GET https://kbin.spritesserver.nl/m/comicstrips@lemmy.world/t/17567/Offering-solutions-is-annoying/comment/172190/favourites

Response
200 OK
IP
3.144.13.230
Profiled on
Token
ecd625

Security

Token

There is no security token.

Firewall

main Name
Security enabled
Stateless

Configuration

Key Value
provider security.user.provider.concrete.app_user_provider
context main
entry_point App\Security\KbinAuthenticator
user_checker App\Security\UserChecker
access_denied_handler (none)
access_denied_url (none)
authenticators 
[
  "two_factor"
  "remember_me"
  "App\Security\KbinAuthenticator"
  "App\Security\FacebookAuthenticator"
  "App\Security\GoogleAuthenticator"
  "App\Security\GithubAuthenticator"
  "App\Security\KeycloakAuthenticator"
]

Listeners

Listener Duration Response 
Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Firewall\ChannelListener {#723
  -map: Symfony\Component\Security\Http\AccessMap {#722 …}
  -logger: Monolog\Logger {#783 …}
  -httpPort: 80
  -httpsPort: 443
}
 0.00 ms (none) 
Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Firewall\ContextListener {#706
  -tokenStorage: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authentication\Token\Storage\TokenStorage {#1017 …}
  -sessionKey: "_security_main"
  -logger: Monolog\Logger {#783 …}
  -userProviders: Symfony\Component\DependencyInjection\Argument\RewindableGenerator {#705 …}
  -dispatcher: Symfony\Component\EventDispatcher\Debug\TraceableEventDispatcher {#747 …}
  -registered: false
  -trustResolver: Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authentication\AuthenticationTrustResolver {#780 …}
  -sessionTrackerEnabler: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authentication\Token\Storage\UsageTrackingTokenStorage::enableUsageTracking(): void {#703 …}
}
 11.95 ms (none) 
Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Firewall\AuthenticatorManagerListener {#584
  -authenticatorManager: Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Authentication\AuthenticatorManager {#595 …}
}
 0.00 ms (none) 
Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Http\Firewall\TwoFactorAccessListener {#582
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  -tokenStorage: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authentication\Token\Storage\UsageTrackingTokenStorage {#1018 …}
  -twoFactorAccessDecider: Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authorization\TwoFactorAccessDecider {#581 …}
}
 0.06 ms (none) 
Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Firewall\AccessListener {#579
  -tokenStorage: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authentication\Token\Storage\UsageTrackingTokenStorage {#1018 …}
  -accessDecisionManager: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authorization\TraceableAccessDecisionManager {#937 …}
  -map: Symfony\Component\Security\Http\AccessMap {#722 …}
}
 0.00 ms (none) 
Symfony\Component\Security\Http\Firewall\LogoutListener {#786
  -tokenStorage: Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authentication\Token\Storage\UsageTrackingTokenStorage {#1018 …}
  -options: [
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    "csrf_token_id" => "logout"
    "logout_path" => "app_logout"
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  -httpUtils: Symfony\Component\Security\Http\HttpUtils {#841 …}
  -csrfTokenManager: Symfony\Component\Security\Csrf\CsrfTokenManager {#1015 …}
  -eventDispatcher: Symfony\Component\EventDispatcher\Debug\TraceableEventDispatcher {#747 …}
}
 0.00 ms (none)

Authenticators

No authenticators have been recorded. Check previous profiles on your authentication endpoint.

Access Decision

affirmative Strategy
# Voter class
1 
"Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authorization\Voter\AuthenticatedVoter"
2 
"Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authorization\Voter\TwoFactorInProgressVoter"
3 
"Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authorization\Voter\RoleHierarchyVoter"
4 
"Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authorization\Voter\ExpressionVoter"
5 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryCommentVoter"
6 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
7 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
8 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
9 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
10 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
11 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
12 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
13 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
14 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"

Access decision log

# Result Attributes Object
1 DENIED ROLE_USER 
null
 
"Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authorization\Voter\TwoFactorInProgressVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"Symfony\Component\Security\Core\Authorization\Voter\RoleHierarchyVoter"
 ACCESS DENIED 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN
Show voter details
2 DENIED moderate 
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  +user: Proxies\__CG__\App\Entity\User {#1378 …}
  +entry: App\Entity\Entry {#1790 …}
  +magazine: App\Entity\Magazine {#314
    +icon: Proxies\__CG__\App\Entity\Image {#295 …}
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      **Comic Strips** is a community for those who love comic stories.\n
      \n
      The rules are simple:\n
      \n
      - The post can be a single image, an image gallery, or a link to a specific comic hosted on another site (the author’s website, for instance).\n
      - The comic must be a complete story.\n
      - If it is an external link, it must be to a specific story, not to the root of the site.\n
      - You may post comics from others or your own.\n
      - If you are posting a comic of your own, a maximum of one per week is allowed (I know, your comics are great, but this rule helps avoid spam).\n
      - The comic can be in any language, but if it’s not in English, OP must include an English translation in the post’s ‘body’ field (note: you don’t need to select a specific language when posting a comic).\n
      - Politeness.\n
      - Adult content is not allowed. This community aims to be fun for people of all ages.\n
      \n
      **Web of links**\n
      \n
      - !linuxmemes@lemmy.world: “I use Arch btw”\n
      - !memes@lemmy.world: memes (you don’t say!)
      """
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    +postCount: 0
    +postCommentCount: 0
    +isAdult: false
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    +privateKey: null
    +publicKey: null
    +apFetchedAt: DateTime @1727428112 {#323
      date: 2024-09-27 11:08:32.0 +02:00
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    +apTimeoutAt: null
    +visibility: "visible             "
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      date: 2023-10-10 19:03:21.0 +02:00
    }
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  +image: null
  +parent: null
  +root: null
  +body: """
    For anyone struggling with this, two hints that might help you frame your role better:\n
    \n
    1. Listening **is** the solution. By trying to solve what your SO told you, you are actually trying to solve the wrong problem. Their **real** problem is that their brain needs to say things aloud to someone in order to correctly process it's own thoughts. Therapists make a frickin' living off of that quirk of our brains and it's the actual problem they come to you with. Even better: By listening you can not only advise on solutions, you can **be** the solution! Neat, huh?\n
    2. Listening and solving aren't mutually exclusive. If you stick to listening first, your SO might actually come to a point where your advice is wanted. Pro tip: Once their thoughts slow down, ask if they want to hear what you think about the issue. From my experience, the answer will be "yes" very often. That way, your thoughts will actually reach your SO and not get blocked by frustration outright. Yet, as with everything else: No means no. So if you get a no, don't try again, shut the fuck up, alright?
    """
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  +isAdult: false
  +favouriteCount: 73
  +score: 0
  +lastActive: DateTime @1701934597 {#1768
    date: 2023-12-07 08:36:37.0 +01:00
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  +editedAt: DateTimeImmutable @1701880466 {#1377
    date: 2023-12-06 17:34:26.0 +01:00
  }
  +createdAt: DateTimeImmutable @1701134523 {#1927
    date: 2023-11-28 02:22:03.0 +01:00
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"Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authorization\Voter\TwoFactorInProgressVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryCommentVoter"
 ACCESS DENIED 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN
Show voter details
3 DENIED edit 
App\Entity\EntryComment {#1365
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  +entry: App\Entity\Entry {#1790 …}
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    +name: "comicstrips@lemmy.world"
    +title: "comicstrips"
    +description: """
      **Comic Strips** is a community for those who love comic stories.\n
      \n
      The rules are simple:\n
      \n
      - The post can be a single image, an image gallery, or a link to a specific comic hosted on another site (the author’s website, for instance).\n
      - The comic must be a complete story.\n
      - If it is an external link, it must be to a specific story, not to the root of the site.\n
      - You may post comics from others or your own.\n
      - If you are posting a comic of your own, a maximum of one per week is allowed (I know, your comics are great, but this rule helps avoid spam).\n
      - The comic can be in any language, but if it’s not in English, OP must include an English translation in the post’s ‘body’ field (note: you don’t need to select a specific language when posting a comic).\n
      - Politeness.\n
      - Adult content is not allowed. This community aims to be fun for people of all ages.\n
      \n
      **Web of links**\n
      \n
      - !linuxmemes@lemmy.world: “I use Arch btw”\n
      - !memes@lemmy.world: memes (you don’t say!)
      """
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    +apFetchedAt: DateTime @1727428112 {#323
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    +apDeletedAt: null
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    +visibility: "visible             "
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  +image: null
  +parent: null
  +root: null
  +body: """
    For anyone struggling with this, two hints that might help you frame your role better:\n
    \n
    1. Listening **is** the solution. By trying to solve what your SO told you, you are actually trying to solve the wrong problem. Their **real** problem is that their brain needs to say things aloud to someone in order to correctly process it's own thoughts. Therapists make a frickin' living off of that quirk of our brains and it's the actual problem they come to you with. Even better: By listening you can not only advise on solutions, you can **be** the solution! Neat, huh?\n
    2. Listening and solving aren't mutually exclusive. If you stick to listening first, your SO might actually come to a point where your advice is wanted. Pro tip: Once their thoughts slow down, ask if they want to hear what you think about the issue. From my experience, the answer will be "yes" very often. That way, your thoughts will actually reach your SO and not get blocked by frustration outright. Yet, as with everything else: No means no. So if you get a no, don't try again, shut the fuck up, alright?
    """
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"Scheb\TwoFactorBundle\Security\Authorization\Voter\TwoFactorInProgressVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryCommentVoter"
 ACCESS DENIED 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN
Show voter details
4 DENIED moderate 
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  +entry: App\Entity\Entry {#1790 …}
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    +name: "comicstrips@lemmy.world"
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      **Comic Strips** is a community for those who love comic stories.\n
      \n
      The rules are simple:\n
      \n
      - The post can be a single image, an image gallery, or a link to a specific comic hosted on another site (the author’s website, for instance).\n
      - The comic must be a complete story.\n
      - If it is an external link, it must be to a specific story, not to the root of the site.\n
      - You may post comics from others or your own.\n
      - If you are posting a comic of your own, a maximum of one per week is allowed (I know, your comics are great, but this rule helps avoid spam).\n
      - The comic can be in any language, but if it’s not in English, OP must include an English translation in the post’s ‘body’ field (note: you don’t need to select a specific language when posting a comic).\n
      - Politeness.\n
      - Adult content is not allowed. This community aims to be fun for people of all ages.\n
      \n
      **Web of links**\n
      \n
      - !linuxmemes@lemmy.world: “I use Arch btw”\n
      - !memes@lemmy.world: memes (you don’t say!)
      """
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    For anyone struggling with this, two hints that might help you frame your role better:\n
    \n
    1. Listening **is** the solution. By trying to solve what your SO told you, you are actually trying to solve the wrong problem. Their **real** problem is that their brain needs to say things aloud to someone in order to correctly process it's own thoughts. Therapists make a frickin' living off of that quirk of our brains and it's the actual problem they come to you with. Even better: By listening you can not only advise on solutions, you can **be** the solution! Neat, huh?\n
    2. Listening and solving aren't mutually exclusive. If you stick to listening first, your SO might actually come to a point where your advice is wanted. Pro tip: Once their thoughts slow down, ask if they want to hear what you think about the issue. From my experience, the answer will be "yes" very often. That way, your thoughts will actually reach your SO and not get blocked by frustration outright. Yet, as with everything else: No means no. So if you get a no, don't try again, shut the fuck up, alright?
    """
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