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HikingVet

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HikingVet,

Ah yes, domestic abuse jokes…

HikingVet,

Getting upset that your romantic partner doesn’t chase you to apologise is childish. Retaliation for not behaving in a way you want them to crosses the line. Both of which are demonstrated in this meme.

Should the person starting the PlayStation have done what they have done? Fucked if I know, as it’s situational. But the emotional manipulation thats incoming (or physical violence towards the gamer or their equipment) is heavily implied.

And that’s only if the argument was for something minor.

HikingVet,

Oh, you think only men can be the bad person in this situation?

HikingVet,

Disney would have the list. They decanonised all but the movies and other properties they got with lucasfilms. They have expanded the list, but I haven’t looked at it.

HikingVet, (edited )

Well, the tactic seems to work to some extent.

HikingVet,

If you acknowledge one side as worse than another it isn’t centrist. That would be taking a position.

The fence sitting of centrists say both sides are bad and not dealing with issues is why centrists are hated. They don’t offer anything other than the ‘Both Sides’ argument.

At least that in what I have gathered my observations.

HikingVet,

Yeah, that raised an eyebrow for me too.

HikingVet,

Did you offer a third opinion or did you just call them both bad?

HikingVet,

Beacuse it is a trope used by the right to try and discredit opinions that oppose them by relying on a biased meme.

HikingVet,

No, the world is plenty complicated. You just appear to be only able to parse soundbite level media.

HikingVet,

Biggest issue with the article. NO male voices, and it’s repeating the same lines I have heard since the mid 00’s.

Now I acknowledge that there hasn’t been much movement on the dating front, but men are only half the problem, as they are only half the population.

They would change in a hurry as a group if they needed to, but men aren’t a monolith and neither are women.

You want men to be better, be better yourself. The article is garbage by saying men need to step up while not talking to them about the issues they face in the dating world. ESPECIALLY if they aren’t Hetronormative.

HikingVet,

Maybe we stop with top down one size fits all solutions to human interaction? The article is a good example of part of the problem, as it seems to exonerate one group while putting all the onus for change on the other. Mainly by it having essentially a single position from all them people that the author uses as sources and references and the narrow scope that they actually show.

HikingVet,

if men aren’t meeting women’s standards, then women should either be content to be single, hook up with other women, or reexamine how important romantic relationships are for them.

I take issue with the part that is bold and italisied. Not sure what you are saying, but it seems like a gross misunderstanding how people work.

HikingVet,

And there are women who still choose those men.

HikingVet,

Well, maybe they are looking in the wrong place. Or they just have unobtainable standards.

The article treats it like a onesided issue, which when you are dealing with people, it’s not. There isn’t an easy way of dealing with this issue and the ‘men bad’ vibe this article gives off isn’t adding to the solution. It doesn’t offer solutions, suggestions or even a second viewpoint.

HikingVet, (edited )

An article that wonders why people aren’t getting married says they went out and only asked one side what the problem was. 🤔

Doesn’t even seem balanced…

Edit: as a romance favourable aroace, the dating world was a nightmare, even if you do everything “right”. Which is why I no longer look to find companionship.

Do better or not, there are garbage people in all genders and the prevailing “men bad” when it comes to dating is just as toxic as what the men are doing.

The article also doesn’t suggest any possible solutions.

HikingVet,

Well, considering dating takes at least 2 people (depending on how you live your life, and yes non-monagamy and polyamory are vaild), asking only one group is incredibly biased.

HikingVet,

Self hate is a thing that exists.

HikingVet,

Actually being aroace makes me anything but normal, but go on about my lived experience…

HikingVet, (edited )

Please explain how this isn’t a bigoted point of view

Ms. Kearney, for example, acknowledges that improving men’s economic position, especially men without college degrees, is an important step toward making them more attractive partners.

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