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Response
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IP
216.73.216.22
Profiled on
Token
96d9ba

Security

Token

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Firewall

main Name
Security enabled
Stateless

Configuration

Key Value
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access_denied_url (none)
authenticators 
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Authenticators

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Access Decision

affirmative Strategy
# Voter class
1 
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2 
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3 
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4 
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5 
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6 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
7 
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8 
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9 
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10 
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12 
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13 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
14 
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Access decision log

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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN
Show voter details
2 DENIED moderate 
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      5. [An actual topic of discussion](https://lemmy.ml/post/1239589)\n
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      - [!lemmy_support@lemmy.ml](https://lemmy.ml/c/lemmy_support)\n
      - [!nostupidlemmyquestions@lemmy.dbzer0.com](https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/nostupidlemmyquestions)\n
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    I’m sorry this happened. It fucking sucks.\n
    \n
    Let me try to help.\n
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    Your world was shattered and you need a new baseline. One of the (many, many) painful elements of transitioning relationships is loss of routine. It feels like shit because when you hit that old routine, you give yourself a dose of pain as you’re reminded of your reality. Recognize that right now, your previous life is gone and routines need updated.\n
    \n
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    I need to plan the big beats of the day, and then let the other variables guide me.\n
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    I’d break it into three sections: My morning routine, afternoon, and evening.\n
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    How are important things like meals and work tackled? Don’t just think about these things, live them! Mentally think about work on Monday. Did your ex give you a ride? You need a new routine. Did they pack your lunch? You need a new routine. Did they cook dinner? Etc.\n
    \n
    Finally, how do these routines change for the weekend? 3 more paths.\n
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    Good luck. This isn’t easy and it feels like shit. I hope anything I said is helpful.\n
    \n
    DM me directly if you have and specific questions or want to share personal details that aren’t appropriate in a forum setting.\n
    \n
    If I can help you I will. You’re not alone.
    """
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryCommentVoter"
 ACCESS DENIED 
"App\Security\Voter\EntryVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MagazineVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageThreadVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\MessageVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\NotificationVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\OAuth2UserConsentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostCommentVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\PostVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
"App\Security\Voter\UserVoter"
 ACCESS ABSTAIN
Show voter details
3 DENIED edit 
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      Support alternatives:\n
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      - [!nostupidlemmyquestions@lemmy.dbzer0.com](https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/nostupidlemmyquestions)\n
      - [!selfhosted@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/c/selfhosted)\n
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      ~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~
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    I’m sorry this happened. It fucking sucks.\n
    \n
    Let me try to help.\n
    \n
    Your world was shattered and you need a new baseline. One of the (many, many) painful elements of transitioning relationships is loss of routine. It feels like shit because when you hit that old routine, you give yourself a dose of pain as you’re reminded of your reality. Recognize that right now, your previous life is gone and routines need updated.\n
    \n
    How do you think about things? I’m a visual, hands on, person. If it were me, I’d grab my digital notebook and start planning.\n
    \n
    I need to plan the big beats of the day, and then let the other variables guide me.\n
    \n
    I’d break it into three sections: My morning routine, afternoon, and evening.\n
    \n
    How are important things like meals and work tackled? Don’t just think about these things, live them! Mentally think about work on Monday. Did your ex give you a ride? You need a new routine. Did they pack your lunch? You need a new routine. Did they cook dinner? Etc.\n
    \n
    Finally, how do these routines change for the weekend? 3 more paths.\n
    \n
    Good luck. This isn’t easy and it feels like shit. I hope anything I said is helpful.\n
    \n
    DM me directly if you have and specific questions or want to share personal details that aren’t appropriate in a forum setting.\n
    \n
    If I can help you I will. You’re not alone.
    """
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS DENIED 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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 ACCESS ABSTAIN 
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      \n
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      2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions\n
      3. **Not regarding using or support for Lemmy**: [context](https://lemmy.ml/post/1223478), find help in the list of support alternatives below\n
      4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members\n
      5. [An actual topic of discussion](https://lemmy.ml/post/1239589)\n
      \n
      Support alternatives:\n
      \n
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      - [!nostupidlemmyquestions@lemmy.dbzer0.com](https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/nostupidlemmyquestions)\n
      - [!selfhosted@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/c/selfhosted)\n
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      ~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~
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    I’m sorry this happened. It fucking sucks.\n
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    Let me try to help.\n
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    Your world was shattered and you need a new baseline. One of the (many, many) painful elements of transitioning relationships is loss of routine. It feels like shit because when you hit that old routine, you give yourself a dose of pain as you’re reminded of your reality. Recognize that right now, your previous life is gone and routines need updated.\n
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    How do you think about things? I’m a visual, hands on, person. If it were me, I’d grab my digital notebook and start planning.\n
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    I need to plan the big beats of the day, and then let the other variables guide me.\n
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    I’d break it into three sections: My morning routine, afternoon, and evening.\n
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    How are important things like meals and work tackled? Don’t just think about these things, live them! Mentally think about work on Monday. Did your ex give you a ride? You need a new routine. Did they pack your lunch? You need a new routine. Did they cook dinner? Etc.\n
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    Finally, how do these routines change for the weekend? 3 more paths.\n
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    Good luck. This isn’t easy and it feels like shit. I hope anything I said is helpful.\n
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    If I can help you I will. You’re not alone.
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