What it looks like, after I have actually bothered really check (unlike you) is that it took three days for reddthat.com and lemmy.world to sync up.
Nice unsupported claim. I see a comment of mine with a comment of yours replying three days later. No ambiguity there.
I didn’t change the subject, I directly addressed something you said,
Good that you said “something”, you slippery devil, because it indeed was one thing among many, the others of which you ignored.
Accusing someone of distracting or changing the subject when they respond to something you said is highly dishonest, and I think you know that.
It’s not dishonest when I mean it. And I do, because you laser focused on that one statement while ignoring the others. And this being a new subject, unrelated to the actual conversation (which, may I remind you, is about your comment appearing to be hostile, and not about how long people take to reply!!) it is clearly dishonest of you to ignore the original subject to focus in on this. My statement earlier was simply an aside, which it was it was tacked on to the end.
I will contest your subjective interpretation of my “tone”
All interpretations are subjective. I see you’re trying to muddy the waters here.
(I’m not even sure how you can get someone’s tone from text)
Yet another attempt to weaken my statement without addressing it.
when you accept that my only intent here was to understand something I didn’t understand.
Did I say otherwise? No. So why should I recant a statement I didn’t make?
So do you want this to end or not?
Of course.
The fact that you keep replying suggests you don’t.
How so? Prove that.
Prove me wrong and don’t reply to this.
“Prove you don’t want me to rob you and give me your money willingly.”
Must be sad to have such limited imagination. I don’t have the disappointing disability that makes it impossible to envision life without a Daddy in charge, so I can’t relate.
What point do you think you’re making? That I should check the age of replies in my inbox before replying to them? What age is the max - 2 days or something? I didn’t know how old it was.
EDIT: I just checked - nope, you are the one who waited 3 days to reply.
Also, nice distraction technique, changing the subject. So you’re not going to contest the tone that your comment conveyed? That is as much of an admission as I need.
Acting confused in the face of someone telling you their problems, and responding that you’ve never experienced that, gives off the vibe that you don’t believe them. Remember, my first didn’t say that you were actually being hostile. I said you were starting to sound hostile. It was a warning. Can we leave this yet? It’s really not that important.
I have no idea why you thought I claimed you were looking for sympathy. You must not have actually read it properly. I said you are not giving sympathy. And yeah - I didn’t give you an explanation, exactly because other people have. That’s kinda the point I was making - others have already explained it to you, and your bewildered “oh golly gee, people aren’t that mean!” attitude struck me as resisting to believe people can actually be so cruel. Not just aghast at it, but refusing to actually believe they are telling the truth and not just mistaken.
Your evidence is… the comment i responded to? Not very compelling. It doesn’t feature you giving any sympathy, just saying you don’t get it. And the implication thus far is that you simply can’t conceive of it happening. Not the most empathetic stance, is it?
It reminds me of the guys that claim sexism no longer exists, asking “but where is there any sexism?” And then shooting down all examples as not counting, continuing to ask “where is this sexism?”