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ChromaticMan, in Is it worth to read Star Wars novels?

Yes! Some aren’t as good as others, so I would suggest to read a couple of non spoiler reviews before buying one.

In my country they are also relatively cheap, 8-15 euros. Definitely can recommend the Darth Bane trilogy.

weew, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?

I guess I’m just practical-minded. “Shit happens. It’s not going to get better by doing nothing.”

intensely_human,

My dad says when you feel depressed the worst thing to do is lie down.

Jimmycrackcrack, in Be honest, do you still use reddit?

Sometimes I’m googling a tech issue and the only useful results are Reddit. I don’t abstain on such an occasion, I need my answers and I’ve never seen a Lemmy post show up in the results.

The other main situation is here on lemmy I’ll click a link based on the title without paying much attention only to discover it’s taken to content on reddit which is a weird phenomena that I kinda hope fades with time.

jbrains, in Best options for Non-Google cloud storage as of 2022?

I’ve been happy with Sync for close to a decade now.

intensely_human, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?

“If I stop moving it will get worse”

As in, pain is literally dampened by dopamine, and dopamine comes when you move, so it hurts less when you move.

Like I’ve encountered some serious monsters in this life, that came as a result of procrastination. I’ve experienced hunger, violence, and disease that all came my way because I froze with fear and uncertainty.

As Confucius says: “It does not matter how slow you go, so long as you do not stop.”

It’s so hard to believe, but I remind myself that there is an almost magical barrier in front of me. It’s like an Indians Jones illusion. It looks like hell in front of me. But if I step into it willingly, it becomes heaven.

Like a door, and through the door is your living room, but you know when you step through it you’ll be in Narnia or something. A magical/hologram projecting doorway, that looks like it leads to Place A but actually leads to Place B, is the best analogy for my mind.

The reality I’m pointing at with the analogy is that leaning into it is the only way to make the pain stop. Because if you run from it, it chases you.

I was lucky to learn this in some long meditation retreats. It’s always about day 3 or 4 that I realize the only way I’m going to stay sane is if I actually meditate. And even though it’s sitting still literally, it’s the willing engagement with the thing I’m trying to avoid that makes it bearable. “The wisdom of no escape” is what Pema Chodron calls that, I think.

Somebody else once called it “Leap like a tiger while sitting”. That tiger’s predator face and posture is about as raw an expression of dopamine as could ever exist. And you get that dopamine rush, that cessation of the suffering, that only go straight ten thousand years try try try direction, when you stop trying to distract yourself with thoughts and accept that you’re there in the meditation hall and nothing is going to happen to relieve you of that.

It isn’t pretty, but it is beautiful: If you stop and cower, everything gets worse.

gaydarless, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?

Usually something like, “This too shall pass” or “The only constant is change.” Reminding myself of the impermanence of every situation makes present difficulties bearable.

What also helps me is the prospect of emerging on the other side of the situation as someone with more experience, more self-understanding, and greater resilience. Those traits are high on my list of personal values.

smstnitc, in Is it worth to read Star Wars novels?

Any Timothy Zahn books are quite good. I love Thrawn.

iirc, in the 90’s the older books had a set of guidelines they had to adhere to, like no stories that take place before episode 4, or Luke couldn’t have sex, I don’t remember much more than that, but I think they were pretty free to tell any story if they stayed within the guidelines.

TBH I have no idea what the rules are now.

JWBananas, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?
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I reached a point in my life where I just didn't have time for things that don't "just work."

200cc,

Such as windows?

JWBananas,
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Nope. Been using the same installation of Windows 10 for years, and everything just works.

Even swapped the SSD from one laptop into another one. Added a UEFI boot entry, and it came right up.

I think the only problem I ever had was audio or Wi-Fi occasionally failing to work after resume. But that resolved itself after one of the major updates.

The only annoyance I've run into is the "Let's finish setting up your device" screen after feature updates. But you can disable that fairly easily.

I mainly use it as a glorified Chromebook though. Browser, Windows Terminal + WSL, maybe the occasional Inkscape or Lightroom. All the "interesting" stuff happens in Linux VMs atop ESXi running on an old desktop.

But for everyday use, it's nice to have something that "just works" when I pick it up.

I might check out Linux again in a few years though. From what I've read, PipeWire seems to be killing it in terms of progress on the audio side. So once the Wayland ecosystem matures, it should be fairly easy to get back that "just works" status with Linux.

In terms of performance, the main issue Windows really has is disk I/O. But a modern SSD fixes that easily. I am using a second-hand, nine-year-old Dell Latitude laptop, and it does everything I need it to do. Boots up in seconds. Has to stay plugged in though.

Bytyan, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?

Something along the lines of “it is okay to be anxious, change is scary, but so is stagnation.”

Alternatively, “How do you eat an entire elephant? One bite at a time.”

Fandangalo, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?

This is a moment. Take it bird by bird.

smstnitc, in What gaming console / platform do you prefer?

PS5 and PC.

On PS5 it’s usually games like God of War and Horizon.

On PC it’s the occasional shooter, and I spend many hours on Satisfactory.

Occasionally I’ll find a fun game to play on my steam deck, but overall I don’t use it much. Make sure you evaluate the games that work on it before you spend to make sure you shouldn’t wait for the supported list to grow.

Haldum96, in Is it worth to read Star Wars novels?

Absolutely. I highly recommend both canon Thrawn trilogies by Timothy Zahn.

SmellyNinja,
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Seconded. If you’re open to it the older/non-canon audio book is amazing way to experience the story as well. Includes musical cues, sound effects, and the narrator does an incredible job of imitating the OG cast.

guyrocket, in What gaming console / platform do you prefer?
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Atari 2600

notExactlyI20, in In which game did you spend the most hours?
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Got around 300+ hours into Borderlands 2 and around 600+ into Warframe

zeekaran, in Is it worth to read Star Wars novels?

I’ve enjoyed dozens of them over the course of my twenty something years being into SW. Currently I’d recommend the Plagueis, Tarkin, the Thrawn books, and the Bane trilogy. Apparently I like villain books. I’ve also enjoyed the Karen Traviss Clone Trooper books but they got cancelled for canon reasons due to the TCW series.

Authors have plenty of freedom unless you’re talking about novelizations of the films.

Emperor,
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Apparently I like villain books.

I joked to a friend that a disproportionate number of my Star Wars books have “Darth” in the title.

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