ComradeWeebelo,

Here I am wishing I still lived with my mother. I’ve had nothing but problems since moving out on my own. Hopefully things get better some day.

llama,
@llama@midwest.social avatar

It’s like the movie Sliding Doors, except it’s a pocket door to your parents guest bathroom.

Alby003,
@Alby003@lemmings.world avatar

🤣😅👌

spudwart,
@spudwart@spudwart.com avatar

Your parents will let you move back in?

AlbinJose3487,

I tried to get away from them without telling them.

Aggravationstation,

This sent a shudder down my spine. Hate the idea of living with either of my parents again

lol3droflxp,
@lol3droflxp@kbin.social avatar

Finally a fresh new template

Vilian,

i don’t understand that template

GingeyBook,

Hopes are going down

Prices are going up

Vilian,

oh, ok

EyIchFragDochNur,
@EyIchFragDochNur@feddit.de avatar

They own a house? Just wait

AllonzeeLV, (edited )

This is what the capitalist’s reverse mortgage scams they advertise 24/7 on Fox News are for.

And what a quintessentially stereotypical boomer thing to do too, basically leaving their paid off home to a bank for a pittance instead of their kid because fuck everything and everyone once they’re dead.

“Burn my trees upon death so no one can sit under them, and salt the Earth so no others can grow. Everything was mine and it’s no fair I can’t take it with me to supply side heaven.”

DragonTypeWyvern,

Regardless of the clear predation of the reverse mortgage industry, you realize they have to get the equity out of their house or they’ll starve to death, right?

The problem is the system itself, not elderly people who need to make ends meet.

AllonzeeLV, (edited )

You realize that predatory crutches become systemic necessities precisely because they band aid such systemic issues from being addressed properly right?

Social security exists because seniors were dying in the streets.

Predatory reverse mortgages shouldn’t exist to exploit desperate people who would otherwise die, anymore than payday loan traps shouldn’t exist getting people trapped in impossible interest traps over a one time shortfall.

Instead of going through the pain and having society respond through governmental policy change, you now have predators making things far worse long term installing themselves as the “free market solution” that needs to be protected by government while bleeding already struggling populations to new depths.

A pay day loan /reverse mortgage may save a person here or there, but their existence at large hurts so many more. I will say it point blank: it was worth a lot of people dying to get social security enacted, because it was a real solution to a real problem, not yet another level of con game drawing out the pain.

And no, social security would not have been enacted when it was without those deaths. It would have been a far worse outcome for society if some predatory workhouse industry moved in and “saved” them in some cruel for profit scheme and declaring the problem “solved.”

DragonTypeWyvern,

I literally said the system is predatory, it’s just weird to victim-blame random broke seniors for it, but okay.

AllonzeeLV,

You also claimed its worth continuing to exist so some seniors don’t starve and are instead exploited.

I firmly, strongly disagree. It just prolongs that exploitation in perpetuity.

DragonTypeWyvern,

No, that’s what the strawman in your head said.

AllonzeeLV,

Oh ok, so you agree those seniors shouldn’t have eaten because reverse mortgage scams shouldn’t exist and your initial reply had no point, got it. How Seinfeldian.

DragonTypeWyvern,

No, you idiot, I’m saying it’s fucked up of you to blame the elderly for having to take loans against their houses for food and medical care.

Kiosade,

Who said it was paid off? 😉

Redscare867,

Even if it’s not, houses appreciate 5% a year on average. Assuming average appreciation over 10 years that house is now worth ~163% of its original value. That means that the mortgage was taken out for ~61% of what a comparable house would go for today which assuming the same interest rate would be a fairly significant reduction in the monthly payment. You also have the potential to refinance to further reduce that monthly payment.

Or you could sell it and get that 10 years of equity + appreciation out in cash and that might be enough for a sizable down payment elsewhere.

TL;DR unless your parent’s place is a dump in a low demand area it’s an asset even if it isn’t paid off.

ryannathans,

Even if it’s a dump in a shithole, they aren’t paying rent

Redscare867,

That’s valid, but if it’s a dump I would have a hard time describing it as an asset, at least in the financial sense. But I suppose it could be if you’re willing to put in the work to fix it up.

  • All
  • Subscribed
  • Moderated
  • Favorites
  • memes@lemmy.ml
  • localhost
  • All magazines
  • 200 @ entry_single
    HTTP status 200 OK
    Route name entry_single
    Has session yes
    Stateless Check no
    Time 1818 ms
    Total time 1818 ms
    Initialization time 193 ms
    Memory 24.0 MiB
    Peak memory usage 24.0 MiB
    PHP memory limit 128 MiB
    Cache 1
    Number of forms 1
    Number of errors 0
    Logger 89
    Errors 0
    Warnings 0
    Deprecations 89
    Cache 138 in 1598.04 ms
    Cache Calls 138
    Total time 1598.04 ms
    Cache hits 82 / 136 (60.29%)
    Cache writes 45
    641
    Default locale en
    Missing messages 641
    Fallback messages 0
    Defined messages 152
    Security n/a
    Authenticated No
    Firewall name main
    Twig 1456 ms
    Render Time 1456 ms
    Template Calls 326
    Block Calls 82
    Macro Calls 6
    246 in 1243 ms
    user_avatar 35
    date 30
    user_inline 25
    date_edited 24
    vote 24
    boost 24
    entry_comment 23
    entry_comments_nested 23
    settings_row_switch 15
    user_settings_row_switch 4
    magazine_inline 4
    settings_row_enum 2
    entry 1
    entries_cross 1
    editor_toolbar 1
    user_actions 1
    magazine_box 1
    magazine_sub 1
    related_magazines 1
    active_users 1
    related_categories 1
    related_posts 1
    related_entries 1
    support_us_block 1
    featured_magazines 1
    37 in 834.66 ms
    Database Queries 37
    Different statements 21
    Query time 834.66 ms
    Invalid entities 0
    Cache hits 45
    Cache misses 6
    Cache puts 6
    6.4.0
    Profiler token 9cfd73
    Environment dev
    Debug enabled
    PHP version 8.2.26   View phpinfo()
    PHP Extensions Xdebug ✗ APCu ✓ OPcache ✓
    PHP SAPI apache2handler