The thing is: I do have a catgrass thing that she does use now and again, but the heaving predated that, although, to be fair, since the catgrass she never actually needs to throw up almost. Like one or two accidents per bi-weekly period, but otherwise, theres less and less vomit spots to clean up so thats good.
I just wanna know why it happens (abdominal heaving and I dont have the fucking money to get the full workup if any smartass rube wants to “contribute” “Why don’t you just go to THE vet and pay them $5000 as a downpayment to not walk out of here with any actuonable insights”
Im learning just keep all the toolchain stuff to myself cuz i dont care enough to change people. Got enough to change about me.
I voted up cuz there’s is a super non-robus line inherent to this platform where i get down for the most mundane random shit. Like either people have a sense of humor or they freak the fuck out and dont even comment but simply downvote
I feel its almost like you all shoukld just stop presenting your OS bona fides unless its 1) solicited explicitly + 2) its explicitly relevant to the conversation even if 1) is not fulfilled
Reminds me of Tildes honestly. Had some great discussions but the condescending loser assholes and the ruthless moderation by @deimos was insanely non-evenhanded ultimately and lost them a contributor who actually brought thoughtful if idiosyncratic views on things that always created abundant engagement. Ah, its just as well. I need fewer distractions and at least with Lemmy, theres lots of space (instance-permitting) to be me. Same reason why I like Lobste.rs: smart folks but way to harsh+judgemental and inflexible, like a computer program lol
You objectively need to lighten up. This WAS supposed to be a fun post and you’ve unintentionally (good faith interpretation) sowed discord here where it wasn’t otherwise palpable.
No offense guy, I want you here as much as anyone but this isn’t Lemmy.Fucking.ML, c’mon man
Less drama please, i meant what i said. Let us know how many months you commit to leave and when we can expect you back and someone will set a remind:me thing or whatever. But none of us are that important singularly so I hope you adjust that cuz its offputting at best
Cat heaves and abdominal contractions even when relaxed, what think
We will see a vet but for now I need ideas. Dont have $1000 spare dollars in my couch to be exploratory as opposed to result oriented
What are Lemmy's unwritten rules?
I’ll start. Non serious answers also welcome...