You objectively need to lighten up. This WAS supposed to be a fun post and you’ve unintentionally (good faith interpretation) sowed discord here where it wasn’t otherwise palpable.
No offense guy, I want you here as much as anyone but this isn’t Lemmy.Fucking.ML, c’mon man
Less drama please, i meant what i said. Let us know how many months you commit to leave and when we can expect you back and someone will set a remind:me thing or whatever. But none of us are that important singularly so I hope you adjust that cuz its offputting at best
Honestly, i dont blame you for posting, i blame the OP for creating an instant divide, the tenor of what he requests is “jokey” the he added space for the downer stuff.
Don’t get me wrong you guys have valid points but its just annoying that everything is blended into one. That’s poor form on the part of the OP, I hope theg see this and do better.
You’re aftually fine, we shouldn’t need to fight here and I take ownership of my part in that, but you can see from my history i interpreted this (OP’s post) as a prompt for funny and lighthearted stuff. If I want the issues and problems and dissatisfactions, I will click on a discrete post about same. Its silly to ask for both in one megapost, everybody’s gonna be pissed about having to deal with the opposing side
Thanks and sorry for any misunderstanding/sass on my part
Edit: this is a great example of powerful people setting the agenda and framing things in a monolithic+inappropos way to get the little people fighting and “downvoting”/reducing each other like lobsters in a bucket when we could realize we can knock the bucket over and kill the asshole who set up the bucket that way and take over Crab-People style
Reminds me of Tildes honestly. Had some great discussions but the condescending loser assholes and the ruthless moderation by @deimos was insanely non-evenhanded ultimately and lost them a contributor who actually brought thoughtful if idiosyncratic views on things that always created abundant engagement. Ah, its just as well. I need fewer distractions and at least with Lemmy, theres lots of space (instance-permitting) to be me. Same reason why I like Lobste.rs: smart folks but way to harsh+judgemental and inflexible, like a computer program lol
I feel its almost like you all shoukld just stop presenting your OS bona fides unless its 1) solicited explicitly + 2) its explicitly relevant to the conversation even if 1) is not fulfilled
The thing is: I do have a catgrass thing that she does use now and again, but the heaving predated that, although, to be fair, since the catgrass she never actually needs to throw up almost. Like one or two accidents per bi-weekly period, but otherwise, theres less and less vomit spots to clean up so thats good.
I just wanna know why it happens (abdominal heaving and I dont have the fucking money to get the full workup if any smartass rube wants to “contribute” “Why don’t you just go to THE vet and pay them $5000 as a downpayment to not walk out of here with any actuonable insights”
What are Lemmy's unwritten rules?
I’ll start. Non serious answers also welcome...
Cat heaves and abdominal contractions even when relaxed, what think
We will see a vet but for now I need ideas. Dont have $1000 spare dollars in my couch to be exploratory as opposed to result oriented