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snek, 5 months ago

The top result is the resume of the Unabomber for President political action committee UNAPACK

snek, 5 months ago

I removed it on purpose. Trying my best to rely on any search engine other than Google, Brave, DuckDuckGo, and Bing.

snek, 5 months ago

Yep that is the one, but I customized which engines I get results from and decided that almost all major ones have sucked so I took them all out (the four horsemen, Google, Bing, DuckDuckGo, and Brace)

snek, 5 months ago (edited 9 days ago)

The word “resume” + being an old and solid link + me using a search engine with settings that allow you to customize which places to search, and I’m not returning results from all major search engines and only keeping alternative ones.

This works fine for work or when coding. It searches Stack Overflow and forums, immensely useful when trying to research things or solve problems.

snek, 5 months ago

I used to use it but honestly grew tired of getting the same search results. The same Medium article, the same video, the same news report at the top. I often feel like I only see the tip of the iceberg, and often never find what I need.

snek, 5 months ago

Looks interesting, I’m considering it

snek, 6 months ago

I was shocked to learn just the other day that my boyfriend is a dirty leecher

snek, 6 months ago

It mattered while it lasted

snek, 6 months ago (edited 5 months ago)

There’s a lot of evidence that modern CBT therapy just doesn’t really connect with men very well. Mainly because we don’t really tend to solve problems by “considering more gratitude” or “trying yoga at sunrise maybe?” (Was a legit suggestion when I had a therapist lol)

Source?

I’m asking because this sounds nothing like CBT that I did. I’m a woman, but it was gut-wrenching and scary to do exposure therapy. Nothing at all about yoga or gratitude… sounds more like traditional talk therapy to me.

I would give CBT a chance, honestly… I feel like you have some kind of misinformed opinion or maybe had a crappy therapist.

Edit: just for clarity, CBT is a type of talk therapy, but the stuff this person I’m replying to describes sounds more like traditional armchair therapist self-help-book Freudian therapy.

snek, 6 months ago (edited 5 months ago)

No, I’m confident about what I said. Exposure therapy is one part of CBT.

I did CBT for PTSD and death anxiety, the latter involving large bits of exposure therapy.

www.psychologytools.com/professional/…/exposure/

Do you have any evidence about men having issues with this sort of therapy or is that a personal observation?

Edit: honestly it sounds like you had a bad therapist experinece and that therapist has no idea what CBT is (and sorry to say, but neither do you particularly)

Edit: had to add the passive aggressive smiley :)

snek, 6 months ago (edited 5 months ago)

©ock and

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snek, 6 months ago

Situational depression is a real fucker. I understand what you mean. I grew up in the Middle East and everything was fucked right and left, people around me were depressed because of society, because of the economy, and because their lives never get better.

I had to move our of there and start healing myself, my brain, my ability to deal with whatever life throws me.

snek, 6 months ago

I didn’t read the rest but that study looks st CT vs Exposure, which both fall within CBT.

This is from another paper

Most notably, exposure therapy (“exposure” or “exposure and response prevention”) is the key intervention strategy through which CBT improves outcomes for people with anxiety.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9161762/

I think that study echos who you have been saying, since it mentions that many CBT practioners may avoid exposure therapy and use less effective methods.

snek, 6 months ago

http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/27100000/The-Internet-the-it-crowd-27191791-500-230.gif

snek, 6 months ago (edited 6 months ago)

##tl;dr Because Israel is breaking international law.

snek, 6 months ago

Maybe. Why? Does it bother you if people call out Israel?

snek, 6 months ago (edited 6 months ago)

Well, in my defence, a lot of what you are saying IS bullshit.

snek, 6 months ago

It’s funny because in the post they said that anti Israeli content bothers them, but they claim it doesn’t. I think it bothers them a lot. But what should bother them more is apartheid in Israel and genocide in the name of the Jewish people.

snek, 6 months ago

“Claim to be”? You sound like a sad sack of shit.

snek, 7 months ago

No, it won’t. I don’t think I would have made it here today alive without my therapist. There may be companies that have AI agents doing therapy sessions but your qualifications will still be priceless and more effective in comparison.

snek, 9 months ago

What is meant by dirty here?

snek, 11 months ago

Sounds like something Super Hans would say.

snek, 11 months ago

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/498e94de-89d2-4d27-9f7d-ab2ec8eea936.webp