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affirmative Strategy
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    I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.\n
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    I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.\n
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      [You Should Know](/c/youshouldknow@lemmy.world)\n
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        Try actively steering your fantasy past the peak of infatuation and into the latter stages of a relationship and on to breakup.\n
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      I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.\n
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    Full speed ahead, tell her how you feel. It can only end in two ways:\n
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    1. Your dream becomes a premonition and you live happily ever after.\n
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    > If she is a dance instructor, she is probably no stranger to having her pupils develop feelings for her.\n
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        Full speed ahead, tell her how you feel. It can only end in two ways:\n
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      I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.\n
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        Full speed ahead, tell her how you feel. It can only end in two ways:\n
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        1. Your dream becomes a premonition and you live happily ever after.\n
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      > If she is a dance instructor, she is probably no stranger to having her pupils develop feelings for her.\n
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      But this just makes it worse. Cause you’re probably right. Which would make me feel even more like a schmuck. Yeah I think I’m just gonna go find a new instructor.
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