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throwawaysalami, to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

Holy shit, you’re a mad genius! Definitely gonna try this! thanks!

throwawaysalami, to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

I’m single. But I think I’m still just gonna go find a new dance instructor if my crush on her won’t settle down.

throwawaysalami, to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

If she is a dance instructor, she is probably no stranger to having her pupils develop feelings for her.

But this just makes it worse. Cause you’re probably right. Which would make me feel even more like a schmuck. Yeah I think I’m just gonna go find a new instructor.

throwawaysalami, to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

I see the crush as a separate entity from myself. The crush sees them as some unrealistic ideal superhuman, which falls apart when I take time to find out who the actual person is.

That’s pretty damn well put.

This assumes you have opportunities to casually chat without planning time specifically, or you can be in a regular part of group conversations.

There is maybe a tiny window. But it’s worth a shot.

throwawaysalami, (edited ) to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

Yeah that’s actually not that bad of an idea. If things go south I’ll use this as a last resort. Change dance studios that is.

throwawaysalami, to asklemmy in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

So it’s either quit dancing or develop romantic feelings for her? Q.E.D. I’m fucked.

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