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ZagTheRaccoon, in given how little one vote matter, it seems to me that stripping felons of their right to vote is both petty and counterproductive if the point was to reform them into civic minded individuals ?

The US criminal justice system has never been for rehabilitation. No sane person thinks jail makes someone less likely to commit crimes.

momentary,

It worked out for my brother and I’ve always been surprised by that.

NotYourSocialWorker,

That’s good to hear. I hope he’s doing well.

But that’s what’s often missed regarding statistics. It’s true for a large group of people but can’t say anything about the individual.

momentary,

Oh don’t get me wrong, I believe recidivism is a real problem and that my brother got on the straight and narrow perhaps just as much inspite of his 4 years in prison as because of.

NotYourSocialWorker,

Oh yes, I got that you knew that. I was speaking about the others, sorry that I didn’t make that clear enough.

Aceticon, in Is it normal for a person to "feel" less as they get older?

It’s do with living in the moment vs spending your time thinking about what you did or worrying about what the future might bring, IMHO.

We become way more prone to spend our time doing things like thinking about stuff we did (and how we miss it if it was good or could’ve done it better if it was bad) and worrying about what the future can bring (and not necessarily in grand terms: somethingas simple as “I have to get a haircut” which then goes one to “when will I have the time”, then “but I need that time for X” and so on) as we grow older.

You absolutelly can still have some moments of wonder (for things as simple as how a cobweb looks with droplets of morning mist on it) but you need to be present there in mind also, not just in body, and not to not let some memory or concern rush in to take your mental attention away from the now.

I had a point in my life with a ton of anxiety and ended up learning Mindfulness (which is simply to try and not say anything to yourself in your mind, which is surprisingly hard to do for more than a few seconds) to stop the feeling (if you’re not constantly looking back to something bad or fearing for something bad in the future you don’t feel anxious about those things) and as a side effect I ended up with the habit of being more often present in the moment and that’s how you just enjoy little wonders when you come across them.

Still, it’s nowhere at the level one has as a kid.

Antimutt, in Downvotes = “I disagree” or “this is bad and you should feel bad”?
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Taste my righteous wrath and because I can do it with one click without explaining why means I don’t need to and the internet is on my side. Feels like the implicit meaning when I’m downvoted.

makanimike, (edited ) in Have you had any bad experiences with people on Lemmy?

Some German speaking instances heavily swing towards Last Generation/Just Stop Oil/Extinction Rebellion/etc. to the point that you observe heavy downvotes and brigading/mob behavior on any comment that shows the slightest opposition towards them. To be clear: it’s not a left right thing. They call anyone not on board with glueing themselves to things in protest “right”. Not the nicest climate for civil discussion over there (pun!! badumts!). And it reminds me of why I left the German speaking internet over a decade ago in an extreme form. But I also feel like it’s important to have just a little bit of sound insulation in that echo chamber and see some differing opinions, even though I suspect many middle-of-the-bell-curve lurkers might feel like not staying around too long.

Tl;Dr: political topics are indeed as enflamed as ever. More so in the subs I’ve spent time in.

cwagner, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?

I kept getting errors that no one else encountered :/

But that was way over a decade ago. Nowadays, I work from home with .NET legacy software, so I need to run Windows, only the modern .NET is crossplatform. The fact that 3 of my top 10 favourite pieces of software (DirectoryOpus, EmEditor, MediaMonkey) are Windows-only doesn’t help either.

Anoril, in Have you had any bad experiences with people on Lemmy?

This place is the most elitist/arrogant place i seen, even worse than reddit. Especially it could be seen during recent discussion about threads/facebook.

Antimutt, in Have you had any bad experiences with people on Lemmy?
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Deleting the thread out from under you is usually bad behaviour, but in the one instance it happened to me the chap was entirely right to do so - he’d left his exif location data in the image. Still, the hedgehog pic was good enough to be posted again, which I did.

abbadon420, in What is Lemmy's Favorite Beverage? [Ranked-Choice Poll]
provisional, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?

“When in doubt, draw a distinction.” - Neil Postman

Valmond,

How would that translate in a simpler English for a non native tired person?

provisional,

When it comes to communicating well in English, it’s easy to get stuck between words that seem very similar. For example: poll vs vote, citizen vs civilian, politician vs representative. When you don’t know the difference between words, try to find what makes them different from each other.

For example: a poll can be an opinion poll, but a vote is only for an election. So all votes are a kind of poll, but not all polls are specifically votes.

Another example: a politician politically represents the will of their constituents. A representative may represent any company, organization, or government. So representatives generally represent groups of people, but politicians specifically represent their constituents in government.

Another example: what’s the difference between plausible and reasonable? Something reasonable means it’s logical or can be reached through reasoning. Something plausible is a story that makes sense, a good enough story that could actually happen. So something reasonable needs to have a relatively consistent logical thread to it, whole something plausible needs to make enough sense as to be possibly true.

When you are asking if something is plausible, you are asking if the story is true or if the reasons given make enough sense to make the story true. When you are asking if something is reasonable, you are asking if using your reasoning ability, you would come to the same conclusions.

Valmond,

Yeah but that didn’t help at all 😅

deadbeef79000,

If you can’t choose between two things, describe what’s different between the two things.

E.g. I’m hungry, I could choose an apple or a sandwich.

Hmm. An apple is crisp and refreshing, the sandwich is dry and will make me thirsty.

button_masher,

My attempt: When in doubt, try find what is the thing and what’s not the thing.

funky_rodenty, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?
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My “older” Matebook has a AMD Ryzen5, which is fine performance wise. Sadly there is a Bug preventing the use of nearly all powersafe states in the CPU resulting in random freezes. I try Linux distros and kernels periodically, but am amazed in how persistent and dificult this problem seems to be handeld

gist.github.com/…/876d74d030f80dc899fc58a244b72df…

I still dig linux distros and if this Laptop dies (hope not) i will try to get one which is supported more :)

pazukaza, in Downvotes = “I disagree” or “this is bad and you should feel bad”?

Are upvotes for agreement ok though? Or should upvotes be reserved for quality content?

maegul,
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Yep. As said by @sunaurus it was the concept I was reaching for I think.

notun,

If you agree with something, you probably consider it quality content.

Gamera8ID, in What's the best Android/iPhone app for Lemmy?

There’s a comprehensive list of Lemmy apps being curated here.

Right now I’m using Liftoff on Android.

DarthVi,

I’m another Liftoff user!

I’ve also tried Jerboa, Connect for Lemmy and wefwef, but lately I’m using Liftoff a lot.

madmaurice,
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+1 for Liftoff

TechyDad,

I like Liftoff and Jerboa. I flip between them depending on my mood.

banazir, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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“An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind.” -Gandhi

TauriWarrior,

Except it doesn’t, “the eye for an eye” is a restriction on the amount of revenge.

“…a person who has injured another person is to be penalized to a similar degree by the injured party. In softer interpretations, it means the victim receives the [estimated] value of the injury in compensation. The intent behind the principle was to restrict compensation to the value of the loss.”

xuxebiko, in Have you had any bad experiences with people on Lemmy?

2 idiots got into a "u.no u" fight on one of my threads that escalated into them brigading each other. Even the block feature didn't work for a while.

Saigonauticon, in Downvotes = “I disagree” or “this is bad and you should feel bad”?

There’s some part of my brain that applies display:none to the upvote/downvote function on every platform.

So if I don’t vote on your content it’s not because I hate it. My brain is just wired to automatically edit out anything that’s not content. Mostly this means ads, but voting features seem to have been caught in the net too.

rynzcycle,

I feel this very much, but yet I've upvoted you... The brain is weird.

socsa,

And I downvoted because “I have special eyes” posts are cringe.

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