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4am, in How was Rudy Guiliani as mayor of NYC?

He fought the Italian mob because he was in the pocket of the Russian mob.

He shut down a lot of clubs and nightlife in NYC, basically ruined the underground scene there and left “clubs” to be bottle service for rich assholes.

He’s a fucking fascist piece of shit and he deserves to lose everything.

Otkaz,

He used Cabernet laws to target gay clubs because he’s a homophobic prick.

gravitas_deficiency,

…who also cross dressed for Trump in the 90s lmao

RubberElectrons,
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It was so bad 😵‍💫

RememberTheApollo,

Those guys cross dress not because they’re closeted homosexuals, but because they’re like the friend showing up at the airport baggage claim with the big sign, the friend’s name, and something like “welcome back from your 10 year prison sentence for being an asshole” or some shit.

It’s not about them possibly being gay, it’s about them making a statement of derision about trans/gay people and the discomfort of the public display making it funny to like minds.

Fermion, (edited ) in How do I avoid Amazon when orders from other sites get fulfilled by Amazon?

You can’t avoid Amazon entirely but your order is still a drop in the bucket that tips the scales in the right direction.

For small brands trying to establish a presence, the first thing retail buyers and distributers ask is how their Amazon sales numbers look. Having an Amazon presence is not optional for small brands that are trying to grow.

If 90% of orders come from amazon and only 10% come from their own website, it frequently doesn’t make sense to both pay for Amazon distribution and keep their own warehousing and distribution capabilities. But if more people like you and I convince people to order directly and 40% came from direct orders, that math starts to bias more heavily in favor of setting up their own fulfillment.

So find some comfort in that you are playing a small part in paving the way to a better future for these companies even if they are beholden to the Amazon monopoly currently.

intensely_human,

Why not create a logistics company to compete with amazon? It’s not the outsourcing of logistics that’s the problem — it’s outsourcing it to Amazon specifically because of their specific culture and nature as a company.

Fermion,

Clearly that’s much easier said than done.

However, this recent news feels very relevant.

theverge.com/…/fedex-fdx-e-commerce-platform-amaz…

I don’t know enough about FedEx culture to know if this is a good thing, but any serious competition is probably an improvement at this point.

Appoxo, (edited ) in How Many Streaming Services Do You Have?
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Jellyfin, Spotify and YT Prem.

IndyRap,

Yt premium is free with revanced haha

Appoxo,
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I like to support the creators I watch and prefer not to let random apps access my very important google profile.

IndyRap, (edited )

Support them by buying merch. one merch purchase is more than you will owe them based on views per multiple deep dives from the creators themselves.

YouTube having your Google profile is much more problematic than an open source bypass.

But by all means feeling high on the horse can feel better than actually owning one.

Appoxo,
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Already do.
But I am not made of money amd what I have is already enough.

IndyRap,

Lol you can make one merch purchase a month with your YouTube subscription. IDC what you do and not trying to convince you just calling out that your logic is flawed.

Appoxo,
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Never said my logic is applicable to everyone.
Sure, I can buy another useless gadget or piece of clothing every 3-4 months instead of yt prem and sure I can just emulate all features with vanced (or whatever the new hot app is) and sure I pay Google a good hefty amount of cash for things that are already free.

My logic essentially is:
I can use 1st party apps without much hacking around trying to sideload apks on my Chromecast AndroidTV
I don’t have the ads
I don’t have any ads on any of my devices
No risk of compromise for my google account
I get all the features I need
My consumption of yt is way higher (daily 2-3h) than what I got out of Netflix etc. so it actually is at least somewhat worth it compared to other streaming services. I’d call this my replacement for linear tv.
I sail enough for 2 lives already with a seedbox, usenet, (formerly) tachiyomi so I am fine with paying for at least that.

bionicjoey, in How do I avoid Amazon when orders from other sites get fulfilled by Amazon?
Knitwear,

Agreed. But then what?

bionicjoey,

I advise that you just don’t give a fuck if the order is coming through Amazon or not. Who’s to say whether they’re more evil than some other company that might fulfill your order. The thing you’re buying was probably made with exploitative labour practices from unethically sourced materials anyway. Simply shipping it to you is probably dependent on a global logistics network of fossil fuels and colonialism.

Just don’t think about it. There’s no way to buy things in this world and “do good” at the same time.

Knitwear, (edited )

But then what

intensely_human,

Do good in other ways

intensely_human,

Don’t consume anything.

inb4_FoundTheVegan, in What do normal people look at on their phones?
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Libby. If I am sitting for awhile, then I’ll make progress in whatever book I’m reading. I keep my library card churning with novels, science fiction, cookbooks and whatever book a friend has recently recommended. I mix in audio books while I’m driving. Average about two books a month or so.

Occasionally I’ll browse recipes and silly cat videos on Instagram if I’m just killing 30 seconds in line at the grocery. And then lemmy about once a day just for current events.

SuperSpruce, in What do normal people look at on their phones?

TikTok, unfortunately.

jamesb5, in What is the best option to provide for people who are homeless in the cold?

You are a kind person, but as others have said try not to take on this large burden yourself. Do what you’re comfortable with and be satisfied with that. This is an ongoing and largely intractable problem that you cannot solve alone.

intensely_human,

An adult has the right to take on burdens as they see fit.

indigomirage, in What's your best idea for a date centered around the library?

Given the ongoing cyber attack on Toronto Public Library, I really hope no one files this under ‘Life Hacks’…

TheDoctorDonna, in What is the best option to provide for people who are homeless in the cold?

I would take that over to the thrift store and buy as many coats as I could get, or you could take it to a warming shelter and let them use as they need.

Thank you for being a kind human, I only wish I had the funds to do the same before this cold snap hit.

weariedfae, in If you got COVID and lost the ability to taste things, did it ever come back? Otherwise, did you experience any other long term consequences from the pandemic in general?

I never fully lost my taste (maybe 80% lost during active infection) but it only partially came back. It feels like there’s a “section” or “zone” of flavor I can’t taste anymore. Like a blind spot. I am extremely saddened by it and have an even more complicated relationship with food now.

It also rewired my taste and some smell so some things taste really different. For example, coffee tastes like stagnant mildewy mop water and smells like a recently used litterbox. Only minor variations for brand, at home drip vs. barista, etc.

Going into a coffee shop smells like venturing into a crazy cat lady’s condemned home.

adhocfungus, in How do I avoid Amazon when orders from other sites get fulfilled by Amazon?

I have the exact same issue. I thought buying directly from the manufacturer’s site would fix it, but I still get Amazon boxes from some of them. I don’t buy from them again, but it still sucks. I have ended up buying even less, and I wasn’t buying much before.

I try to buy things used, but sometimes that’s just not possible. If it has to be new I try different sites until I find one that doesn’t go through them. You can even call customer service for some smaller sites and find out ahead of time.

I don’t agree with the “don’t bother” hopelessness in this thread. Trying to do the least bad thing is still worthwhile, even if you can’t do something perfectly ethical. I’m proud of you for doing your best.

ElPussyKangaroo, in What do normal people look at on their phones?

Heh, look at you, asking this in Lemmy, as if we’re all normal.

Ticklemytip, in What do normal people look at on their phones?

I practice chess on lichess and look up sports scores. Or else I go on Lemmy. I look at my phone a lot less now. Finishing games I never got to finish. Talk to my family more. Stuff like that

ada, in Lemmy instance which has not defederated with any other instance.
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None. An instance that federates with everyone will end up defederated themselves, because they’ll end up full of bigots and trolls

SlothMama,

Or illegal content because of the way content replicates unfortunately. I don’t care about people’s opinions, I actually want to see the actual, real range of human opinion and ideas, but I worry about content - it’s why I would never consider hosting my own instance.

ada,
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I actually want to see the actual, real range of human opinion and ideas

I can do without unfiltered bigotry relentlessly aimed at my community. That got old years ago.

There’s plenty of places I can find unfiltered bigotry. That’s not what I’m looking for here

intensely_human,

I’ve still never seen it. What was that like? What happened?

pimento64,

I actually want to see the actual, real range of human opinion and ideas

Sorry, best we can do is edgelord instances full of bot spam

Treczoks, in Why do Germans have no sense of humour?

Germans do have humor. It is actually not that different from English humor in style.

The idea that Germans have no humor comes from a number of reasons. To understand a foreign joke, you need a thorough grasp of that language. And this applies to any foreign language - I could not understand e.g. a French joke, but I would not deny that they most likely love humor, too.

Then, most English or American peoples impression of Germans stem from times of war or shortly after - only a small minority bothered to update their views later. During the war, allied propaganda had obviously different goals than promote German humor or Germans as funny people. And people in the early years of post-war Germany had not much to laugh about in life, their prime job was to survive in less than funny circumstances.

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