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azn03, in Gamers who have gamed for a long time

Yep. I’ve never left Counterstrike and with CS2 that came back, friends from when I played when I was in college have come back to play so we’ve been playing. Story wise, I could get into it but there just isn’t enough time and what time you have you’re going to sacrifice sleep.

It’s all about getting old.

Nawor3565,

Yup, this is the real reason. When you’re a kid/teenager, you don’t realize just how much free time you have to spend on stuff like video games. Then you become an adult and have way more responsibilities, and suddenly video games just aren’t as appealing as a time sink as they used to be.

BeardedBlaze,
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Lol I’m in my 40s, and play with guys same age as me up to guys in their 60s. Just because you don’t have the time, doesn’t mean all adults don’t.

Rhynoplaz,

That might not be the flex you think it is…

BeardedBlaze,
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What flex? I’m simply stating that he doesn’t speak for all adults. Once my kids were old enough to hold a controller, I got them into gaming. All 3 are teenagers now, and I love gaming with them. One of the few hobbies where age really doesn’t matter.

Edit: spelling

RememberTheApollo_, in Why are we as humans obsessed with mass-extinction of our species?

Because you can turn on the TV and air conditioning and it’s like nothing bad is happening.

derf82, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

People are giving examples of parks that are way off in the boonies.

First, things are not so binary that it’s either high rises and boonies.

Second, NYC has a huge central business district. My own city does not have enough high rises to surround a large park. Such a park would destroy most midsize cities, not enhance them.

someguy3,

Yes I understand nyc has more, the point is centrally located

derf82,

Less than 12,000 people live in downtown Cleveland to NYC’s 1.6 million in Manhattan alone. My whole county has 1.26 million, NYC has 8.8 million. I bet person for person, Cleveland has more space than Manhattan

Consider Public Square and the Group Plan malls. Cleveland is also working in a lakefront development.

www.groupplan.org

Freesiana, in Lemmy users, who is the worst person you've ever known?

Cliche as it sounds, my ex. It took so many years and therapy to understand that i was dating person who was very manipulative and perhaps had some kind of personality disorder or something else. My ex sometimes penetraded me while i was sleeping by fingers or penis. Pressuring to anal sex even if i didnt want it, otherwise they would gaslight me or giving me silent treatments if i wasnt agreeing, pressuring to make videos to pornhub because we had money issues while i was grieving my friend’s death, sometimes “forgotting” protection and other things. Relationship ended because they were cheating me with a friend. I wasnt always good person to her cause i started to have anger issues, social anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts and i am pretty sure that these issues begin with those actions. They tried gaslight me that i caused the cheating, but i am so fucking glad that i trusted myself and end that relationship. It will take loooooong time to heal from the trauma that they caused and trust issues, but i am slowly getting better. If anyone has going throught same, please just please leave and love yourself, it will get better.♥️

gummybootpiloot, in So how much "bad" debt are you in?

200k student loans, 110federal, 90k private

Freesiana, in What is your ringtone?

Cyberpunk 2077 Rebel path Cello version

HerrLewakaas, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

Happy Munich noises. Bigger than central park too 😉

yata,

Yeah, I think OP is asking strictly from a US perspective (although being USdefaultist by not specifying it), because I can’t really think of any large European city which doesn’t have realitve large parks in the city center or next to it.

techognito,
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TIL I have more reasons to visit Munich than to visit NYC

philpo,

Came here to write that. Central Park didn’t need to be copied because a lot of European cities had that decades to centuries before.

Tiergarten Berlin, Schlossgarten Stuttgart, Praterinsel Vienna, Planten un Blomen Hamburg, Maschsee/Eilenriede in Hannover, Züriberg Zürich, just to name a few in the Germanophone world.

It’s possibly harder to find a large city who hasn’t some equivalent than find one with it - and most without one lost it after WW2 and American city planning.

littlecolt, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

Check out Forest Park in St. Louis. It’s nice.

lightnsfw,

I spent a day there last time I was in St. Louis. It was really nice. There were a few museums and the zoo you could all go to for free.

halferect, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

They didn’t set it aside, they displaced people to make a park.

KinglyWeevil,

I’m honestly surprised that they haven’t followed up by just allowing the city to gradually eat the park.

Knusper, in What are some places you can spend time where you're protected from the elements and it doesn't cost anything to be there?

Universities are cool (presumably only if you live in a country without tuition).

LesserAbe,

Yeah, in the states a college campus center is a great place to hang out if you’re passible as a student. Some of the campuses are huge and there are multiple places that don’t require an ID card

winkerjadams,

Anyone can be a student in a community college :)

Toes, in What websites do you highly recommend to other likeminded hobbyists?

This website is helpful for finding anime to watch. It has a robust tag and recommendations system. If you don’t know where to start I picked a favourite of mine.

anilist.co/anime/849/Suzumiya-Haruhi-no-Yuuutsu

jastusa.com is a great site to buy anime games.

jlist.com and www.amiami.com/eng/ are great merchandise sites.

www.hidive.com is a streaming site for anime that I find has a great selection

nucawysi, in At what point is violence on a large scale justified?

violence is never justified unless it is in self defense, the problem is people interpret self defense in different ways, that seems to be the issue

BmeBenji,

But I think the fact that the definition of self defense is up for debate calls into question whether violent self defense is ever justified.

nucawysi, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

“naturally surounded by high rises” nothing natural about that. Its callled urban planning and in this case complete control was given to one guy, the one that made prospect park too, i saw a docu on it. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn’t but the bearucracy and corruption with funding usually takes its place. A lot of cities simply weren’t planned for that, central park is designed pre-automobile. Many new cities are post-auto, so they dont care about walking spaces like they used to, a lot of cities have decided that the public is dangerous and hard to control, they dont want them to gather or loiter in any space and why should they give something for free when a business can profit from their need? NYC came from a place where they the populace was accustomed to dealing with the public in person on a daily basis.

someguy3,

People are giving examples of parks that are way off in the boonies. I’m trying to say located centrally, heart of the city, you know where the high rises are.

Mr_Blott,

None of the cities I know have high rises in the centre tho

A_Random_Idiot, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

because no one values green spaces.

Which is why government typically rubberstamps every developer request to clearcut new forests and turn under new grassland, to build a new poorly built development of McMansions that will probably have to be extensively rebuilt within 5-10 years due to the apalling build quality.

Same reason no one builds affordable homes. Why develop homes for the poors, for 100k, when they can make McMansions on the same land, and sell them for 1mil+ a pop.

If Central Park was proposed today, it would be decried as a waste of valuable property (and probably liberal wokeism)

intensely_human,

Boston spent billions of dollars to replace their downtown freeways with green space.

A_Random_Idiot,

They spent billions to fix traffic issues and failing infrastructure.

The greenspace was a byproduct. That was only allowed to happen because buildings along the former elevated roadway would see a massive increase in land value with the roadway gone that was more valuable than shoving more buildings into the strip of land.

intensely_human,

Oh so the replacement of a surface road with green space increased property values? Gee I wonder if that has anything to do with valuing green space?

A_Random_Idiot,

Yes, who would have thought having a giant fucking highway outside your 4th story window would have negatively impacted property value.

nucawysi,

a lot of central park was for rich people actually or designed with rich citizens to use it in mind

NeoNachtwaechter, in Why wasn't NYC's Central Park concept copied by other cities?

naturally surrounded by city high rises.

Something seems odd with the idea that high rises were ‘natural’ :-)

For me, the “concept” is terribly wrong.

A park itself is fine, but you can’t use one park as an excuse for not having other parks, green areas etc. anymore in a big city.

New York has 5 times more people than Munich. But Munich’s biggest park is about the same size as New York’s Central Park (a little bigger even). And if you count all the green areas, parks etc. in Munich together, they are 6 times larger (counting only the ones that are publicly accessible and listed in wikipedia) than that Central Park.

So, give your New Yorker’s 30 central parks and lots of other green spots, and you got a concept.

someguy3,

Located such that.

Who said I want to use it an excuse for no other parks?

What’s with all the bad faith discussion.

intensely_human,

Nobody said you wanted to use it that way. OP’s probably referring to the lack of parks in Manhattan.

Turun,

What’s with all the bad faith discussion.

Good question. Do you need a mirror to figure it out?

A_Random_Idiot,

Something seems odd with the idea that high rises were ‘natural’ :-)

They are better than spreading single family homes and ground floor commercial spaces over a huge swath of land that would inevitable need clearcutting and plowing under to be suitable for development.

TauZero,

Central Park is not New York’s largest park. It’s the 5th.

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