All the dimensions matter, if you don’t get the posts right, it won’t hold to the board well and you’ll be back here, possibly with worse problems.
If the pins aren’t right, you just won’t have anything. See if you can find a part number or manufacturer marking anywhere on the connector, as it would narrow your search down plenty.
I think mirroring questions and requests for help is a terrible idea, no one is going to want to answer a question here if most of them are mirrored and the original asker is not here to get the answer.
It’s frustrating to put out a well thought out answer then realize that the person who asked will never see it.
Personally, I’ve blocked most repost bots (as I see them), because of the above stated reasons. I know I’m just one data point in a statistic, but I’m one that comments, as opposed to one that just lurks.
But even “hi do you have 5 minutes” is more than I get from one team. I get “hi” and then they wait for my reply before anything else. If I don’t reply right away, nothing, silence.