Not entirely sure, but maybe these help you somehow:
The relay has a coil which requires 0.35W. The chip seems to have a maximum output current of 35mA.
The ‚switch on current‘ of an inductive load is usually 3 to 5 times higher than the ‚hold‘ current.
The valve may not have a free-wheeling-diode. This could create an issue by creating strange voltage spikes on all your supply voltages (connected by GND).