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FeelzGoodMan420, in It seems Gen Z is just fine with parents knowing where they are all the time

Business Insider is straight AIDS

cheese_greater,

Hey, thats not very nice to AIDS, at least AIDS might be cureable someday and isn’t—I dunno, like—BusinessInsider.

SuperSpruce, in It seems Gen Z is just fine with parents knowing where they are all the time

I am Gen Z and I’m not fine with that. I chose to go to college far from where I grew up so that I would be independent and free and do stuff on my own accord, like buying a motorcycle.

Amazed,

Are Gen Z pro organ donation?

pedro,

Is that an argument against motorcycles?

Amazed,

Is what?

pedro,

What?

SuperSpruce,

I have an organ donor on my license. But I’m not trying to kill myself, I’m just following my heart.

It seems like fewer people in my generation have motorcycles because 1) we have less money (although you can save by replacing a car with one) than previous generations, and 2) the older generations constantly push the narrative that having a motorcycle is equivalent to having a death wish, which circles back to the point that they shouldn’t be spying on us all the time.

Jax,

You’re taking a line and putting it on the road against planes.

Follow your heart all you want, my math teacher in high-school had a motorcycle. Broke his collar bone, fractured his skull, broke his leg and had road rash. Much like smoking cigarettes, you’re allowed to take your life into your own hands. Don’t convince yourself that you’re somehow doing otherwise.

SuperSpruce,

I’m being as safe as I can. I’m ATGATT and I started on a beginner bike without much power.

Jax,

Listen, again, you can do whatever you want.

Do not pretend it isn’t dangerous. This behavior will be what turns you into someone like my math teacher.

GeekyNerdyNerd,

You sound so paranoid about safety I get the feeling you literally live in a suit of bubble-wrap. If they wanted your finger wagging they’d have asked you for it

Jax,

Sure buddy, you’ll never die.

GeekyNerdyNerd,

And you are talking like people who ride motorcycles have a 100% death toll. Which is demonstrably false.

I don’t ride them, I’m 29 morbidly obese and have a shit sense of balance. I just can’t stand people who try to spread fear based on personal trauma they experienced instead of being factual about the real dangers of the world.

Jax,

Personal trauma?

What makes you think learning from someone else’s stupid decisions qualifies as trauma? Oh, this must not be a lesson you learned growing up.

When you see someone do something stupid you go “no, I’m ok”, and your life is better for it.

You wanna die young, or cripple yourself? Go for it, be my guest. Don’t delude yourself into thinking it isn’t on the table because “not everyone who rides motorcycles dies”.

Great logic there. Very big brained.

GeekyNerdyNerd,

What makes you think learning from someone else’s stupid decisions qualifies as trauma?

I don’t. I think someone you care about dying in a motorcycle accident counts as personal trauma.

When you see someone do something stupid you go “no, I’m ok”, and your life is better for it.

See, this is what I mean. Motorcycle riding isn’t an inherently stupid thing, or at least no more stupid than driving a car or riding a bike. There is inherent danger in all forms of transportation. I don’t see you railing against the people driving two ton land torpedoes that we call “cars’ and killing people on motorcycles or those who walk.

Don’t delude yourself into thinking it isn’t on the table because “not everyone who rides motorcycles dies”.

The only one who suggested it.” isn’t on the table" is the strawman in your head

This is why I said you’ve got some personal trauma. You are insisting you don’t actually care about the safety of someone who you spent time out of your day to yell at for wanting to drive a motorcycle, then call anybody who says you are being excessive childish for not agreeing that motorcycles have a 100% injury and mortality rate and that the person who you supposedly don’t care about is doomed to end up like the teacher who supposedly isn’t a source of personal trauma for you

Edit to add: I’ll forgive your ad-homenins because it’s clear you need some therapy to overcome the death of that teacher you knew.

Jax,

You have brain damage. I don’t know if it’s from the obesity or something else, but I never said my teacher died.

I said he fucked himself up. Don’t weigh in on shit you don’t understand.

GeekyNerdyNerd,

Ok I’m done giving you the benefit of the doubt. You are an asshole… Please kindly go fuck yourself.

Jax,

No the asshole is the one acting like learning from others mistakes means you live in a safety bubble.

thanksforallthefish,

The plural of anecdote isnt data. I’ve been riding for 45 years and I’m still here.

Data shows the vast majority of 2 vehicle motorcycle accidents are the fault of the other vehicle

Jax,

Jesus christ, I don’t care what you risk your life doing.

Claiming that, somehow, riding isn’t dangerous or risky when it’s the other drivers on the road that are at fault is fucking brain damaged.

All it takes is one, and the rest of your life is fucked. I don’t give a shit what you decide is right for you. Genuinely.

Resistentialism,

There’s significantly less chance of getting fucked for life if yiu actually wear proper safety gear. Doesn’t stop the danger of others, though. But it can lower damage.

Jax,

That’s great, I’m glad you make these choices for yourself.

hansl,

The plural of anecdotes isn’t data. You not being fine with that doesn’t mean the majority aren’t.

samus12345,
@samus12345@lemmy.world avatar

They never said the majority wasn’t.

elfin8er,

Exactly! I appreciate hearing about a different point of view.

MasterBuilder, in It seems Gen Z is just fine with parents knowing where they are all the time

rolls D-100 … I disbelieve!

echodot,

I never cared that my parents knew where he was because I was never trying to do anything particularly nefarious and my parents weren’t completely buttheads.

But this was pre mobile phone days (my first phone was a Nokia Ngage), so if I went out they wouldn’t be able to contact me in an emergency so it made sense to say oh I’m going to x house here is ther phone number. Now that mobile phones exist maybe that requirement no longer exists.

MasterBuilder,

That is a trust based transaction when parent asks where their child is going as well.

Putting tracking malware and using surveillance all the time is invasion of privacy, teaching the child that surveillance is okay, and completely lacking a trust relationship, which is bad within a family.

lol, in It seems Gen Z is just fine with parents knowing where they are all the time
@lol@lemy.lol avatar

I’m 18 and fine with my parents knowing where I am so we can coordinate mealtimes and stuff. I really don’t care for having a third party spy on me 24/7 though. We just Signal each other “I’m at xyz location, be back soon” and that’s plenty enough.

cheese_greater,

That sounds far more (and acceptably so in my view) stochastic tho, like, do they have on-demand “lets see where lol is right now even though I have zero need to know currently” or is it just like u verbally check-in when they Signal u?

lol,
@lol@lemy.lol avatar

We just verbally check in and I’m totally fine with saying where I am. I believe the important thing here is trust. If, hypothetically, we were able to set up something privacy-respecting that communicated my GPS location to my parents 24/7, I wouldn’t be a fan of it. It’d feel like my parents are monitoring me because they don’t trust me to be truthful about my whereabouts.

cheese_greater,

If you actually need to, u can “share” as like a thing to attach your actual GPS location in Signal, no different from sharing a pic or file or dictation

lol,
@lol@lemy.lol avatar

True but most of the time I don’t have GPS enabled anyway lol

cheese_greater,

Samesies! Just wish there was a quicker toggle than Settings > Privacy > Location etc

nx2, in Garbage aka providing relevant Ads 🤣

The whole “incognito” confusion is just because

  1. People don’t read
  2. People don’t understand the difference between a Browser, the Internet and Google
aeternum,

google is the internet, right?

scytale,

In some countries where facebook found a way to become “free” even without a data plan, facebook is literally the internet for a lot of people who can’t afford it. And that makes it even more dangerous.

noodlejetski, in Garbage aka providing relevant Ads 🤣
leaky_shower_thought, in Garbage aka providing relevant Ads 🤣

incognito mode not convincing enough. needs that fedora hat and circle glasses.

Vexz, in Looking for a website like tracker control app

RethinkDNS maybe? Or maybe NextDNS?

iamtuna,

It’s neither of those. You could go there, click start and it would ping a list of trackers. When finished running it would give a percentage of trackers being blocked and show the entire list of which ones were/were not being blocked.

I thought I had bookmarked the page but apparently I didn’t 🤦🏻‍♂️

Vexz,

Ooh, gotcha! Maybe this one then? I think they recently changed their design.

iamtuna,

YES! That’s the one! I’d buy you a coffee if I could, you just saved my sanity lol Thank you!

Vexz,

Haha, you're welcome. :D

stifle867, in Looking for a website like tracker control app

You’re looking for d3ward.github.io/toolz/adblock.html

EDIT: just expanded comments and see it was already solved. leaving the link visible if anyone wants it

M4rkF,
@M4rkF@fosstodon.org avatar

@stifle867 @iamtuna

Damn!.... looks like mine failed to block partner.ads.js ... how do I block that?

stifle867,

I’m not 100% sure but that probably means your ad blocker doesn’t block “acceptable ads”. It can be a setting buried somewhere, if at all. Again, I’m not familiar with exactly your adblocker and the partner.ads.js but that’s just what I would guess.

If you’re on iPhone I’ve previously had success with AdGuard and they also have a good reputation around here.

EDIT: I was completely wrong. It looks to be a YouTube thing for loading ads. If it’s blocked it could potentially break YouTube. It could only be possible to block it using something like uBlock which I assume you cannot run. You may be able to block it if you can add rules in 1Block specifically for it.

M4rkF,
@M4rkF@fosstodon.org avatar

@stifle867 👍

stifle867,

Good luck!

Imprint9816,

Cool site. Scored 92% using Vanadium browser on GrapheneOS

stifle867,

With uBlock Origin you can achieve 99%+ pretty easily. https://programming.dev/pictrs/image/1ca9a8f8-e03f-4c4d-809a-4609e349b6ff.png

Imprint9816,

Oh for sure but I don’t think the ublock extension works for vanadium

I_Am_Jacks_____, in Privacy friendly authenticator ?

Assuming Android: Aegis

LMP,

More privacy friendly than 2FAS ?

I_Am_Jacks_____,

I don’t know what that is.

Asudox,
@Asudox@lemmy.world avatar

I’m not sure what you mean by that. 2FA can’t be linked back to your phone or anything if that is your concern. If you use it to login to your account often, then maybe the platform can. If you want an alrernative, check platforms that support passkeys as a 2FA, it has the same privacy though.

smeg, in Privacy friendly clock app ?

App for what? What are you using that doesn’t already have a clock?

giacomo, in Privacy friendly Ubuntu antivirus ?

Clam

giacomo, in Practical file manager on Linux Ubuntu

If you’re coming from windows, I think kde may be easier to transition to than gnome.

CookieJarObserver, in Privacy friendly antivirus app?
@CookieJarObserver@sh.itjust.works avatar

None, you don’t need anti-virus, you need common sense to avoid getting them.

dustywinter, in Privacy friendly authenticator ?

Proton Pass has a 2fa option built in

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