Tailscale just solves so many these types of problems.
With a virtual network, you mo longer need tools that work over the internet - just use the same tools as you would on a LAN.
I’ve used Hamachi this way on windows since about 2006. I’ve waited for an Androidi/iOS client, but it never appeared. Glad to see Wireguard/Tailscale step in to fill that gap, and it’s self-hostable!