It’s not that expensive, I did it for $400 amicably. We had a fun time while married and I don’t regret it. Why not just make it easier for people to do what they want and not punish young people for making decisions.
With exceptions… I busted healing with speccing Shadowheart as a life domain cleric and picked up some gear along the way - would not have made it through the game without my dedicated healer.