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eponymous_anonymous, in How can a naturally anxious person keep from worrying while laid up in bed with a broken ankle and leg?

“ I used to work in a sheet metal factory, but then, a job came along at the tannery. The hours were better, and I would get paid. Also I would get the chance to work with leather both before and after it was on the cow, which had always been a dream of mine. I didn’t want to give up my sheet metal job, so I tried to do both jobs and finish middle school.”

“How old were you?”

“Eleven. The point is, I was so tired I tried to punch through 8 gauge aluminum with a leather awl.” laughs

“Wow.”

“I learned a lesson. Never half ass two things. Whole ass one thing. So if you want to win that seat-“

“Which I do.”

“Then commit yourself 100%. Take a sabbatical.”

I’ve tried making lists, but they end up becoming a problem when it comes time to pick one thing to focus on. Eventually you just need to whole ass one thing.

And it turns out that’s the opposite of anxiety, for me at least. The opposite of anxiety isn’t calm, or peace - it’s focus. My advice would be to focus, on one or two things at a time.

Right now, you’re laid up in bed. Your body is hard at work on healing, so give your mind a break - try watching something that makes you laugh. Focus on laughing, and finding joy in these quiet moments. You have a perfect excuse to take some time for yourself. Drink lots of fluids (beer is a very good fluid). Eat good food. Get good sleep. Focus on that.

In no particular order, I would recommend watching the Office, Parks and Rec, the Good Place, Community, Wilfred, Adventures of Todd Margaret, Last Man On Earth, Dirk Gently’s Holistic Detective Agency, What We Do In The Shadows, or Our Flag Means Death

Kolanaki, in How do you keep yourself from eating all your candy-stash in one sitting?
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I’m not a kid who goes out trick or treating and thus don’t have a candy stash to tempt me.

BigBlackCockroach,
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then don’t you have a candy stash to give out candy to trick or treaters?

lars,
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I overbought on candy to hand out to children and now have a larger candy stash than I ever did as a kid

Kolanaki,
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Since COVID, I haven’t seen a single trick or treater, so the last 2 years now I haven’t even gotten stuff to hand out. I was just lamenting this while walking my dogs this morning, too. I liked seeing all the costumes parade at my door :(

lars,
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That’s too bad. My neighborhood is going stronger than ever. All my neighbors are super into Halloween and we all go nuts with decorations and I give out full size bars too. Rumors spread amongst the children and more come to our neighborhood each year.

MrRazamataz, in Which YouTuber's voice can lull you to sleep?
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Posy.

totallynotarobot, in How do you keep yourself from eating all your candy-stash in one sitting?

Do you usually eat everything in the house in one sitting? Do it the normal way - eat what you want based on your personal diabetes goals.

BigBlackCockroach,
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your personal diabetes goals.

😂 😭 😭 😭

PrefersAwkward, (edited ) in Which YouTuber's voice can lull you to sleep?
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I’ve slept with each of these before:

LockpickingLawyer (lockpicking videos)

Trent Lenarski (multi content. specifically his Stardew Valley playlist is nice and relaxed)

Pekinwoof (streamer. Keep to his first channel for sleeping. Channel 2 is louder)

Talking Feds with Harry Litman (lawyer who talks law in politics)

Sean Carroll (podcasts. Various science topics)

Sam Harris (podcasts. Some episodes can get loud when he’s playing recordings of news events.)

Dontfearthereaper123,

Idk if I just have a dirty mind or whether that was intentional lol

EggsCurrently, (edited ) in Which YouTuber's voice can lull you to sleep?

Pete Complete, in particular his RimWorld series. His voice, relaxed tone and slow pacing with a lot of pause in his speech puts me to sleep even when I’m not trying to.

monsterpiece42,

Absolutely my choice as well. In addition to being all the things that OP has asked for, he’s also a phenomenal player and his dedication to highly precise play is insane.

My wife and I have been through all of his Rimworld series, and watch it as we would a TV show when a new episode drops. We just got done watching biotech episode 5!

faintwhenfree, in Which YouTuber's voice can lull you to sleep?

Ooh my time to shine with my long list

  1. T90 Official plays age of empires games very soothing voice
  2. Agadmator plays chess videos very rhythmic voice
  3. 3blue1brown maths videos, even if you hate math he has a voice that is so calm
  4. Real Civil Engineer plays indie or building games is a bit weird, 90% he is nice but sometimes he gets excited and I’ve been woken from my sleep, but still good as I fall back right after
  5. Kurtzgezat science videos with great narration (may hurt your dreams tho)
  6. Nicole Coenen woodcutting videos great voice great pace only downside very few videos in total so you burn through her videos quite fast.
  7. Technology Connections, great videos about obscure day to day tech mazing voice
  8. Primitive technology, no words a lot of nature sounds of him building stuff without technology

I’ll add more if I remember.

monotremata, (edited )

3blue1brown is a great call.

I would add Applied Science and NileRed (who does chemistry experiments) as possibilities if OP likes their voices. Their content is very methodical and uniform. My cat likes their videos, which seems like a pretty good metric for this use case.

I also love vihart, who does math videos, but her stuff is a little more varied, including some music, so OP might want to evaluate her during the day before trusting her channel for sleep.

Jeremy Fielding has a great voice if you want videos about engineering and how to salvage motors out of washing machines and treadmills.

I'll consult my subscription list and add more if I find any.

Edited to add:
Carl Bugeja (electronics)
CGP Grey (mostly history)
DIY Perks (various projects)
Henry Segerman (math art)
OskarPuzzle (designs for 3d printed puzzles)
Razbuten (video games)
Sabine Hossenfelder (physics)
Stand-up Maths (math)
Steve Mould (explanations of unusual everyday things, I guess? kinda hard to summarize)
Technology Connections (as others have mentioned)
Tim Hunkin (makes weird mechanical art and explains machines)
Tom Scott (videos about unusual places and bits of history)
Two Minute Papers (advances in AI and computer graphics)

Edited again to add: Breaking Taps. This one is mostly microscopic fabrication stuff, so, various kinds of microscopes, vapor deposition, etching, etc.

faintwhenfree,

Yes almost all great options.

uphillbothways, (edited ) in How do you keep yourself from eating all your candy-stash in one sitting?
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Usually abdominal pain, severe indigestion and/or diarrhea. Being barely able to eat and actually digest enough normal food to survive along with near constant stabbing pains to the gut have really helped me stave off any concern of over eating and obesity.... It's terrible. Don't recommend. And junk food makes it worse. Which just sucks more cuz that shit is delicious.

SHamblingSHapes, in What reasons are there for being concerned about companies like google and meta etc collecting data and tracking me?

The US and UK have both used data from period trackers to spy on women and monitor for “suspicious” miscarriages.

Brekky,

Why would the uk care??

SHamblingSHapes,

Some people hate women with control over their own bodies.

Rentlar,

Governments in free, democratic countries are not supposed to spy on you without a probable suspicion of wrongdoing. Government agencies around the world get around that by “purchasing information” collected by private firms and use it to gain probable suspicion whenever they feel like.

HawlSera, in Which YouTuber's voice can lull you to sleep?

IPAT

Octospider, in What do we get in return for paying taxes?

The worst thing we get in return for paying taxes is constant whining from right-wingers (i.e. libertarians).

mysoulishome, in What reasons are there for being concerned about companies like google and meta etc collecting data and tracking me?
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This whole thread makes me want to quit using the internet right now…

mysoulishome, in A friend offer me a investment opportunity at 15% annually, is it too good to be true ?
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If they had convincing evidence that they could produce 15% return with low risk, investors would be beating down their door.

JewGoblin, in What reasons are there for being concerned about companies like google and meta etc collecting data and tracking me?

I used to care, but I gave in

hahattpro, in What reasons are there for being concerned about companies like google and meta etc collecting data and tracking me?

Do you want to leave trace in your live, or will you disappear without a trace :v

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