That’s what’s chill, you have no stakes and just build and fail over and over until you succeed and it’s pretty hard so when you do succeed it’s an awesome payoff
It’s very easy to think how striving for 50/50 in all cases is a good and even desirable solution, but that’s not how matchmaking is built in modern games because it would make for pretty bad experiences
Reddit bans for not being nice, Facebook, hell even 4chan does. What are you looking for, a place where people can be assholes and “correct”? You don’t want that at all