Surp,
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I legit see people do this on Facebook all the time.

Smoogs,

How do we define a good man?

FlyingSquid,
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I remember when it was a V for Vendetta Guy Fawkes mask. Times change, but laziness does not.

random_character_a, (edited )
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Criminals usually have history from early adulthood or even earlier and they aren’t that smart. When a good man really snaps and goes on a “mission”, he’s really hard to catch.

CADmonkey,

Christopher Dorner intensifies

Katana314,

I bring this up anytime someone’s opposed to common sense anti-violence laws, by reason of “That’s not hard to circumvent, criminals just won’t do this dumb thing”.

Criminals are often dumb. If they were smart, they’d quite often find ways to get ahead legally, or at the very least in ways that don’t disturb others’ peace of living.

UnrepententProcrastinator,

As a father of 4 boys, I find it sad that young men want a world on fire. There are a lot of good male role model out there, let’s promote them, seems that would be more conducive.

theblueredditrefugee,

I never had a good male role model growing up, so instead of being an asshole like my dad or anyone from church I just transitioned

UnrepententProcrastinator,

Which is fine too.

Wouldn’t wish it on my kids because of how society is. But happiness matters more.

theblueredditrefugee,

This was a half joke, the lack of male role model being solved by transitioning is kinda incidental, though it may have played a role because I didn’t identify with what I observed as the “male role”

UnrepententProcrastinator,

It’s an interesting idea. Personally, I like to explore what part of my behavior is reinforced gender performance and which part feels more like me.

FlyingSquid,
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Be that role model.

UnrepententProcrastinator,

Sure, up to a certain age where they develop their own interests you don’t share. Which is okay, I’m not there to hold their hand forever. Just long enough…

FlyingSquid,
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Being a role model is more about being a good moral guide. It doesn’t matter if you share their interests.

UnrepententProcrastinator,

What I meant is that there should be people in their life who can be both.

Katana314,

I’m writing this little fictional world for a set of stories, and had the idea to change over one of my “strong female role model explorer” characters to a guy; while keeping a number of less masculine traits. I just felt like it’s important for people to have more fictional characters in their demographic they want to look up to and imitate.

UNWILLING_PARTICIPANT,

It’s like this weirdly stifled cry for help, because they feel the need to be seen as hard while also REALLY wanting people to know that they’ve been through a LOT and a normal person would be hurting BAD but not them because they’re so TOUGH but please please also recognize how hard just existing is for them.

It’s a hedged cry for help.

Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

Kusimulkku,

Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

Easier said than done for some

CADmonkey,

Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

And watch the people who said they cared suddenly get real scarce.

I wish it wasn’t that way, and I’m happy it’s no longer that way for me. But there are people around you right now who know of they speak up, loved ones and friends will tell them “it’s no big deal” or “It’s all in your head” or my favorite, “man up”.

degen,

Brb, just making sure The Picard Maneuver isn’t in the student directory before I go to school tomorrow

li10, (edited )

The word cringe is thrown about too much, but unironically posting anything with a picture of Joker is the definition of cringe.

Edit: I am surprised how controversial this is, but I stand by it 🫡

samus12345,
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Sotuanduso,
nxdefiant,

Mask of the Phantasm Joker, excellent vintage.

lugal,

Hope you’re back on your normal routine already

dual_sport_dork,
@dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world avatar

And in really extreme cases they’ll go on BudK and buy a shit quality liner locking folder with “wHy So SeRiOuS???” carved into it.

pimento64,

No, in the really extreme cases they’ll buy a bulldozer and a shitload of concrete mix

FinalRemix,

And not hurt anyone, but make a helluva statement? Good.

root_beer,

There’s a hitler youth knife in there that might catch their eye if they’re pushed too far, when that tshirt with the skeleton biker holding the ace of spades in one hand and flipping the bird with the other isn’t enough

balderdash9,
THE_ANON,

Would be more of a shitpost if you posted one of those posts.

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