Smoogs

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Smoogs,

Cool….circa 1990 game graphics. How quaint.

Smoogs,

As good as Margot Robbie? Mmmnope.

Smoogs, (edited )

Definitely wolf of wallstreet suffered with this disease. All the actors were way hotter than the rL people who looked like a bunch of train wrecks.

Smoogs,

Maybe you should get a life if a someone else’s personal choice for elected gender role pisses you off this bad.

Smoogs,

Many things can take 10 minutes or less to process.

However when you add in the time to gather, prep and buy ingredients and cleanup, it adds up exponentially.

Smoogs,

And if you’re already cooking a million other things. Not everything spawns from laziness.

Smoogs,

I’ll be water but without the 3 ass cheeks thanks

Smoogs,

You’re still living in denial. He can do no wrong by you.

Smoogs,

His entire thing is just punching down.

Smoogs, (edited )

Watching him Vs trans people is like watching MRA Vs feminism. Or conservative Vs PC. Scarecrowing privilege and playing victim over some mere inconveniences and uncomfortable truths.

Smoogs,

“Nobody wants to work anymore” -bad manager mating call.

Smoogs,

Wow the comments here sounds like you’re all a bunch of antisocial nightmares to deal with in rL.

Smoogs,

wake up early

You failed the simple task of reading how descriptions work today.

Smoogs, (edited )

You’d need both the ability to stop time, create a time pocket for yourself and the ability to fly on your own

Smoogs, (edited )

It’s weird how a person will believe they have all license to choose to be terrible version of themselves and think everyone else is just holding back. Rapists think this of all humanity. That underneath it all everyone would just be raping each other if they could get away with it. It never occurs to them these thoughts might not even occur to a person or that if it does it doesn’t really appeal. Or that people have other things they find fulfilling that just doesn’t involve hurting other people and just aren’t fixated on shit like this.

Maybe talk to a professional about NPD.

Smoogs,

Oh shi. This is real.

Smoogs, (edited )

Wtf. You should not be driving. Stop driving. Someone immediately take this person’s license from them. They are a willful hazard.

Smoogs,

You’re saying slow like it’s a bad judgment. It is not a bad judgment particularly in black ice conditions.or any condition involving another human life.

Smoogs, (edited )

Well so long as we’re throwing the argumentum ad populum fallacies around It was also well documented that people owned people as slaves too but you don’t see slave owners being given the award for common sense nor trusted with anything more than a diced apple. It’s just more assurance your judgment is flawed beyond reason. Thanks for the confirmation my first post is right to take your license. Get you off the road ASAP.

Smoogs,

For those who refer to themselves as ‘their nature to fix things’: you know who else just goes out of control fixing things and can’t stop? cancer cells. They don’t do too well in reading the room either. You are more than just a cell. You have ears to listen and eyes to read and a brain capable of understanding how empathy works.

Smoogs,

What if your nature is in constant problem solving mode, my life and work revolve around solving problems so it’s a natural neurological pathway.

If that’s why you’re problem solving then your urge Problem solving is for you and about you . Not for them. If you’re making room for someone in your life that means letting things also be about them.

Should someone like that work overtime to suppress how they think about a situation, and stay quiet

Again: making it about you and how it’s inconvenient for you.

until they formulate some method of discussion and acknowledgement of the problem, without offering solutions?

Sometimes it is about them finding their voice. And at times it’s about letting them learn. It can be empowering for them to grow.

You might offer help when asked or when you know someone definitely is incapable. But let others have their space and their journey too especially if you know they are capable.

Problem solving is sometimes a problem in and of itself especially in situations of where it’s enabling or stifling others or stopping you from connecting to them.

Smoogs, (edited )

Listening actively comes in more than one description. Cmon it cannot be painful to be there for someone else. Stop being obtuse on purpose. That’s just acting in bad faith.

Smoogs,

Venting is important as a support person. Sometimes it really is just being there for the person.

Smoogs,

It’s probably best to assume if a person has been living with a problem for more than 3 days that they’ve tried everything that can be searched or obtained within 24 hours. And you may have just learned about it mere seconds ago from a simple search on google. Grilling them on everything they tried after they just told probably 3 doctors and all their closest relatives is gonna come off really dismissive and critical particularly of their own ability to problem solve their own problems.

Smoogs,

You’re really steering this conversation hard to call people with emotions ‘drama queens’ / just doing it for attention.

We get it. You don’t have empathy. Stop taking it out on people who can feel their feelings. They aren’t the sick ones in this situation.

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