alekwithak, The Karen Generation.
Tischkante, Out of all movies with sex scenes in it, I only like the one in Crank.
DAMunzy, Yes, because it was funny as shit!
TheBat, H O R S E C O C K
Godort, I’m with Gen Z here. They’re absolutely right
MindSkipperBro12, Just feels awkward, uncomfortable, and unnecessary most of the time.
GoodEye8, I don’t feel like it’s awkward or uncomfortable, but I do hate it when it’s completely unnecessary. I don’t even care if the sex is unrealistic as long as it’s necessary for the plot. Just Chekhov’s gun that shit.
randomsnark, same tbh
CoderKat, Especially with many audiences. On your own or with a romantic partner it’s not nearly as bad, but watching a sex scene with pretty much anyone else feels so awkward, which pulls you out of the scene.
bullshitter, Amen , I am millenial and I too find it very uncomfortable. When I was young I was eagerly waiting for some hot scenes when porn was scarce but now anything remotely sexual iRRitates me.
FlyingSquid, Yep. 46 years old here and agree 100%. I find them gratuitous and awkward in a standard show or movie. And I have no problem with porn.
LucyLastic, Yup, especially as a gay, sex scenes in movies have always been “I’m fine with straight people existing, but I don’t want them rubbing my face in it” at best … and it’s rarely at best, with all the chemistry of a jar of nitrogen.
TheBat, Counterpoint:
MargotRobbie, I feel that the title of the article is misleading, as the poll in the article shows that Gen Z are turned off by gratuitous sex scenes that are not relevant to the plot, and not Gen Z suddenly turning into evangelical prudes. What they wanted is not the unrealistic, lazy, paint-by-number relationships as commonly depicted to stir controversy to drive engagement(a very cynical approach, I might add), but a full spectrum of different types of relationships good and bad, authentic in their depiction and sincere in their on-screen expression.
Note that the sincerity of expression doesn’t mean that the relationship depicted has to be good, or even genuine. For example, the sex scenes in “The Wolf of Wall Street” (you’re welcome, by the way) are important because they highlight that between Jordan and Naomi, there is nothing between the two besides money and sex, it’s shallow, materialistic, two selfish, toxic people using the other to get what they want, without which they can’t stand each other, in stark contrast with the genuine parental love that Naomi felt for her children, and it is the resolution of said contradiction which contributed to Jordan Belfort’s downfall.
FringeTheory999, I’m just sick of hollywood shoehorning a romance into every story. Not every story needs a romance, and most of the romances in movies are cliche and unnecessary.
FarFarAway, I’m not Gen Z and I hate the damn sex scenes. There was a minute there where netflix would just add one within 15 mins of every show or movie, even if they never showed another one again. It never added to the plot and seemed like it was just there to reel people in. But, it was obnoxious.
Glad they sort of stopped that, although I still find it happens now and again. Hopefully this puts the nail in the coffin.
Maybe I am a prude. So what!
NightOwl, It’s awkward seeing scenes like that unfold with other people like friends and family. Implying a scene and fading to black is more than enough. And I think many actors would be happier too not having to act out those scenes.
roo, Not a prude, and I still FF Netflix sex scenes.
Pyr_Pressure, Too many people tried to emulate the vulgarity of game of thrones. It worked in game of thrones, it doesn’t work everywhere.
captain_aggravated, Hmm. I haven’t really thought about it much. Why do I, a porn enjoying man from smack in the middle of the Millennial generation, dislike so many Hollywood sex scenes?
I would be interested in gathering some data, take a large sample of movies and TV shows made during my lifetime, and rate them as to why they’re in a film. What purpose do they serve in the story, what do they tell us about the characters…why is this here?
bus_factor, The issue for me isn’t the sex, it’s that the scene is irrelevant to the plot. If the sex is relevant to the plot I don’t mind, but when it’s obviously just slotted in to show tits, that’s annoying because it breaks immersion for me. It makes me think about the agenda behind adding that scene instead of thinking about the story I’m watching.
Obvious product placement is kind of in the same category for me. Like Will Smith in I, Robot spending 5 minutes of the movie super excited about receiving some “vintage 2004 Converse All Stars”. Like, the movie is set in 2035, but you just had to find a way to plug this year’s model of some shoes. Sure, those shoes have looked the same since forever, but the 2004 ones were just something else, man!
LucyLastic, Then he gets into his Audi (everyone else is driving Audis too), and then out of his Audi, then back in his Audi, and so on. Audi.
i_simp_4_tedcruz, I just hate the wet noises that accompany it. Same thing with kissing scenes where they have a shotgun mic basically inside their mouths. It drives my sensory issues up a wall.
DessertStorms, (edited ) Sensory processing disorder gang represent lol
(no-mance ftw for other reasons too, but that's the biggest)
DAMunzy, Macaroni and cheese time!
Smoogs, It’s the same sound track they use for the walking dead when they are walking through the guts of zombies.
Queue the giant slurp at the end as the last noodle gets sucked in. And then the ‘ah’ gasp.
WuTang, strange, I thought it was aimed at them, hence the shitty Netflix billboard that I am impossible to scroll with my kids around and tbh, I feel also this shit as an aggression, like ads.
masquenox, Generation Xer here… I, too, find the enforced “made-by-numbers” romance and sex cringy, superfluous and utterly banal.
Smoogs, Same. 100% on the nose.
lightnsfw, It’s not the sex. It’s the cringy romantic bullshit typically surrounding it where everyone treats each other like shit for the sake of drama.
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lightnsfw, I suspect that is true as well. Most of the really dramatic girls I’ve known have been super into romcoms and reality TV. If not causing the behavior they are at least reinforcing it.
LaunchesKayaks, I hate sex scenes in movies. By far the worst sex scene I’ve seen was sthe end of Sausage Party. I felt physically ill from it. I watched the movie with my parents and they thought my disgust was hilarious. Now I rarely watch movies other than superhero movies with them.
DrMango, That whole movie was just absolute dog water. There’s are good ways to do lowbrow comedy and then there’s Sausage Party.
LaunchesKayaks, It’s one of two movies that I actually regret watching.
SlowNoPoPo, I watched a few movies from the 80s and 90s recently, and there are so many cringy and unnecessary sex scenes in those movies it’s absolutely insane
then the boomers try to act like the youth have a sex problem
LaunchesKayaks, I can’t watch many movies from the 80s and 90s because of the cringe sex scenes. My parents think that time was the best time for movies and they’re just wrong lol
Dkarma, I mean idt they’re talking about cartoon hot dog sex in the article, but fair…
LaunchesKayaks, It’s still absolutely disgusting tho
Evotech, Meanwhile, one of the most popular show recently was euphoria
riskable, That show wasn’t popular with Gen Z though. How do I know this? Gen Z doesn’t watch HBO (they can’t afford yet another streaming service and they’re too lazy to pirate anything that isn’t anime because it’s too inconvenient).
nave, I would say HBO’s core demographic is probably about 25 to 54, but ‘Euphoria’s’ target is probably 12 to 29,” Edgerton said. “HBO shows are this sort of high-end, exclusive programming, but they’re going to have to appeal to more viewers than they ever did before, and they’ve done a pretty good job so far.”
Th4tGuyII, I can get behind this. I can't even remember the last time I saw a sex scene in a movie that needed to be there - it just makes for an awkward moment.
If I wanted to see a sex scene, I'd just watch porn, not a movie where other stuff is meant to be happening.
Skua, I think the one in Blade Runner 2049 did a lot for the character of Joi in particular. But it's about the only example I can think of just now
bus_factor, Don Jon (2013) is about a porn addict, so having some sex scenes made sense there.
A Somewhat Gentle Man (2010) has a few sex scenes which are hilarious, and they really fit the vibe of the movie.
lightnsfw, Alternatively some of the porns that have other shit happening are pretty decent.
chemical_cutthroat, I have a standing wager with my friends that there has never been a filmed or written sex scene that needed to be included in the media. Talk about it, allude to it, show the ramifications of it, but there has never been one that needed to be there. Sex scenes are there to sell TnA, not to move the plot forward.
For an example of a close call. In A History of Violence, Viggo rapes his wife. This is about as close as you could come to a needed scene because it shows a wild character development, but if you were to cut the scene out entirely, you’d still get all of the character development that he gets from the scene, anyway, rendering it useless.
koberulz, By this logic there has never been a scene of any kind in any movie that needed to be there.
chemical_cutthroat, Have you seen Biodome?
brewbellyblueberry, That’s the point, like, read a book, dork!
Zoboomafoo, The only scenes that matter are the load bearing ones, apparently
captain_aggravated, I’m trying to imagine Zach and Miri Make A Porno without any sex scenes in it.
dumptruckdan, Sounds good to me and I'm a couple letters behind Gen Z. Either the scenes don't do anything for me, in which case they're boring, or they do something for me, in which case...what do I do when it's over? Do I pause and go take care of it, or sit there all hot and bothered while somebody talks about business stuff or getting the bad guys or whatever? Either way it's annoying. And I'm no prude, it's just, if I want to see sex I'll just watch porn. But I'm not watching porn, I'm trying to watch a story. IDK. It's like if the mall decided every store needed a stripper pole.
Teon, I see you have been visiting the mall I work at. :)
Send_me_nude_girls, I like your example. I agree, even as a pretty perverted person.
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