LemmysMum

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LemmysMum,

Exactly, we might not have wealth, or support, or opportunity, or capacity, or willingness, or hope… but we have been imbued with the belligerence of life, so that won’t stop us!

LemmysMum, (edited )

I’m sad for the fish because if they’re gone I can’t eat them, and they can’t eat the tasty little fish, and they miss out on all that lovely tasty phytoplankton…

LemmysMum,

Global catastrophy will never be as emotionally convincing as individual suffering. Why empathise with more when you can sympathise with less.

LemmysMum, (edited )

Consuming for survival is not unneccesary harm. All complex life takes life to continue living.

LemmysMum, (edited )

Vegans just casually creating a class system to value one life above others.

We have a name for the class of animals that eat grass, stay in packs for safety, and lack the individual skills necessary for individal survival. And even they are smart enough to be opportunistic omnivores.

The only species of animal stupid enough to consume against their needs and instincts are humans.

LemmysMum,

“In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move.” - Douglas Adams, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy.

LemmysMum,

Used to be every village had their idiot. Now every idiot has their village.

LemmysMum,

I had someone ruin this for me so now it’s time to share the love.

If John Mclane had stayed in his lane and left the situation to play out nobody would have died and a corporation would have been robbed.

LemmysMum,

Arguably the police would never have been alerted to the situation and the drastic measures would never have been required.

LemmysMum,

Ooh. Forgot about that. Seems I’m due a rewatch of everyone’s favourite Christmas movie.

LemmysMum,

My stream of consciousness picks things up, not has things fall into it.

It’s a matter of perspective.

LemmysMum, (edited )

I’d perhaps liken it more to jumping in the water to save someone who’s drowning.

Thank you, that’s an anology I can work with.

No matter how rational a person is, emotion and subconscious reactions can override all of that.

I wish that was the case. I’m diagnosed as high functioning autistic presenting, 100% autism free, but my natural capacity for logic obliterated my emotional development. I can and do functionally parse all my emotional thought through logic. This is my weakness and my strength.

I’m not unaware that my approaches are often mistaken for dismissal or ignorance of people’s feelings, because they are, but they’re also the tools that emotional people need to temper their emotions.

I don’t lack empathy, I lack the tools to express it, work in progress.

These people are at the bottom of the well and I don’t have a rope, but that’s not going to stop me jumping in to try save them, even if I do drown every time until I get one. I just hope I can teach some of them to climb without the rope even though they feel like they need it.

I can’t help, so let me help you help yourself.

LemmysMum,

Sorry for the mini-rant. I’ve enjoyed our conversation.

No need to apologise, the opportunity to feel comprehended has been far more valuable than you might realise.

I might have trouble relating and connecting on an emotional level but my belligerence to be understood is limitless. Gets me in trouble because most people feel instead of comprehend and that’s just not logical.

One of the feelings I hate the most is the feeling you get when you know someone agrees with you they just lack the capacity to know why. It’s the bane of my existance.

Lol. Guess it’s my turn to apologise for the rant.

LemmysMum, (edited )

If everyone has them it’s not a phobia, it’s a condition of consciousness. The phobia is being irrationally afraid of your perfectly normal condition. Which if you think you’re own thoughts are intruding on you, you may have.

LemmysMum,

Yes. It’s basically a rephrasing of the OP which also intentionally didn’t use the words ‘intrusive thoughts’. I’m a master at being downvoted by people who have already agreed with what I’m saying, but lack the capacity to realise it.

LemmysMum, (edited )

I am a condescending pompous arse, an ego earned by being correct. I’m empathetic, but I’m not sympathetic to those who would ignore a way of thinking that is not afflicted by the same weakness as their own. And my apologies are entirely genuine and your disbelief has no bearing on that reality it just makes you look more the fool you choose to be if a little pomposity is all that’s required to keep you from knowledge and comprehension.

LemmysMum, (edited )

I understand it perfectly, this is a philosophical perspective not a medical one. My understanding of the term as used in medicine does not differ from yours.

The question is how does that change what a phobia is? Are you not aware how phobias work and are defined as according to medical literature? My statement is correct. If you have an issue with any of my other statements, reply to them directly.

LemmysMum,

I wish it were so few.

LemmysMum,

Cool story, glad your shared experiences are the only valid ones because it involves suffering.

LemmysMum, (edited )

I don’t disagree with any of that. But if someone wants to take steps to not being afflicted by their own thoughts you might think it appropriate to listen to those with the experience and skill to not be afflicted by their own thoughts.

No one here has any interest in changing their thinking to improve their capacity to enjoy life, they all want to bitch that I have no idea what I’m talking about, despite apparently being the only one here with a legitimate capacity to not be disturbed by my own internal monologue, and wallow in their shared failure to have emotional control over themselves.

LemmysMum, (edited )

For it to be a complex my inference has to be incorrect and come from a place of lacking superiority. And yet not a single point I’ve made has been refuted. No, I’m just superior and have the ego to acknowledge that and the literary capacity to do it with airs.

You’ve also mistaken being empathetic with sympathetic and I’ve explained why I’m not the latter in several other messages including the one you just replied to. How can I not feel superior when every respondant has the reading comprehension of a 6 year old.

LemmysMum,

Never claimed to be except in metaphore, I’m not trying to impose my thinking on anyone. Making statements is not persuasion, if you want your mind changed change it, but that doesn’t change the legitimacy of my point of view.

I’m not shying away despite the downvotes because they’re irrelevant, anyone who chooses to benefit themselves with what I provide will do so. No intelligent person has ever been without detractors, I’m aware of the value of the derogatory statements towards me, it’s zero. Because anyone lacking the capacity to see past their feelings for comprehension doesn’t have an opinion worth entertaining.

LemmysMum, (edited )

The lack of suffering I experience at the behest of my own thoughts is objective evidence it’s better.

whether anyone accepts that or not is strong evidence of your lack of maturity and life experience.

Come now, you can be better than that. I already told you the value of your derogatory statements, but if they make you feel more secure in your wilful ignorance then more power to you.

you are welcome to share what works FOR YOU

Apparently not since everyone insists on telling me to shut up. Like you. Right now. For doing exactly that.

You’re free to not engage with my opinions, it’s even easier than typing a reply but it requires the actual self control required to rein in your ego long enough to let go of me emotionally. But I understand if you can’t given the general sense of a lack of emotional control from people in this thread.

LemmysMum,

Just because you can’t see behind the mountain doesn’t mean I don’t know what’s there.

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