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No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in When it comes to gender stuff, sometimes there aren’t simple solutions, and we have to be okay with that.

Articles like this suck. They contribute absolutely nothing to discussion by just saying “well, other people also have problems too”, without even attempting to suggest any direction where a solution is.

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in 2010s Pop Feminism: A Painful Look Back

I don’t mind a video essay every now and then, but I’m certainly not watching one that I don’t already reasonably know I’ll like

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

I mean it makes sense. Feminism has become quite the loaded term as of recent, and young people are going to be a lot more distanced from the earlier wages of feminism.

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

True. Obviously we all know that never happens

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Getting Married? Ask Women What Dating Is Like.

I would hesitate to draw conclusions from something like that. Both me and a lot of the other men I know just flat out skipped basically every assignment like that if it didn’t give enough points to be worth the effort, from middle school up through college.

Beyond that, it just seems like a shitty assignment as a whole. Because either a) it’s done under an assumption that their day as the opposite sex would be spontaneous, and thus would have very few relevant differences from their normal days (and we can easily guess those differences) or b) it’s done under an assumption of having always been the opposite sex, in which case it would just be an exercise in the butterfly effect, since huge amounts of things would be different, to the point that any generic hypothetical day would work.

All this is to say, it’s a prime assignment for skipping

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

Not really, no. People aren’t working off some master database of language that pushes updates out universally. They’re working from their own understanding based on their own life experiences. Someone born in 1973 will have a very different socialization and bundle of personal experiences than someone born in 2002.

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in Poll finds that fewer Gen Z boys identify as Feminists than Millenials-- and the same % as Gen X.

Not even getting into substantive issues, the people who loudly proclaim their feminism online are usually total fucking jackasses since honest people see little need to hide behind the concept of “feminism”, as if it’s a shield against criticism.

Overall, a more substantive survey would just be better. Or really anything beyond “self ID with a broad and contentious label”.

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in When it comes to gender stuff, sometimes there aren’t simple solutions, and we have to be okay with that.

Ahh, yes. The only possible reason I could want to make progress is because it’s edgy. How about you go somewhere else if you’re only interested in dismissing everything out of hand

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in When it comes to gender stuff, sometimes there aren’t simple solutions, and we have to be okay with that.

Not putting up with bullshit just because it might hurt someone’s feelings, for one.

No1RivenFucker, to mensliberation in When it comes to gender stuff, sometimes there aren’t simple solutions, and we have to be okay with that.

Context and empathy doesn’t fix anything

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