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sbv,

it’s a hard transition to make when we want so desperately to help and are asked not to.

Listening is helping. It took me a while to get that, but we’re helping just by being quiet.

sbv,

Listening is indirect help, passive help. It’s helping simply by existing

Not in my experience. The listener is helping the speaker organize their thoughts, work through their feelings, and (in some cases) decide on a course of action. The listener needs to ask questions, understand the speaker, and help them sort things out.

In a spouse or friend situation, the listener is probably also providing emotional support. Which can be immensely helpful, since it validates the speaker.

There’s also follow up. The listener should talk to the speaker and see how their feelings have evolved.

Walking Desk Is More Annoying Than A Standing Desk (hackaday.com)

I feel like there was a missed opportunity to use some of the spare computing power on the desk to add some helpful navigational autonomy. Like using a backward facing web camera for lane assist, obstacle avoidance, route following, etc. Could leverage something open source like Autoware.org to get most of the way there....

sbv,

Okay, now put the whole thing on wheels. I can finally go grocery shopping during my scrum.

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