    \n
    *This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
    \n
    Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/va3ers/oops_boyfriend_wont_stop_telling_her_that_she/)
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      I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything has been great except for one thing. Every single day, at least once, he will tell me that I stink and smell of b.o( body odour).\n
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