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Vanth, to asklemmy in People that went to high schools with 3 or more floors, did you think that was a bit odd?
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No. Is it odd? Lots of schools where I grew up have 3+ floors, including grade schools and middle schools, not just high schools.

Vanth, to asklemmy in How was Rudy Guiliani as mayor of NYC?
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Better than as a presidential candidate and now Trump acolyte.

He got credit for navigating the city post-9/11. Which, ok, I think just about any semi-talented politician with a PR team would come out of that wrapped in a patriotic halo effect.

He discouraged going after undocumented immigrant students in schools, but pushed broken window policing tactics that disproportionally affected the same undocumented immigrants and people of color.

He seemed ok with protections and benefits for domestic partnerships (this was before gay marriage was legal) but also pushed for a school voucher system that would build up private and religious schools that were very clear and open about discriminating against LGBT people.

He was undoubtedly corrupt. But no more corrupt than any predecessor. So mixed bag compared to his peers and bad compared to the sort of politician I wish could be elected in a place like NYC.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What do normal people look at on their phones?
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I can’t claim to represent anyone other than myself. I use an RSS feeder for news, articles, and webcomics. I have some ebooks from the library downloaded. I have been playing an MMO phone game for the last ~year and check on that a couple times a day. Discord. Lemmy has replaced reddit for me but I don’t spend as much time on it as I used to on reddit.

Vanth, to asklemmy in How Many Streaming Services Do You Have?
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Prime because it’s bundled with free shipping, I can’t remember the last time I opened up the app though.

I recently dropped Disney+ because I wasn’t watching enough to warrant the money. I’m burned out on Marvel and Star Wars.

A video platform for a very specific niche sport that is tough to find in the US. I keep the $5/month subscription year round, even out of season, because I actively want this group to succeed.

Vanth, to asklemmy in Getting braces as a young adult?
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Obviously this is the right choice

Is it? It’s ok to get a second opinion from other dentists.

If their current position isn’t causing you pain or tooth/jaw wear problems, then straightening them is a cosmetic decision. And if you didn’t even realize they were that crooked until the dentist suggested straightening them, then the cosmetic aspect hasn’t been bothering you.

In my country (US), dentistry is notorious for upselling unnecessary cosmetic procedures.

For example, I went to a new dentist and he found two “developing” cavities he wanted to proactively drill out and fill and a “flaw in the enamel” he could fix with a veneer. I thought that was weird since I have never had a cavity before in my life and the “enamel flaw” was cosmetic only and never bothered me. I went to another dentist for a second opinion and she told me my teeth were fine. 5 years later and those “developing” cavities never formed.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What gifts that you received for Christmas this year are already in the trash?
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A relative gifted me a really ugly tree ornament. I don’t put up a Christmas tree and haven’t ever in my adult life. Relative knows this and delivered it alongside comments about me needing to get a tree and get more into the “religious” spirit of the holiday.

Normally I would at least look to donate or something I don’t want, but ugly, religious proselytizing junk goes in the trash.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What word do you always forget?
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When to use “i.e.” versus “e.g.”. I have to think through the full Latin phrases every time.

Vanth, to asklemmy in Anyone who recently had a "Yup, it was that kinda day" day. What happened?
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Food poisoning. Getting to the end of the day hydrated is my only goal.

Vanth, to asklemmy in Did any coal-in-your-stocking type of things happen to you on Christmas Day?
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I was gifted a fancy-schmancy whiskey aged in port wine casks. It’s delicious but I’m allergic to something in it. The warmth of the whiskey quickly turned into burning and itching.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What prevents you from going to bed early?
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I don’t want to and have no reason to.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What do normal people look at on their phones?
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Feedly. I’ve looked around for alts, especially when Feedly started embedding sponsored articles amongst my subscriptions, but haven’t found anything I like better.

Vanth, (edited ) to asklemmy in Which child would you prioritize in this hypothetical scenario?
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First, I get that you note “Child” 1 thru 7 to indicate offspring. Really, they’re adults though and I start my framing as such.

Adults are responsible for their decisions. Working gig jobs instead of a more traditional job, ethical issues, accepting jobs they aren’t suitable for or which have low/no compensation are all factors adults would have to consider.

The only person who seems to be obviously struggling despite decent planning and actioning (based on minimal descriptions provided) is child 1. Even that logic is tenuous depending on how long they’ve been attempting and failing in one industry while another is potentially a better fit for them that for some reason, ego or other, that they won’t consider. The rest are employed, with situation and compensation consciously accepted by each.

And I would also consider a human relationship element. If I have strong reason to believe giving all to one person would turn the other six against them in the form of lawsuits or violence, I might consider skipping inheritance altogether and give it to some charity. I suppose the amount of money and reason it can’t be split into multiple portions would also play a part in that decision.

Second from final thought, I do have a lot of siblings. Not quite seven but close. If our parents were to say, “hey, we only have enough money to give one person a meaningful inheritance, what should we do?”, I am confident nearly all of us would ask that they give it to the youngest who is still working through college and drowning in student debt. The rest of us have made our decisions on education and careers pursued, jobs accepted, lifestyle balanced with ability to support it. Not the spirit of your rigid scenario, but just pointing out another way of approaching the issue that was bricked out in the setup.

And final thought. Toss the rigid scenario aside and jobs/salary are not how I would hope to decide to divide assets among inheritors. I hope I have relationships with all my future offspring that go beyond simple sum of dollars.

Vanth, to privacy in I'm looking for email providers that don't require a phone number to use with reddit
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Proton does have a free tier with limited features, too. Which might be sufficient for OP if all they want is an account for reddit junk.

Vanth, to privacy in I'm looking for email providers that don't require a phone number to use with reddit
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Proton freebie account doesn’t have a phone number requirement to sign up. They do say they sometimes require “human verification”. Idk what that means and didn’t have to provide any identifying information to open an account.

Account recovery is a separate question. If you lose access and want some backup option to verify via a separate email account, obviously the alt email address would have to be provided to use that feature.

Vanth, to asklemmy in What is a rainy day meal you enjoy?
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Congee. I love savory porridges and this one is my current fave with jammie eggs and pickled red onion to top it.

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