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Map of members: CARICOM members map...
Hi all, a shout-out for assistance. I’m considering hosting a Lemmy instance (assuming I can pass the wife test on costs) and I’m looking for some guidance on specs....
First of all, I apologize for the lack of a “formal” schematic… I tried to draw one out, but got buried in the nuances of it :)...
I can not believe that there is, for example, no furry communities here - yet there are none in search results…...
Was there recently a kbin backend change? I haven’t been able to see kbin posts all week but they’re populating now.
I don’t want to see porn on my feed, so i disabled nsfw. However, alot of memes are marked as nsfw. Is there anyway a new system could be implemented here in Lemmy? Like a nsfw filter and a rnsfw(really not safe for work)?
One of the hurdles to change for users switching from reddit to a federated platform is less content. The logic goes: “smaller community, less content, I can see i’m missing out on stuff over there so I’m not going to switch away”....
Hey Lemmings...
If it helps, her mom and I have been married a hair over a month.