You’re bringing your baggage about gender and men and women to a joke about someone’s asscrack being deep as a cave which has no relation to a specific gender at all. Maybe it’s fat shaming if anything. Grow up. This way you won’t even make it to 30 before going to the Koo koo house.
By being an internet sperg applying these terms to anything that annoys you, you are doing a disservice to serious people who do work to improve the situation of all those groups you mentioned. I don’t know what you’re on about ‘DeSantis’, I’m not on the American continent, I’ve never stepped on its soil actually, and don’t plan to. Stop being such a stereotype, as I said it makes you look dumb.