GeoGio7, 1 year ago

It’s important to understand that being on dating apps is not the same as dating in real life. We often see people in more superficial ways on apps and judge them in a way we wouldn’t necessarily do in real life.

Women looking at men that way in dating apps is definitely a reflection on how they do in real life but it’s amplified quite a bit.

Men are the same. How many times have you swiped left on a girl just because you didn’t think she was attractive? She seemed really cool and like someone you’d get along with but she just wasn’t attractive.

This again is a reflection on how men view women in real life but amplified. In real life you wouldn’t be that harsh.

It’s important to stay grounded and remember that everyone is just a stupid human who thinks they know what they want and may put high expectations on someone but often doesn’t take a moment to think ‘Am I all that though?’