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Breakups can be pretty hard to cope with depending on how it ended.\n
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The best advice I can think of is trying to think of it as an era of your life is now over. Those events from that era still have significance to you and will likely for a long time. And the best thing to do is not to dwell on them but look to the future.\n
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The best thing you can do is to let go.\n
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They’re gone, they chose to move on. And now you will have to as well.\n
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Look to the future for what could be.\n
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And reach out to your friends/family and talk to them. It will be hard but open up to them about it. And if your family is just as supportive as mine, just your friends.\n
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Here’s a brief(ish) personal story of how my most significant relationship ended.\n
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Trigger warning: death and substance abuse.\n
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She lost her job.\n
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Then she died.\n
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And a few days later he died due to drinking and driving.\n
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Everything fell apart.\n
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The era was over. And a new era had begun.\n
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I handled it the worst way possible, I fell back into substance abuse.\n
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\n
The best advice I can think of is trying to think of it as an era of your life is now over. Those events from that era still have significance to you and will likely for a long time. And the best thing to do is not to dwell on them but look to the future.\n
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What will this new era bring? Will you pick up those hobbies you’ve been thinking about but didn’t have the spare time for? Will you find new adventures in hobbies you already have? Will you focus on self improvement?\n
\n
The best thing you can do is to let go.\n
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\n
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\n
Don’t dwell on the past and what could have been, you will only find pain there.\n
\n
Look to the future for what could be.\n
\n
And reach out to your friends/family and talk to them. It will be hard but open up to them about it. And if your family is just as supportive as mine, just your friends.\n
\n
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\n
Trigger warning: death and substance abuse.\n
\n
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\n
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\n
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\n
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\n
She lost her job.\n
\n
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\n
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\n
Everything fell apart.\n
\n
The era was over. And a new era had begun.\n
\n
I handled it the worst way possible, I fell back into substance abuse.\n
\n
And it took me 6 years to kick it.\n
\n
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\n
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Look to the future for what could be.\n
\n
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\n
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\n
Trigger warning: death and substance abuse.\n
\n
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\n
Everything fell apart.\n
\n
The era was over. And a new era had begun.\n
\n
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\n
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It might have worked for you, but it didn’t work for me. Actively trying to distract myself with girls didn’t fix the root of the problem. I hooked up with about 7 girls in 6 months and I only felt lonelier after. For me, it was kind of like those self-improvement, wake up at 4 am, grind-all-day type of programs. It worked while I was doing it, but as soon as I was still, all the feelings that I had been hiding/avoiding came right back. It was a distraction, not a solution.\n
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What worked for me was thinking and time. At first, I ran from the feelings, but as soon as I realized they weren’t going anywhere, I just embraced them. I cried and cried, thought about how I felt when I cried, thought about my options, etc. Evaluating my life, actions, where I had been, and where I was headed helped me a lot. After a while, I decided to get fit, find my style (clothing, colors, facial hair, etc), and make friends. People can feel when you’re confident and satisfied. When you’re not just looking for something from them because you have it in yourself. People like that.\n
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Give yourself time to heal because you deserve it. If hooking up with people helps, then go right ahead, but it did not help me.
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I’m sorry this happened. It fucking sucks.\n
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Let me try to help.\n
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Your world was shattered and you need a new baseline. One of the (many, many) painful elements of transitioning relationships is loss of routine. It feels like shit because when you hit that old routine, you give yourself a dose of pain as you’re reminded of your reality. Recognize that right now, your previous life is gone and routines need updated.\n
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How do you think about things? I’m a visual, hands on, person. If it were me, I’d grab my digital notebook and start planning.\n
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I need to plan the big beats of the day, and then let the other variables guide me.\n
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I’d break it into three sections: My morning routine, afternoon, and evening.\n
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How are important things like meals and work tackled? Don’t just think about these things, live them! Mentally think about work on Monday. Did your ex give you a ride? You need a new routine. Did they pack your lunch? You need a new routine. Did they cook dinner? Etc.\n
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Finally, how do these routines change for the weekend? 3 more paths.\n
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Good luck. This isn’t easy and it feels like shit. I hope anything I said is helpful.\n
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DM me directly if you have and specific questions or want to share personal details that aren’t appropriate in a forum setting.\n
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If I can help you I will. You’re not alone.
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A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions\n
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**[Search asklemmy](https://lemmy.ml/search?q=&type=Posts&listingType=All&communityId=8&page=1&sort=TopAll) 🔍**\n
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If your post meets the following criteria, it’s welcome here!\n
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1. Open-ended\n
2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions\n
3. **Not regarding using or support for Lemmy**: [context](https://lemmy.ml/post/1223478), find help in the list of support alternatives below\n
4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members\n
5. [An actual topic of discussion](https://lemmy.ml/post/1239589)\n
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Support alternatives:\n
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- [!lemmy_support@lemmy.ml](https://lemmy.ml/c/lemmy_support)\n
- [!nostupidlemmyquestions@lemmy.dbzer0.com](https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/nostupidlemmyquestions)\n
- [!selfhosted@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/c/selfhosted)\n
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~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~
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