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Tehhund, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

If I’m thinking about the future and it’ll take just a minute or two, I’ll do it right then. If it’ll take lots of time I’ll put a task on my calendar for another day and deal with it then, then get back to living my life (well, posting memes, but I didn’t come here to be judged). Now planning has a time but I don’t have to think about it until then.

toiletobserver, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

I treat retirement planning like Ron Popeil’s rotisserie cooker. “You set it, and forget it.” Index funds don’t need to be managed, and recurring transfers can be automated.

Medium term planning follows other people’s advice about normal budgeting, with specific piles for specific things.

Short term is extremely simplified at this point. Spend discretionary dollars at your discretion.

partial_accumen,

First, I completely agree with your thoughts on retirement savings.

However, that’s far from the only thing in “planning for the future”. The future is also things like:

  • when/if do I start a family?
  • should I get additional education to help my career prospects?
  • should I prioritize time with my elderly family members now at the cost of other opportunities for personal or professional growth?
  • should I put my efforts into growth for my spouse/child?

There’s no easy answers as many of these are mutually exclusive. It becomes a personal value judgement. You may only find out you made the wrong choice for yourself after you’ve passed the point of making a different choice. Such is life.

felixwhynot, in SAD light location and use for programmers?
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From what I’ve read, simply increasing the brightness of your living spaces can help. I’ve got some LED “corn bulbs” in a lamp next to my desk and in the living room. I like the Dragon Light brand.

corsicanguppy, in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

chef’s kiss perfect list.

bradorsomething, in Mickey Mouse is now public domain (Steamboat Willie specifically). What do you think we will see this year?

Steamboat dildies.

eightpix, in If humans went extinct, what would the Earth look like one year later?
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There’s a book on this topic, The World Without Us, by Alan Weisman.

Nommer, in What's a useful mental model you've put into practice

You mean the terror I get from not knowing what is going to happen so I over plan and over estimate everything I’ll need is healthy? TIL

foggy, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

Make lists, get passionate, attack problems with vigor, but also know when to set them aside.

So often our goal is “c” and we’re at “a”, so naturally we try to get to “b” so we can get to “c”.

Then you find out there is an a.0.0.0, and an a.9.9.9

Most people give up before they get to b (where you find out there is a b.0.0.0 and a b.9.9.9)

It’s about noticing that the leap from a.6.9.0 to a.6.9.1 is taking too much effort. Book marking it, and moving onto another thing.

Its about being disciplined and orderly. Don’t let frustration cloud your vision or goal.

Sincerely, /c/selfhosted

ani, (edited ) in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

Reserve time for planning. Plan the next day the day before, the next week the week before, and so on. I recommend using the Get Things Done strategy.

Kolanaki, (edited ) in What are some of your cheap eats hacks?
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If you are forced to consuming mostly cheap packaged goods like Hamburger Helper and the like, add the secret spice blend to make it actually have some flavor:

Salt*, pepper, onion powder, garlic powder and MSG.

*Check the sodium levels already in the packaged food first; if it’s already high, you can ignore adding more.

These spices are cheap and make everything so much better. Even non-savory stuff sometimes benefits.

Azal, in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

Kidney stones, gallstones, whatever the fuck the body does of “Lets build a rock inside the body that can fuck us up” needs to stop.

mumblerfish,

Yeah, can we at least not have so many pain receptors in along the kidney and baldder tract?

corsicanguppy,

Disagree: when something’s wrong there, you really want to know.

Check back after I’ve passed a kidney stone, though, as experience may temper that!

APassenger,

Disassociate. And do it a lot.

Or have meds.

Cannot recommend and I’m sure mine was minor.

QuarterSwede, (edited ) in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?
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Financially I save for a 401K and have the company match it. Then online off of what’s left over.

As far as doing things, we plan for larger vacations and events out 1 year. If it’s a less costly or time consuming thing locally we plan those by the week or month.

We don’t do a lot spur of the moment. Keeps the cost down and we’re busy enough as it is with 3 kids.

can, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

I don’t :(

chaogomu,

OP missed the obvious, "obsessing pointlessly over the past" option.

claycle, (edited ) in What are some of your cheap eats hacks?

Cabbages, dried beans/peas/lentils, and collards. Learn to cook these “poor foods” in ways you like - they are cheap and plentiful and amenable to lots of different methods (cabbage, especially). Extend/bulk all the above with rice, farro, polenta, tortillas, or a solid southern cornbread recipe (not sweet and more cornmeal than flour).

I do both collards and beans in an instant pot (not together, though), which cuts down on mess and time. One of my favorite things to do with cabbage is make Kim chi or sauerkraut. Kraut is easier (and a little cheaper, it’s just cabbage, salt, and time) and opens up a realm of easy Euro-ish meals (kraut, lentils/potatoes, and sausages, for example, is highly economical, tasty, and filling).

Mango,

All of those things taste awful. Beans can be pretty ok at least.

YoorWeb,

Good stuff.

Also, kimchi, one word.

claycle,

I think that was autocorrect…for whatever reason in decided to capitalize Kim and separate chi…

Kase, in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

I have one: ingrown nails and nail infections can go fuck themselves.

I have had FIVE consecutive toe infections in the last 18 months or so. I’m so done with it lol.

But on a broader scale, some people die or lose limbs from stuff like this, so it’d be nice if that didn’t happen anymore.

DredUnicorn,

I had a problem with this, just got the nail removed, it was best decision I’ve ever made.

Kase,

Thanks for the advice! I have an appointment in a week to do just that :)

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