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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am not OP.**\n
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Posted by [u/throwramotherwdid](/u/throwramotherwdid) on [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)\n
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[**Original**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qbybwq/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/) *- October 20, 2021*\n
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TLDR; I’m married to my former boss. Parents did not take the marriage as well as I’d hoped and ignored me for 5 years, only to reach out when they saw a 5th anniversary facebook post that mentioned our kids. Do I let them back in, or do I ignore them?\n
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My husband (30m) used to be my boss. About 9 years ago I started working as his assistant. We spent about 2.5 years ignoring our mutual attraction until we gave in. We then went to HR, who reassigned me, and the whole thing was strictly above board from the time we began dating. I got pregnant about a year later, and my husband and I decided to just get married. While we’d only really been dating for about 1.5 years, we knew each other completely, loved each other, lived together, and there was a baby on the way. We knew how it would look, but I had to leave the company anyway due to problems with my new boss, so we didn’t anticipate this causing any issues, except with my parents.\n
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They (62m/57f) have always been overprotective, so I knew they wouldn’t like me dating my boss, and hadn’t told them, but I had to tell them if I wanted them at my wedding. We decided to be mostly honest with them, about how it was strictly professional until it wasn’t, how the second it got unprofessional we went to HR, how he had never taken advantage of me, but now we wanted to get married and we wanted them there. We did not mention the baby, because I felt that giving them that information in addition to the rest all at once would just break them. I was only about 4 months along when the wedding happened, so the bump was easily hidden by a flowy dress.\n
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The wedding itself went off without a hitch, and apart from my mother pulling me into the bathroom shortly before the ceremony to ask if I was sure about this, which I said I was, my parents seemed to take it well. The ceremony and reception were at 2 different venues, and we had to travel from one to the other, and my parents never arrived at the reception. I called them and got ignored, and then my brother called them and they told him that they were going home. I don’t remember the exact reason they gave but it amounted to them being tired and uncomfortable. I tried contacting them after the wedding, but found that I was blocked on everything except email, which I used to send them a long letter essentially saying that I’m an adult who made an adult choice and I hope they can respect that.\n
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5 years later, I have not heard from my parents since my wedding. My husband and I are not big on social media in general but I recently posted something for our 5th anniversary in which I mentioned our 2 kids and third on the way. Within a month of making this post, my parents left a voicemail saying they saw the post, and, having had no idea that they had grandchildren previously, now want to meet them. I haven’t responded and there have been a few follow ups since then asking why I haven’t.\n
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I don’t know what to do, but my gut instinct is that 5 years is too long, and it’s about the kids, not about them respecting my choices or relationship. However, I can’t help but feel that I’m being unfair, and my brother agrees, because I told them in my email that if they could learn to respect my choice and my marriage eventually, then we could talk, and now I’m retroactively applying a time limit.\n
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Edit: can’t find a way to work this in organically but my husband is not white. I am, as are my parents. I don’t think this is a race thing or that my parents are racist, and neither does my husband, and we don’t understand why they would want to meet our mixed race children if they were racist, but this element is still gnawing at me.\n
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Should I reach out to them? If I did, how would we go about rebuilding the relationship?\n
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[**Update**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qdfsx0/update_i_29f_spoke_to_my_parents_who_ghosted_me_5/) *- October 22, 2021*\n
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TLDR; They’re racists.\n
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I asked to talk yesterday. We were on zoom within an hour. It was my parents and me and my husband. They asked to see the kids, and I said they could see them eventually, dependant on them earning our trust and convincing us they were going to be positive additions to the kids’ lives.\n
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They asked to start by reading me a letter that they claimed to have written on my wedding day. It said that they were uncomfortable with me marrying my former boss as they thought he took advantage of me, so they left between the wedding and reception to avoid a scene, but they wanted me to know they were here for me despite their issues with him. They added that they would have sent this to me the morning after my wedding, but then I sent my email about them needing to respect my choices, and they were so ashamed they couldn’t bring themselves to send theirs. Seeing my anniversary post made them realise how much they’ve missed in 5 years and they really don’t want to miss any more.\n
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I had some questions, like what the big deal was with me marrying my former boss, and they said that it just wasn’t what they had in mind for my wedding day and my future spouse. I asked why they even came to the wedding at all if they didn’t support the marriage, and my dad responded that he wanted to walk his daughter down the aisle as it was the only chance he’d get. The way it was phrased implied that they had intentionally only come to the wedding so he could give me away, and always planned to leave halfway, and because he said “my daughter”, and didn’t talk to me directly, it was pretty clear he was thinking about my older sister, who passed away. My husband caught that, too, and said that if they were talking about me, they should address me directly, then added that if they had planned to leave they should have told us as we wouldn’t have invited them, and the fact they waited 5 years to reach out was going to take more reasons than shame as, as a father, he didn’t understand how they could ignore their daughter for years, or only get back in touch when we had kids.\n
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My dad snapped that he wasn’t going to take this from a “cushi”, a slur meaning dark skinned. My mother immediately tried to run damage control but I ended the call. They have since messaged me several times trying to explain that calling my husband a racial slur wasn’t indicative of a racist attitude, and he wouldn’t have said that in front of the kids, so they should still get to meet them.\n
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I’ve spent 5 years wondering how they were so offended by me marrying my boss that it earned no contact for half a decade. Turns out they’re just racist. It’s almost nice to find out. If it was just the boss thing I would have sympathy for them and we might even be able to reconcile, but with this, it’s now just a question of if I’m going to knowingly expose my mixed race children to a couple of racists, which I am obviously not going to do.\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/y8z737/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/)
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am not OP.**\n
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Posted by [u/throwramotherwdid](/u/throwramotherwdid) on [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)\n
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[**Original**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qbybwq/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/) *- October 20, 2021*\n
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TLDR; I’m married to my former boss. Parents did not take the marriage as well as I’d hoped and ignored me for 5 years, only to reach out when they saw a 5th anniversary facebook post that mentioned our kids. Do I let them back in, or do I ignore them?\n
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My husband (30m) used to be my boss. About 9 years ago I started working as his assistant. We spent about 2.5 years ignoring our mutual attraction until we gave in. We then went to HR, who reassigned me, and the whole thing was strictly above board from the time we began dating. I got pregnant about a year later, and my husband and I decided to just get married. While we’d only really been dating for about 1.5 years, we knew each other completely, loved each other, lived together, and there was a baby on the way. We knew how it would look, but I had to leave the company anyway due to problems with my new boss, so we didn’t anticipate this causing any issues, except with my parents.\n
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They (62m/57f) have always been overprotective, so I knew they wouldn’t like me dating my boss, and hadn’t told them, but I had to tell them if I wanted them at my wedding. We decided to be mostly honest with them, about how it was strictly professional until it wasn’t, how the second it got unprofessional we went to HR, how he had never taken advantage of me, but now we wanted to get married and we wanted them there. We did not mention the baby, because I felt that giving them that information in addition to the rest all at once would just break them. I was only about 4 months along when the wedding happened, so the bump was easily hidden by a flowy dress.\n
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The wedding itself went off without a hitch, and apart from my mother pulling me into the bathroom shortly before the ceremony to ask if I was sure about this, which I said I was, my parents seemed to take it well. The ceremony and reception were at 2 different venues, and we had to travel from one to the other, and my parents never arrived at the reception. I called them and got ignored, and then my brother called them and they told him that they were going home. I don’t remember the exact reason they gave but it amounted to them being tired and uncomfortable. I tried contacting them after the wedding, but found that I was blocked on everything except email, which I used to send them a long letter essentially saying that I’m an adult who made an adult choice and I hope they can respect that.\n
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5 years later, I have not heard from my parents since my wedding. My husband and I are not big on social media in general but I recently posted something for our 5th anniversary in which I mentioned our 2 kids and third on the way. Within a month of making this post, my parents left a voicemail saying they saw the post, and, having had no idea that they had grandchildren previously, now want to meet them. I haven’t responded and there have been a few follow ups since then asking why I haven’t.\n
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I don’t know what to do, but my gut instinct is that 5 years is too long, and it’s about the kids, not about them respecting my choices or relationship. However, I can’t help but feel that I’m being unfair, and my brother agrees, because I told them in my email that if they could learn to respect my choice and my marriage eventually, then we could talk, and now I’m retroactively applying a time limit.\n
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Edit: can’t find a way to work this in organically but my husband is not white. I am, as are my parents. I don’t think this is a race thing or that my parents are racist, and neither does my husband, and we don’t understand why they would want to meet our mixed race children if they were racist, but this element is still gnawing at me.\n
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Should I reach out to them? If I did, how would we go about rebuilding the relationship?\n
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[**Update**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qdfsx0/update_i_29f_spoke_to_my_parents_who_ghosted_me_5/) *- October 22, 2021*\n
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TLDR; They’re racists.\n
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I asked to talk yesterday. We were on zoom within an hour. It was my parents and me and my husband. They asked to see the kids, and I said they could see them eventually, dependant on them earning our trust and convincing us they were going to be positive additions to the kids’ lives.\n
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They asked to start by reading me a letter that they claimed to have written on my wedding day. It said that they were uncomfortable with me marrying my former boss as they thought he took advantage of me, so they left between the wedding and reception to avoid a scene, but they wanted me to know they were here for me despite their issues with him. They added that they would have sent this to me the morning after my wedding, but then I sent my email about them needing to respect my choices, and they were so ashamed they couldn’t bring themselves to send theirs. Seeing my anniversary post made them realise how much they’ve missed in 5 years and they really don’t want to miss any more.\n
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I had some questions, like what the big deal was with me marrying my former boss, and they said that it just wasn’t what they had in mind for my wedding day and my future spouse. I asked why they even came to the wedding at all if they didn’t support the marriage, and my dad responded that he wanted to walk his daughter down the aisle as it was the only chance he’d get. The way it was phrased implied that they had intentionally only come to the wedding so he could give me away, and always planned to leave halfway, and because he said “my daughter”, and didn’t talk to me directly, it was pretty clear he was thinking about my older sister, who passed away. My husband caught that, too, and said that if they were talking about me, they should address me directly, then added that if they had planned to leave they should have told us as we wouldn’t have invited them, and the fact they waited 5 years to reach out was going to take more reasons than shame as, as a father, he didn’t understand how they could ignore their daughter for years, or only get back in touch when we had kids.\n
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My dad snapped that he wasn’t going to take this from a “cushi”, a slur meaning dark skinned. My mother immediately tried to run damage control but I ended the call. They have since messaged me several times trying to explain that calling my husband a racial slur wasn’t indicative of a racist attitude, and he wouldn’t have said that in front of the kids, so they should still get to meet them.\n
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I’ve spent 5 years wondering how they were so offended by me marrying my boss that it earned no contact for half a decade. Turns out they’re just racist. It’s almost nice to find out. If it was just the boss thing I would have sympathy for them and we might even be able to reconcile, but with this, it’s now just a question of if I’m going to knowingly expose my mixed race children to a couple of racists, which I am obviously not going to do.\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/y8z737/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/)
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*This is a repost. I am not the original author (see disclaimer at the bottom).*\n
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**I am not OP.**\n
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Posted by [u/throwramotherwdid](/u/throwramotherwdid) on [r/relationship_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice)\n
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[**Original**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qbybwq/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/) *- October 20, 2021*\n
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TLDR; I’m married to my former boss. Parents did not take the marriage as well as I’d hoped and ignored me for 5 years, only to reach out when they saw a 5th anniversary facebook post that mentioned our kids. Do I let them back in, or do I ignore them?\n
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My husband (30m) used to be my boss. About 9 years ago I started working as his assistant. We spent about 2.5 years ignoring our mutual attraction until we gave in. We then went to HR, who reassigned me, and the whole thing was strictly above board from the time we began dating. I got pregnant about a year later, and my husband and I decided to just get married. While we’d only really been dating for about 1.5 years, we knew each other completely, loved each other, lived together, and there was a baby on the way. We knew how it would look, but I had to leave the company anyway due to problems with my new boss, so we didn’t anticipate this causing any issues, except with my parents.\n
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They (62m/57f) have always been overprotective, so I knew they wouldn’t like me dating my boss, and hadn’t told them, but I had to tell them if I wanted them at my wedding. We decided to be mostly honest with them, about how it was strictly professional until it wasn’t, how the second it got unprofessional we went to HR, how he had never taken advantage of me, but now we wanted to get married and we wanted them there. We did not mention the baby, because I felt that giving them that information in addition to the rest all at once would just break them. I was only about 4 months along when the wedding happened, so the bump was easily hidden by a flowy dress.\n
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The wedding itself went off without a hitch, and apart from my mother pulling me into the bathroom shortly before the ceremony to ask if I was sure about this, which I said I was, my parents seemed to take it well. The ceremony and reception were at 2 different venues, and we had to travel from one to the other, and my parents never arrived at the reception. I called them and got ignored, and then my brother called them and they told him that they were going home. I don’t remember the exact reason they gave but it amounted to them being tired and uncomfortable. I tried contacting them after the wedding, but found that I was blocked on everything except email, which I used to send them a long letter essentially saying that I’m an adult who made an adult choice and I hope they can respect that.\n
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5 years later, I have not heard from my parents since my wedding. My husband and I are not big on social media in general but I recently posted something for our 5th anniversary in which I mentioned our 2 kids and third on the way. Within a month of making this post, my parents left a voicemail saying they saw the post, and, having had no idea that they had grandchildren previously, now want to meet them. I haven’t responded and there have been a few follow ups since then asking why I haven’t.\n
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I don’t know what to do, but my gut instinct is that 5 years is too long, and it’s about the kids, not about them respecting my choices or relationship. However, I can’t help but feel that I’m being unfair, and my brother agrees, because I told them in my email that if they could learn to respect my choice and my marriage eventually, then we could talk, and now I’m retroactively applying a time limit.\n
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Edit: can’t find a way to work this in organically but my husband is not white. I am, as are my parents. I don’t think this is a race thing or that my parents are racist, and neither does my husband, and we don’t understand why they would want to meet our mixed race children if they were racist, but this element is still gnawing at me.\n
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Should I reach out to them? If I did, how would we go about rebuilding the relationship?\n
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[**Update**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qdfsx0/update_i_29f_spoke_to_my_parents_who_ghosted_me_5/) *- October 22, 2021*\n
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TLDR; They’re racists.\n
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I asked to talk yesterday. We were on zoom within an hour. It was my parents and me and my husband. They asked to see the kids, and I said they could see them eventually, dependant on them earning our trust and convincing us they were going to be positive additions to the kids’ lives.\n
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They asked to start by reading me a letter that they claimed to have written on my wedding day. It said that they were uncomfortable with me marrying my former boss as they thought he took advantage of me, so they left between the wedding and reception to avoid a scene, but they wanted me to know they were here for me despite their issues with him. They added that they would have sent this to me the morning after my wedding, but then I sent my email about them needing to respect my choices, and they were so ashamed they couldn’t bring themselves to send theirs. Seeing my anniversary post made them realise how much they’ve missed in 5 years and they really don’t want to miss any more.\n
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I had some questions, like what the big deal was with me marrying my former boss, and they said that it just wasn’t what they had in mind for my wedding day and my future spouse. I asked why they even came to the wedding at all if they didn’t support the marriage, and my dad responded that he wanted to walk his daughter down the aisle as it was the only chance he’d get. The way it was phrased implied that they had intentionally only come to the wedding so he could give me away, and always planned to leave halfway, and because he said “my daughter”, and didn’t talk to me directly, it was pretty clear he was thinking about my older sister, who passed away. My husband caught that, too, and said that if they were talking about me, they should address me directly, then added that if they had planned to leave they should have told us as we wouldn’t have invited them, and the fact they waited 5 years to reach out was going to take more reasons than shame as, as a father, he didn’t understand how they could ignore their daughter for years, or only get back in touch when we had kids.\n
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My dad snapped that he wasn’t going to take this from a “cushi”, a slur meaning dark skinned. My mother immediately tried to run damage control but I ended the call. They have since messaged me several times trying to explain that calling my husband a racial slur wasn’t indicative of a racist attitude, and he wouldn’t have said that in front of the kids, so they should still get to meet them.\n
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I’ve spent 5 years wondering how they were so offended by me marrying my boss that it earned no contact for half a decade. Turns out they’re just racist. It’s almost nice to find out. If it was just the boss thing I would have sympathy for them and we might even be able to reconcile, but with this, it’s now just a question of if I’m going to knowingly expose my mixed race children to a couple of racists, which I am obviously not going to do.\n
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*Disclaimer*\n
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*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
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Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/y8z737/my_29f_parents_ghosted_me_5_years_ago_after_my/)
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We have been together 2 years in a stable relationship. But we had our toxic on-and-off breakups for 2 years before ending it officially, then getting back together in a stable relationship (now). So that explains why my family is not having a really good impression of him. We have been dating secretly for 2 years now. Both our families know we are dating, just that they don't know its the same partner.\r\n
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Hi 🙂 First of all, thank you all for the comments and messages- I was not expecting so many people to respond and give insight. I have read most of the comments (appreciate all, either good or nasty) and I understand the shared consensus. I would like to clarify some things before I get new messages and comments 🙂\r\n
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Is he financially dependent on me. He is not financially dependent on me now. I have seen several comments mentioning "leeching off" and would like to address that. We go on dates occasionally and always we pay alternatively- meaning he pays for one full date and I pay the next. I have offered to pay for some of his equipment (used for chasing his dream) and he has turned me down multiple times.\r\n
His dream. Everyone is asking about his dream to have a clearer picture. Out of privacy reasons, I will not be stating his dream specifically. All I can say is that he wants to be the best in an Olympic sport (in fact, he wants to be a national representative).\r\n
His reason for not working. His reason is that the time spent on working, can be spent on chasing his dream and working on it. He wants to not 'half-ass' his effort spend on chasing his dream. He wants to put full effort and time into his dream.\r\n
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I just would like to clarify any miscomm and would love to hear from you all. Am intending to talk with him this Sat and will update here again 🙂\r\n
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Hi again, it's Sat and I have talked to him. I'm writing this to pin down my thoughts and hear other people's opinions. Put it simply, the relationship is officially ended.\r\n
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So I talked to him after his competition and even had his coach talk to me (but mostly, to him). His coach voiced out the same concerns as I have- the chances of being a pro now, his rate of progression, getting a job now, his finances now, and the reality of competing to be at the top.... And the general vibe of how things went down was that he is quite stubborn in doing it in his own ways (believes that his training does not need to be ramped up, believes that work is not as impt, believes that he needs more time). I asked what he wants me to do and said that he wants my emotional support and to give him more time (from the initial 10 years to 5years) to prove himself. We spent close to 2 hours talking about this and came to a compromise that within 1 year if he can't reach the milestone that we both set, I'm leaving. (PS. Later he texted and said that he is not going to follow through after agreeing). So yeah, I just feel that he's too stubborn and unrealistic. As much as I want to support, I need his help and he does not really seem to understand that.\r\n
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I just felt so drained and tired talking to him, it's like talking to a child/wall. This is one of the reasons why I ended things with him. Another reason is that he is very controlling (in my imo) when it comes to me talking to guys.\r\n
I showed him some of things yall have said, just to give him a better idea of the general consensus and he clicked onto 1 of the profile and immediately got defensive, asking me to block him because of his comment history. And I was casual chatting with a guy friend online about my situation, and again he got angry that I was texting him and said that I was "lacking emotional maturity". He took my phone without my permission, blocked the account, and erase my chats with my online friend. This is not the first time that it happened. He has asked me to block and cut all contact with my close guy friends before (and I stupidly did so). So there's that and that is when I made up my mind to leave this rs. He then later texted and said that my period affecting the way I treat him and the breakup situation (sigh...)\r\n
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I think his actions and mindset has shown me a lot about him. I have nothing against him, truly just wishing him well for his own future. At this point, I just hope and pray I can get through my healing and breakup cycle.\r\n
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So that's the update. Thank you for everyone's support and comments, it really gave me the push and confidence to talk about it, and rethink about the rs and its red flags 🙂
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I am not the OOP, OOP is /u/Comfortable_Mix_3243. Originally posted to /r/askSingapore\r\n
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We have been together 2 years in a stable relationship. But we had our toxic on-and-off breakups for 2 years before ending it officially, then getting back together in a stable relationship (now). So that explains why my family is not having a really good impression of him. We have been dating secretly for 2 years now. Both our families know we are dating, just that they don't know its the same partner.\r\n
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I have not introduced him to my family and I'm scared to do so cos idk how and what kind of response I'm gonna get. I honestly get stressed when I think about 'what if my family does not like him'? I don't know what I will do then, because I can't abandon my family but I really do not want to leave him.\r\n
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Another problem that comes with this is that he is a drop out and has no intention to earn money for now. He is focusing on his dreams, and aspirations and I fully support that. But I can't help and wonder what happens if I marry him. What about our financial issues? I am going to graduate in about 1.5 years and my starting pay is low- in fact, this industry is known for being underpaid. So I can't depend on him to pay for housing, food, car etc. He said that if his dreams dont work in 10(?) years, he will start looking for a job. I am not sure how to feel about that- he does not have any working experience and does not even have a degree.\r\n
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Idk how to feel about this whole situation, but I do know that I want to work it out with him. Hopefully anyone with similar experience can share? \r\n
\r\n
UPDATE 1\r\n
\r\n
Hi 🙂 First of all, thank you all for the comments and messages- I was not expecting so many people to respond and give insight. I have read most of the comments (appreciate all, either good or nasty) and I understand the shared consensus. I would like to clarify some things before I get new messages and comments 🙂\r\n
\r\n
Is he financially dependent on me. He is not financially dependent on me now. I have seen several comments mentioning "leeching off" and would like to address that. We go on dates occasionally and always we pay alternatively- meaning he pays for one full date and I pay the next. I have offered to pay for some of his equipment (used for chasing his dream) and he has turned me down multiple times.\r\n
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UPDATE 2\r\n
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Hi again, it's Sat and I have talked to him. I'm writing this to pin down my thoughts and hear other people's opinions. Put it simply, the relationship is officially ended.\r\n
\r\n
So I talked to him after his competition and even had his coach talk to me (but mostly, to him). His coach voiced out the same concerns as I have- the chances of being a pro now, his rate of progression, getting a job now, his finances now, and the reality of competing to be at the top.... And the general vibe of how things went down was that he is quite stubborn in doing it in his own ways (believes that his training does not need to be ramped up, believes that work is not as impt, believes that he needs more time). I asked what he wants me to do and said that he wants my emotional support and to give him more time (from the initial 10 years to 5years) to prove himself. We spent close to 2 hours talking about this and came to a compromise that within 1 year if he can't reach the milestone that we both set, I'm leaving. (PS. Later he texted and said that he is not going to follow through after agreeing). So yeah, I just feel that he's too stubborn and unrealistic. As much as I want to support, I need his help and he does not really seem to understand that.\r\n
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I just felt so drained and tired talking to him, it's like talking to a child/wall. This is one of the reasons why I ended things with him. Another reason is that he is very controlling (in my imo) when it comes to me talking to guys.\r\n
I showed him some of things yall have said, just to give him a better idea of the general consensus and he clicked onto 1 of the profile and immediately got defensive, asking me to block him because of his comment history. And I was casual chatting with a guy friend online about my situation, and again he got angry that I was texting him and said that I was "lacking emotional maturity". He took my phone without my permission, blocked the account, and erase my chats with my online friend. This is not the first time that it happened. He has asked me to block and cut all contact with my close guy friends before (and I stupidly did so). So there's that and that is when I made up my mind to leave this rs. He then later texted and said that my period affecting the way I treat him and the breakup situation (sigh...)\r\n
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I think his actions and mindset has shown me a lot about him. I have nothing against him, truly just wishing him well for his own future. At this point, I just hope and pray I can get through my healing and breakup cycle.\r\n
\r\n
So that's the update. Thank you for everyone's support and comments, it really gave me the push and confidence to talk about it, and rethink about the rs and its red flags 🙂
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I have not introduced him to my family and I'm scared to do so cos idk how and what kind of response I'm gonna get. I honestly get stressed when I think about 'what if my family does not like him'? I don't know what I will do then, because I can't abandon my family but I really do not want to leave him.\r\n
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Another problem that comes with this is that he is a drop out and has no intention to earn money for now. He is focusing on his dreams, and aspirations and I fully support that. But I can't help and wonder what happens if I marry him. What about our financial issues? I am going to graduate in about 1.5 years and my starting pay is low- in fact, this industry is known for being underpaid. So I can't depend on him to pay for housing, food, car etc. He said that if his dreams dont work in 10(?) years, he will start looking for a job. I am not sure how to feel about that- he does not have any working experience and does not even have a degree.\r\n
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Idk how to feel about this whole situation, but I do know that I want to work it out with him. Hopefully anyone with similar experience can share? \r\n
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\r\n
Hi 🙂 First of all, thank you all for the comments and messages- I was not expecting so many people to respond and give insight. I have read most of the comments (appreciate all, either good or nasty) and I understand the shared consensus. I would like to clarify some things before I get new messages and comments 🙂\r\n
\r\n
Is he financially dependent on me. He is not financially dependent on me now. I have seen several comments mentioning "leeching off" and would like to address that. We go on dates occasionally and always we pay alternatively- meaning he pays for one full date and I pay the next. I have offered to pay for some of his equipment (used for chasing his dream) and he has turned me down multiple times.\r\n
His dream. Everyone is asking about his dream to have a clearer picture. Out of privacy reasons, I will not be stating his dream specifically. All I can say is that he wants to be the best in an Olympic sport (in fact, he wants to be a national representative).\r\n
His reason for not working. His reason is that the time spent on working, can be spent on chasing his dream and working on it. He wants to not 'half-ass' his effort spend on chasing his dream. He wants to put full effort and time into his dream.\r\n
\r\n
I just would like to clarify any miscomm and would love to hear from you all. Am intending to talk with him this Sat and will update here again 🙂\r\n
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UPDATE 2\r\n
\r\n
Hi again, it's Sat and I have talked to him. I'm writing this to pin down my thoughts and hear other people's opinions. Put it simply, the relationship is officially ended.\r\n
\r\n
So I talked to him after his competition and even had his coach talk to me (but mostly, to him). His coach voiced out the same concerns as I have- the chances of being a pro now, his rate of progression, getting a job now, his finances now, and the reality of competing to be at the top.... And the general vibe of how things went down was that he is quite stubborn in doing it in his own ways (believes that his training does not need to be ramped up, believes that work is not as impt, believes that he needs more time). I asked what he wants me to do and said that he wants my emotional support and to give him more time (from the initial 10 years to 5years) to prove himself. We spent close to 2 hours talking about this and came to a compromise that within 1 year if he can't reach the milestone that we both set, I'm leaving. (PS. Later he texted and said that he is not going to follow through after agreeing). So yeah, I just feel that he's too stubborn and unrealistic. As much as I want to support, I need his help and he does not really seem to understand that.\r\n
\r\n
I just felt so drained and tired talking to him, it's like talking to a child/wall. This is one of the reasons why I ended things with him. Another reason is that he is very controlling (in my imo) when it comes to me talking to guys.\r\n
I showed him some of things yall have said, just to give him a better idea of the general consensus and he clicked onto 1 of the profile and immediately got defensive, asking me to block him because of his comment history. And I was casual chatting with a guy friend online about my situation, and again he got angry that I was texting him and said that I was "lacking emotional maturity". He took my phone without my permission, blocked the account, and erase my chats with my online friend. This is not the first time that it happened. He has asked me to block and cut all contact with my close guy friends before (and I stupidly did so). So there's that and that is when I made up my mind to leave this rs. He then later texted and said that my period affecting the way I treat him and the breakup situation (sigh...)\r\n
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I think his actions and mindset has shown me a lot about him. I have nothing against him, truly just wishing him well for his own future. At this point, I just hope and pray I can get through my healing and breakup cycle.\r\n
\r\n
So that's the update. Thank you for everyone's support and comments, it really gave me the push and confidence to talk about it, and rethink about the rs and its red flags 🙂
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**I am NOT OP. Original post by [u/liberalfilmnerd76](/u/liberalfilmnerd76) in [r/advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/advice)**\n
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[**I want to start calling my adoptive mom “mom” instead of her name**](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/z8b2rr/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/) - 30 November 2022\n
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My bio parents put me (15m) up for adoption when I was born so I was always in foster homes until I was twelve. I had a teacher Janice (33f) who was my home room teacher.\n
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Janice found out about me being a foster kid and how I wished I had a family. Janice had also been a foster kid growing up and so long story short she then became my foster mom and adopted me.\n
\n
Janice is the best mom I could have ever asked for. She has been so unbelievably kind and loving to me and I absolutely adore her. The problem is that I don’t call her mom, I just call her Janice. I want to start calling her mom but have no idea how to without making it awkward. Please help me internet strangers.\n
\n
**Update:**\n
\n
So…… was not expecting this big of a response. Thank all of you for responding and some of the ideas made me really tear up. Anyways this morning I went to Janice and I said “good morning mom” she just looked at me and started crying then came over and hugged me and kissed my forehead. I hugged her back and she said I could call her whatever made me comfortable and that she loves me more than anything. I just replied with “I love you mom”.\n
\n
So yeah hope this update makes someone’s day because it certainly made mine. Have a great day.\n
\n
Also made a typo I’m 15 not 16 lol\n
\n
**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
\n
*Disclaimer*\n
\n
*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
\n
Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmt6w3/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/)
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[**I want to start calling my adoptive mom “mom” instead of her name**](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/z8b2rr/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/) - 30 November 2022\n
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My bio parents put me (15m) up for adoption when I was born so I was always in foster homes until I was twelve. I had a teacher Janice (33f) who was my home room teacher.\n
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Janice found out about me being a foster kid and how I wished I had a family. Janice had also been a foster kid growing up and so long story short she then became my foster mom and adopted me.\n
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Janice is the best mom I could have ever asked for. She has been so unbelievably kind and loving to me and I absolutely adore her. The problem is that I don’t call her mom, I just call her Janice. I want to start calling her mom but have no idea how to without making it awkward. Please help me internet strangers.\n
\n
**Update:**\n
\n
So…… was not expecting this big of a response. Thank all of you for responding and some of the ideas made me really tear up. Anyways this morning I went to Janice and I said “good morning mom” she just looked at me and started crying then came over and hugged me and kissed my forehead. I hugged her back and she said I could call her whatever made me comfortable and that she loves me more than anything. I just replied with “I love you mom”.\n
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So yeah hope this update makes someone’s day because it certainly made mine. Have a great day.\n
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Also made a typo I’m 15 not 16 lol\n
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**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
\n
*Disclaimer*\n
\n
*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
\n
Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmt6w3/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/)
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[**I want to start calling my adoptive mom “mom” instead of her name**](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/z8b2rr/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/) - 30 November 2022\n
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My bio parents put me (15m) up for adoption when I was born so I was always in foster homes until I was twelve. I had a teacher Janice (33f) who was my home room teacher.\n
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Janice found out about me being a foster kid and how I wished I had a family. Janice had also been a foster kid growing up and so long story short she then became my foster mom and adopted me.\n
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Janice is the best mom I could have ever asked for. She has been so unbelievably kind and loving to me and I absolutely adore her. The problem is that I don’t call her mom, I just call her Janice. I want to start calling her mom but have no idea how to without making it awkward. Please help me internet strangers.\n
\n
**Update:**\n
\n
So…… was not expecting this big of a response. Thank all of you for responding and some of the ideas made me really tear up. Anyways this morning I went to Janice and I said “good morning mom” she just looked at me and started crying then came over and hugged me and kissed my forehead. I hugged her back and she said I could call her whatever made me comfortable and that she loves me more than anything. I just replied with “I love you mom”.\n
\n
So yeah hope this update makes someone’s day because it certainly made mine. Have a great day.\n
\n
Also made a typo I’m 15 not 16 lol\n
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**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**\n
\n
*Disclaimer*\n
\n
*This is a repost from reddit. I really missed this sub so I decided to post some top articles from time to time until hopefully one day this community will be large enough to produce its own content.*\n
\n
Read the original [here](https://www.reddit.com//r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmt6w3/i_want_to_start_calling_my_adoptive_mom_mom/)
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Sorry for posting this twice, it’s a new community largely in the sense that a community a couple of weeks old got nuked alongside the fmhy.ml domain. [Cached copy of the old community.](https://notdigg.com/c/classicblogposts@lemmy.fmhy.ml)\n
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