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GreyShuck, to asklemmy in Have you ever seen coal burn? If yes, why?
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We used to have a coal fire when I was growing up, so routinely in the winters.

GreyShuck, to nostupidquestions in If you're reading something and you don't understand a word, should you stop and research it or should you keep reading the whole thing first?
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What exactly does ‘should’ mean here? Should in order to achieve what?

If you want to know what the word means at the expense of interrupting the flow, then yes.

If you want to stay with the flow, then no.

That said, it is so simple in almost all situations these days to look a definition up that I almost always do on the odd occasions that I find a word I don’t know. And the more you do, the less you will need to in future.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in Non-computer standing furniture
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When I was unemployed I used to walk waaaay more than I do now - both to get to places and just as a hobby - and I’d hope to do the same when retired, as long as I am fit enough. That’s walking though. Standing in one place is something that I find extremely wearing and have never done when not necessary. As I understand it this is fundamental to the nature of bipeds. To stand still, we constantly need to adjust balance. However, when walking, it is basically a continuous, controlled fall forwards, and takes less energy. For quadrupeds, it is the other way around: they are stable when standing, but require constant effort to walk or run.

I probably spend most of my reading time horizontal rather than sitting, but if I am reading when vertical then, again, it will be walking - or pacing around - rather than standing. I would seem really weird to simply stand there and read.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What really popular movie or TV show have you never seen?
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Movie - Titanic. It has simply never appealed.

TV - any popular reality show. They are just not my thing.

GreyShuck, to movies in Suggestions for movies and TVseries that (attempt to) criticise the super rich?
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TV - Loot, Fall of the House of Usher, White Lotus

Movies - Triangle of Sadness, Glass Onion

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in what is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?
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Validate your child’s feelings. Let them know that you understand that they are scared and that it is ok to be scared.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in Do you first develop the abillity to read body language, or do you first learn how to speak?
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Depends what you mean by body language. I think that most can recognise basic facial expressions like happiness and fear before they can talk, and understand things like pointing and reaching for things to express interest etc.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What movie or book had the biggest impact on you this year?
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Finnegans Wake. I read it across the year with an online group. It was always on the edge of incomprehensibility - often well over the edge - but it definitely had a impact.

This year’s ‘big read’ will be the Chinese classic Romance of the Three Kingdoms I’m just about to make a start.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What is your favorite part of the day?
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Depends whether I am working or not. If it has been a workday, then often the half hour or hour that I set aside at the end of the day for reading before I go to sleep.

If I am not working, and don’t need to get up do things immediately, then the time just after waking and before I get breakfast. Maybe read a little, plan the day and check the Web.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?
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I would say that kindness is an expression (not the only one) of empathy. Some degree of empathy is present in the overwhelming majority of people - barring extreme sociopathic conditions and an absence of mirror neurones. So for most people I would say that it is innate to some extent.

Even in cases where empathy is not present, kindness can be simulated or faked and some people with strong sociopathic conditions have proven to be very good at this when it suits their purposes - so I certainly say something with the appearance of kindness can be learned in one form or another.

It can definitely be cultivated - and I would say that this is one of the major qualities in the whole “two wolves” metaphor or, in classical Greek terms, a virtue to be developed.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What is your earliest memory?
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I can recall being in the cot under the window in my parents room, but there is nothing else attached to that memory.

I can also very clearly recall being put onto the floor in the back of my dad’s dark blue side opening van, which had an orange tinted skylight, and crawling across the corrugated floor panel to pull myself up against the wheel arch - since this was evidently before i could walk - whilst my parents were talking just outside, and the van itself was parked across the road from the entrance to our garden.

However, apparently my dad never owned a van of that type, nor anything like it, and nor did anyone that either of my parents or my - significantly older - siblings are aware of. So despite the clarity and detail of that memory, I have doubts that it is at all real.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What word do you always forget?
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Ostention, which I occasionally use in its folkloric sense, is one that I can hardly ever bring to mind at the critical moment.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in When you go home for the holidays, do you ever stop feeling like a kid?
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I don’t think that I ever did feel like a kid when I went back to my parents for Christmas. Instead, it felt cloying, cluttered and claustrophobic - and as far as I can tell, it is entirely coincidental that all three of those start with ‘cl’. I felt out of place and constrained and it seemed irrelevant to anything else in my world. Mum and my siblings were all doing their usual things, but I felt in the same stiff, un-natural position that ‘posh’ visitors were always put in back when I was living there as a child. There was a sense that it was all a performance for my benefit - but one that never really convinced.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in What is your favorite anthropology documentary?
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Perhaps Herzog’s Cave of Forgotten Dreams (2010), if that counts.

GreyShuck, to asklemmy in For speakers of Bulgarian: is the "Комбайна вършачка" song really about a combined thresher machine?
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And if it is, are they fans of the Wurzels?

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