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Etterra, in Cookie purchase or hell?

No. That question is now the default of all POS (point of sale) systems. If they’re not wait staff, bar tenders, delivery, or performing some other service, there is literally no reason to tip them.

s_s, in Cookie purchase or hell?

You cannot save the world by tipping.

That said, tip table service, delivery drivers and valets if local customs encourage it.

BudgetBandit, in Cookie purchase or hell?

I don’t even tip when ordering food to-go. I buy goods, not service.

Rentlar, in Cookie purchase or hell?

No, but USCBP might deport you to a country where tipping isn’t a thing, if they were to find out.

Nemo, in Cookie purchase or hell?

Tip on counter service, don’t tip on retail purchases. This was a retail purchase. If you had gotten a latte you should’ve tipped a dollar for that, but not on the entire total.

You’re probably not going to hell because hell probably doesn’t exist. However, whether you are cast into the outer darkness, where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth, that’s another matter and I suggest truly repenting for your misdeeds… of which this was not one, to be clear.

JimmyBigSausage,

If I ordered a latte, it would be a special hell. Different subject.

JWBananas,
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Lactase tablets are a thing.

bratorange, in Is there any evidence that Reddit has suffered at all from the exodus to Lemmy?

Is it important that Reddit suffers? For me the important thing is that lemmy flourishes and has good oc.

BrainisfineIthink,
@BrainisfineIthink@lemmy.one avatar

This is what I wish more lemmings would grasp. I’ve commented before how there’s this disillusionment that reddit actually died when a bunch of people left. It didn’t. The sooner everyone can stop being in denial about that, the better.

The situation is really more akin to an abusive ex and the people that left realizing that they’re better off without them. You’re in a better place. Stop talking about, focusing on the drama that your ex brought and just embrace your newer better environment.

Millions of people are in that situation and don’t leave because they’ve been manipulated, they’re scared, and in this case addicted. My brother in law switched from Apollo to the official app and hates it, complains every day, and says reddit sucks now…but won’t leave.

mike94100, in What is something really stupid you purchased that turned out far better than expected?

Got a bidet as a joke gift for Christmas a few years ago, it has been an absolute game changer. Hate pooping anywhere but home now, I actually feel clean, and use much less toilet paper.

WhirledWhyDweeb,

Bidet crew represent

Rentlar, in What things do you do while eating?

Being on threads like these?

ohlaph, in What things do you do while eating?

I will use my meal time to watch TV, listen to music, or talk on the phone.

If I’m with others, typically just focus on eating and fun conversation. Alone or just the wife and I, we usually watch something or chit chat.

cyberpunk007,

Talk on the phone while eating? Wild.

ohlaph,

Usually with family that lives far away also eating, like sharing a meal indirectly.

ParsnipWitch, in Gamers who have gamed for a long time

For me the reason is … Decision fatigue!

I often stared blankly at my staggeringly huge game library and lost all interest to play. And instead ended up playing something not too heavy on the brain that I have known for decades and perhaps even watch Netflix on the side. (Like Diablo.)

While researching online I stumbled upon the phenomenon of decision fatigue and it changed my gaming habits and even other parts of my life. I probably understand the concept incorrectly but for me, I apparently tend to avoid decisions all together when there are too many options which leads to heavy procrastination. Doesn’t matter if it’s too many tasks on my list, too many letters on my desk or too many games to choose from.

I Marie Kondoed my gaming library and now it’s a fun activity again!

  • btw I am a gamer for over 30 years and my library, including all gaming platforms and consoles, has about 2000 (two thousand) titles
Itrytoblenderrender,

Old man with only, compared to you, 394 titles in the steam library.

I had a similar experience.

My solution was to categorize my steam library with custom categories.

The most important category is the “Trash” category to remove the “clutter”. “Dead” games like Artifact and trash from bundles from steam sales.

Now I have my library sorted and want for example to play a soulslike I just look into my library in the category “soulslike” and can choose from the games I’ve sorted into the category.

I wish this would also be possible for streaming platforms as their standard categories are usually redundant to give you the feeling that their library is bigger than it actually is.

FluffyPotato, in Gamers who have gamed for a long time

Most of my friends don’t play video games anymore but I love em more than when I was a kid. Like in school I had no time to play but now I can work from home and I can automate lots of it so plenty of time for hobbies.

The only issue is my tastes are rather niche, I think I finished every story and choice focused RPG where you make your own character. I do like games like Stardew Valley or Minecraft and I play those while a new RPG comes along.

elscallr, in Where can I NEUTRALLY keep up to date about the Palestina/Israel situation?
@elscallr@lemmy.world avatar

This is a topic that has centuries of history, dating back well before the existence of either Israel or Palestine as countries. You won’t find a single source that can actually get into the thousands of nuances involved. Don’t think there are only two sides, either. Read from everywhere, make up your own mind, but honestly you’ll never fully understand it.

RozhkiNozhki, in Cookie purchase or hell?
@RozhkiNozhki@lemmy.world avatar

Leaving tip at the counter or for take out food is just incomprehensible to me. It’s like tipping a grocery store clerk at check out when you are paying for your groceries. I bought this food already, what am I leaving a tip for?

mvilain,
@mvilain@kbin.social avatar

I stopped tipping the grocery clerks when they stopped asking to see my ID when I purchased alcohol.

I mentioned this when the woman ahead of me bought a bottle of wine. The clerk said "She looks under 35. You don't."

Definitely no tip.

ohlaph, in Where can I NEUTRALLY keep up to date about the Palestina/Israel situation?

Read a few sources from both sides. It definitely isn’t a one sided situation.

dustyData, in Gamers who have gamed for a long time

Years ago I made the decision to never play a game on launch, never buy a game full price, never play a game just because it was on the online buzz.

I decide what to play usually days in advance, carve out a chunk of my recreation time to explicitly play, as if it were going to a movie or a party with friends. It’s like a date with the game. I block a couple of hours to it. If the game is good, it will get a second date, if it bored me, we would break up.

I don’t buy on sales pressure either. If I decide I want to play a game, I would wait to buy it on the historical cheapest price. Only then would the game get schedule time to get played. That keeps the FOMO away.

It has made gaming super enjoyable and no longer the dopamine chase that publishers want to make to milk the most money out of me. As a result I usually enjoy my time way more, play older games more frequently, not out of nostalgia but because I never played then. I also spend less money, which lowers stress and anxiety. As a result I haven’t played a AAA game in a long while.

Time is scheduled for a game on what I’m interested in right now. But since the decision is always for a time far away in the future (up to a week in advance) I can make a more directed and intentional decision. Some weeks it’s thematic, some weeks it’s just genre based. Some weeks are retro. Some weeks are for comfort. All with small and concrete goals for each.

pdxfed,

Yup. Just finally played through Skyrim, and starting fallout 3. They’ve been fun. Honestly didn’t game for the better part of the last 15 years, work and kids. Sunk hundreds of hours on Skyrim now done, fallout totally different and a predecessor yet familiar.

I go by the same rule, basically if people can still play and talk about something 10 years later it’s actually good.

visnudeva,
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@pdxfed
I also love Skyrim and fallout 3 they are some of the best games even today but I didn't finished them yet.
I just finished cyberpunk after 170 hours and It was so good that i am starting it again from scratch.

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