eran_morad,

Wife & kids

Quik,

Falling in love

Maddie,
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Meeting my girlfriend!

A_Random_Idiot,

Nothing.

Life has been on a slow, downward slide since I was a teenager.

Tyfud,

Meeting my current wife through some mutual friends. Changed my life for the better. Can’t imagine life without her in it anymore.

She makes me want to be a better person.

pastermil,

I got engaged early last year, planned our wedding toward the end of the year. In between, I got a new job with salary more than twice of my previous job.

Now I am happily married, and after a raise my current salary is almost triple my previous job. I’m still trying to convince my former colleagues (just the cool ones) to also find new jobs.

morphballganon,

How’d you make such a jump in salary?

pastermil,

I got lucky and was able to get in touch with a foreign company.

CrowAirbrush,

We moved from a 16m2 room to a 55m2 appartment.

It’s still way smaller and actually too small for us to keep our hobby income going, compared to our old 120m house that had a lower rent.

But hey, it’s something i guess.

WoahWoah,

Bro just just bootstrap yourself and sell one of your vacation homes. Everyone’s been there before.

CrowAirbrush,

I’ve been bootstrapping the shit out of myself, picking myself up everytime the economy kicks us into a deeper well.

Hell next year we’ll actually be breaking even at the end of the month, while we’ve been eating only 2/3rd of what our bodies require to get through the day in a normal functioning manner. I wonder how long it takes for this economy to actually make us homeless because it seems like that is only a year or 2 away.

jcrabapple,
@jcrabapple@infosec.pub avatar

Working from home full time.

toasteecup,

Cliche but meeting my partner, girl has saved me from so many dumb decisions and she has no idea.

blady_blah,
  1. Going to collage and experiencing the wide gamut of experiences there.
  2. Meeting my wife and her saying yes to going on a date with me my last year of college.
  3. Living in a foreign country (Japan) for 3 years for work with my wife and having 2 kids while I was there.
  4. Having kids (3 in total)
  5. Designing and building our own house.
jubilationtcornpone,

That’s a long list but here’s a few things.

  • Going to therapy.
  • Being willing to forgive and make peace with my dad.
  • Seeking medical treatment for my ADHD.
  • Getting a septoplasty. (Who knew being able to breathe through you nose was so great.)
  • Divorcing my first wife, who is a truly awful person.
  • Saying yes to a date with my (now) wife, who is an awesome person.
  • Learning to love myself just the way I am.
  • Taking an active role in managing my finances.
DogWater,

Meeting my fiance by miles. It isn’t even a contest.

A distant second, which is still miles above anything else below it on the list, is buying a good house in a cheap (bad) neighborhood at 3.1% interest 30 yr fixed.

captainlezbian,

Getting to fall in love with my wife

ctobrien84,

Using the trade skills I acquired to pay for a computer science degree, which has secured me the best job I’ve ever had. Going to college later in life was absolutely a game changer.

lps2,

Got lucky as an early investor in crypto which has allowed me to feel more secure in taking on debt to purchase a home

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