First, do you need it for streamig to different devices (phones tablets, TV), or do you only need it for one device (e.g. the TV).
For the first option I’d choose Jellyfin, for the second option I’d choose Kodi.
Then decide on what device you would like to run it. This also depends on the first option. I can recommend NVidia Shield Pro. I’ve also run Kodi on a Raspberry Pi 4 before, sometimes this ran a bit laggy.