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Lmaydev, 1 year ago Abuse often works this way. Usually it’s intermittent and when they aren’t being abused they are super loving and caring. This leads to people thinking they are doing something wrong or that the abuser is a loving partner with problems that can be worked on. Abuse is incredibly complicated and until you’ve been through it it’s really hard to understand how anyone could put up with it.
Abuse often works this way.
Usually it’s intermittent and when they aren’t being abused they are super loving and caring.
This leads to people thinking they are doing something wrong or that the abuser is a loving partner with problems that can be worked on.
Abuse is incredibly complicated and until you’ve been through it it’s really hard to understand how anyone could put up with it.
Lmaydev, 1 year ago (edited 1 year ago) 100% There’s reactive abuse. Where in response to abuse you defend yourself with abusive behaviour. Then the original abuser plays the victim and gas lights you. My marriage was like this. It was hell.
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There’s reactive abuse. Where in response to abuse you defend yourself with abusive behaviour. Then the original abuser plays the victim and gas lights you.
My marriage was like this. It was hell.
Healthy relationships don't control the clothes their spouse wears (lemmy.world)