If you mean that being obese shouldn’t be celebrated as healthy… Then that’s OK. But it should not be shamed. Life is hard enough already for obese people, and shaming them will probably not have any positive effect on a large scale, on top of being cruel.
Your theories are dehumanizing women. Women are not a consistent whole. When I hear you talk, it feels like watching a documentary about Siberian wolves at 4 AM on TV.
I’m not going to attempt to cancel you or anything quite like that… but you’re full of shit. Real women are NOTHING like you describe. Stop pursuing shallow Instagram “influencers” and you might find peace. The Internet (and Tinder) is not the real world.
And by being so whiny and paranoid, you’re being the opposite of the good masculine type you’re preaching about.