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Cowbee, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

I prefer social media not based on addiction. Lemmy has been much better for my lifestyle, than my reddit addiction.

MycelialMass,

So true, lemmy provides me with just enough stuff to feel like I saw enough memes, got some news, etc. but then I can just put it down and do other stuff. My interneting / doomscrolling is waaay lower than it was before.

crawancon,

this is an excellent point. perhaps the slowness of the content here is helping those of us who’ve been on reddit forever and are used to just doom scrolling through endless content.

i spend less time here but I feel I get more direct ‘value’ when I do. it’s more small business feel than condy nast breathing margins down the user community’s throats(pre and post gold eras)

I quit the R word cold turkey re: API and now toggle between this and kbin but lemmy with eternity app has been the best baconreader withdrawal breaker for me.

to the fediverse and beyond!

Cowbee,

Yep! Great points!

Another big point is that it’s a rejection of the profit motive, ie there’s not even a “small business” feeling like you say for me, but a far more genuine feeling. Nobody has tried to sell me anything here yet.

crawancon,

you’re right, but I have seen some of the hustles from outside setting up shop here.

if the audience becomes large enough, there will be marketing.

unfortunately inevitable

Potatofish, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

There are too many dimwits who think Lemmy was made so that they can build their echo chambers. So, there is no discourse, just stupid people encouraging stupid people. Anyone that comments otherwise is immediately removed.

Most mods are dumdums. Most are obviously politically and ideologically motivated. It’s their job to prune anything they disagree with, which means they can’t help themselves and ban everyone. Most of the time it’s a complete waste of time to comment in smaller subs. The dumdums have taken hold either by making the subs and controlling them, or by volunteering as mods with no oversight.

idiocracy,

Like in real life, the people wanting to be in charge are usually the people who should not be in charge.

Gorilladrums,

Funny enough, this is the same exact reason why Reddit sucks. Those same idiots who made that platform insufferable have migrated here and made this already insufferable place even more insufferable.

jerkface,
@jerkface@lemmy.ca avatar

You have been banned from c/pyongyang

isthereanydeal,

Last week there was a woke-not-woke argument in certain StarTrek post that was like one quite moderate guy against 1000 angry people. At least in reddit there was some debate posible and it was respectful for the most part, here you get dilapidated before even be able to explain yourself. Lemmy is too politically driven as you said. And that’s insufferable.

Rodeo, (edited )

Six months ago lemmy was infinitely better than reddit in that regard. It’s gotten worse because people from Reddit are here now, and brought their idiocy with them.

Potatofish,

Idiocy is not exclusive to Reddit. Different Lemmy servers were born based solely on stupidity.

rab,

And it’s actually the worst people from reddit, imo

Acoltc,

Fully agree

isthereanydeal, (edited )

I don’t think is the bad people of reddit but the people Who want to fight that found lemmy as a mean to clash with reddit … but once here is not about fighting but make it flourish and build community so… maybe people is unable to stop clashing everywhere. Fight is the nature of … that people.

isthereanydeal,

I can understand why. Maybe is just a matter of time and things will be OK after a while.

SoloboiNanook,
mayo_cider,
@mayo_cider@hexbear.net avatar

If everyone else disagrees with you, it might be time to do some self-reflection

Or blame politics, it’s the easy option when cognitive dissonance becomes overbearing

isthereanydeal,

I tend to think that : where there is a ton of people that adopt an aggressive and absolute position against you there’s a ton of people silent that are afraid or tired of fighting against a tide ( or is caloric economy) . I agreed somehow with the guy but I didn’t say a thing to avoid the pain.

And to be honest this Star Trek thing is going on and on since some years ago so no… imho is not something clear or absolute.

Politics REALLY are ruining a lot of things nowadays.

SplashJackson, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

I like turtles. Can we have more turtle-centric content?

isles,

Be the change.

crawancon,

nothing is stopping you friend!

Gorgritch_umie_killa,

I know your joking, but can i hijack your comment a bit. Your comment kind of reflects my thoughts when i joined Lemmy.

I like Perth, so I made that my ‘thing’ to contribute to Lemmy. So I echo the other commentor, “be the change”, and have a ‘thing’ that you do here.

It’s helped me stay way more engaged, and have way more fun on here than I ever did on Reddit. If it’s turtles cool! If its something else, also cool!

sock, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

lemmy still isnt nearly as good as reddit was by a long shot. niche communities suck, porn sucks, c/all content isnt bad but if you scroll once youll just repeat everything on refresh.

but god damn the reddit app is terrible now and the content sucks there now too it literally feels like its trying to be a tik tok clone.

dullbananas,
@dullbananas@lemmy.ca avatar

Quit porn

sock, (edited )

this is a crazy take to make from my comment but i respect ur grind ig

but no, porn and jerking off is good for you abstaining has no benefits and never will. and i can confirm im much healthier and far more shredded than youll ever be.

troyunrau,
@troyunrau@lemmy.ca avatar

Pro-tip: sort All by New Comments. Yes, if you refresh, you get repeat content, but you also find the unusual stuff and the repeated stuff is where the conversations are happening.

ieightpi,

And when reddit was at its best, it took years to gather those user numbers. I just dont understand why people keep missing this point.

Schmeckinger,

Lemmy isn’t on an upwards trend.

ieightpi,

Of a few months…?

Schmeckinger,

The problem is that this is a spiral. Less users results in less content and smaller communities dying, which in turn leads to less users.

iemgus,

Since the fall of reddit, I feel like I don’t know how to internet anymore.

LemmyKnowsBest,

I miss the good ol’ days when everyone on the planet was free to make their own unique websites using JavaScript and HTML. Now all we have is google twitter tiktok instagram LinkedIn

rab,

You can still do that, just your website will never be seen because it won’t come up on search engines

RandomVideos, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

People are leaving lemmy because of the quality of the apps

They are used to using a terrible app that often breaks and spams you with notifications of random posts

mihor,

Notifications should be banned by law.

RandomVideos,

Cant you just not allow notifications? They can be useful

mihor,

In majority of cases they’re abused to keep users engaged.

zyratoxx, (edited ) to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?
@zyratoxx@lemm.ee avatar

Tbf, I have like 7 accounts and I’m currently only using 2 or 3 since Lemmy servers are much more stable than they used to be

IzyaKatzmann,

i have 2, syncing accounts some way between instances (maybe subscribe lists) would be nice.

Chetzemoka,

Oh I hadn’t even thought of that. I have two accounts because when I started using Boost for Lemmy, my home instance wasn’t supported, so I signed up for startrek.website.

My old account would appear to be an inactive user in the numbers, which is not really accurate. But also it means that bump in users that happened during the reddit exodus was partially driven by duplicate sign ups.

mtchristo, (edited ) to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

We should be more active to keep this ship afloat. Don’t be stingy with the comments.

Edit: spelling

RobertOwnageJunior,

This!

bignate,

and this!!

crystalmerchant,

so much this!

Browning,

COMMENTS!

voodooattack, (edited )

Ok. I’m convinced.

interdimensionalmeme,

You mean stingyv not stringy

But if I give my opinion on Pokemon’s, my server will get defederated, so I’ll keep quiet.

tetris11, (edited ) to comicstrips in Lifeguard - Anton Gudim
@tetris11@lemmy.ml avatar

Some of those who sport swimwear,
Are the same whose mom’s chin flare

(I couldn’t make this work I tried I’m sorry)

MeDuViNoX,
@MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works avatar

… Are the same whose mom’s have chin hair?

tetris11,
@tetris11@lemmy.ml avatar

it just doesn’t flow :-(

nuez_jr,

… Are the same who ride high chairs! UGNH!

tetris11,
@tetris11@lemmy.ml avatar

Booom! Great solution

phorq, to comicstrips in Lifeguard - Anton Gudim

“Everybody, here comes the plane, out of the water because I’m gonna need 30 minutes to digest…”

instamat, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

I mostly lurk so this is me being proactive!

tyfon,

I also mostly lurk, but I logged in to post now. I don’t think the goal should be too be as big as possible, but a place of better discussions.

Churbleyimyam,

Currently imagining a community that is only a place for lurkers to post in.

Microw,

Squabbles had a community called “Lurkers_Anon” for that specific purpose. Was great! I would love to see something like that on Lemmy!

Churbleyimyam,

Haha what sort of thing were people posting on it?!

Microw,

Mainly encouraging each other to post things, and Twitter-like Posts about things happening in their lifes

crawancon, (edited )

I’m doing my part!

(starship troopers.jpg)

GTG3000, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

Less content, that is spread across multiple instances that can have duplicate communities.

You just can’t keep doomscrolling here, the “active” search repeats all the time and the “best of the day” is like two pages.

And then there’s specific communities that just… Stayed on Reddit.

Lt_Cdr_Data,

It’s not just that. Most people here are into far left, anti-capitalist bs and people don’t care to deal with that

Alfonsio,

I like it here because of the far left anti-capitalist bs. The internet is full of edgy incel nazis and it’s pretty relieving to have some safe spaces 🤷‍♂️

Cowbee,

People clearly support that, and it makes sense, considering Lemmy’s founder is a Communist and decentralization appeals to Leftists.

spectre,

Yeah if that’s a bad vibe to someone Lemmy might not be the best fit.

Acoltc,

And that’s why it is losing users.

spectre,

Yeah, quality of community over quantity, it’s a non-issue.

EvolvedTurtle,

I actually like lemmy for the fact I can’t doom scroll Makes it easier to put down and touch grass

Cowbee,

Yep, it’s been a massive improvement for me over Reddit on that end. No more doomscrolling, no more literally endless fights with strangers (still some ofc, but grass touching is back on the menu).

GTG3000,

Well, perhaps that is healthier.

But it doesn’t trap eyeballs.

gohixo9650,

Less content, that is spread across multiple instances that can have duplicate communities.

on top of that, there redundant communities that are unnecessary even in the same instances. For example there is the android@ and the askandroid@. The first one has a decent amount of subscribers while the second one has a single digit number. I wanted to ask a question, I posted in the first one since it would make sense to reach more people. The post got deleted and I was told to go to the other one. In the first one they were posting only news articles.

This is ridiculous. Splitting communities in such way was the result of the huge traffic that such communities had in the past in other platforms. This makes sense only when the traffic is so huge that it is practically chaotic to navigate and moderate between news/articles and support questions. When both communities combined have 50 subscribers, such split only harms the platform and the users.

Everyone wanted to migrate by bringing an identical environment to what they had used to. However this should be adaptable to the current situation instead of directly copying it.

GTG3000,

I think some people expected their entire community to get up and move.

spectre, (edited )

The post got deleted and I was told to go to the other one. In the first one they were posting only news articles

Ill call it garbage reddit-brain moderation. The reason for an /ask~ comm is cause your main comm is flooded with repeated questions that would stifle discussion. It’s also not a good solution to that problem, not too mention they don’t have enough users to be having that problem.

The way you form a community is to discuss the same things over and over until a hivemind develops, it’s a good thing to have a group consensus, not that individuals can’t disagree. Now the crappy moderation is gonna cultivate a crappy subreddit vibe instead of something better.

bignate,

I actually found that I really like the “hot” scrolling so much better. On Reddit, everything I came across had ~hundreds of comments and everything was multiple hours old. I didn’t feel like I could contribute at all. But here… it feels a lot smaller, and most of the “hot” posts are not rubbish, so I feel like I can actually contribute!

GTG3000,

Well for me, the real content of Reddit was finding an interesting thing and then reading a few dozen comments from people really in the know.

Here it’s going to be a dozen top-level comments and maybe one of them will have a thread longer than three messages.

MargotRobbie, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

Let’s look at some numbers and do some napkin math:

Currently, the top post of Lemmy can usually get a little more than 2K upvotes, which puts Lemmy at about late 2010 to early 2011 reddit level of activity, which is right before reddit hits its explosive growth phase in 2012 with SOPA, Kony, and the Obama AMA. While active user count has been going down, the amount of post and comments have both been steadily going up.

You also have to realize that in more than a decade, there was never a reddit alternative that has EVER hit this level of activity. (unless you count 9gag or the_donald for some reason.)

AusatKeyboardPremi,

That is a very astute observation, and I would not worry about the temporary decline for this very reason.

Also, looking at your username… https://piped.video/watch?v=Mo-ddYhXAZc

MargotRobbie,

That’s esteemed Academy Award nominated character actress Margot Robbie to you!

rmuk,

Not to be confused with Esteemed Character Actress Margo Martindale?

cristalcommons,

i am hopeful still. and i prefer this to be quieter and hence, safer, honestly. personally, i am not an active user because i’m the type of person that feels shame just for existing, but internet is helping me socialize. still not to the point of having something useful to say without wanting to delete it immediatly, but when i see these posts, i automatically get strenght to give my support. i am not able to maintain a community, be a mod, i don’t know how to code, i just can post supportive messages or be a helpful user adding resources and so. but i should be doing more, yep. i am ashamed of posting, but not contributing probably would be more shameful haha sorry people… hehe

crystalmerchant,

lol forgot about fucking KONY

wonder what that ol’ fella is up to these days!

(is he dead? he’s dead isn’t he?)

Waluigis_Talking_Buttplug,

My hypothesis is user account consolidation. I made several accounts across multiple instances (to deal with outages) but now only use a couple of them. So maybe people are not using their alts as much

Hubi,

You also have to realize that in more than a decade, there was never a reddit alternative that has EVER hit this level of activity.

That is a very important point that doesn’t get mentioned enough. Lemmy is the largest and most active reddit alternative around. All the other sites that tried to capitalize on the API disaster have laughable numbers of users and most posts rarely have more than 10 votes or interactions.

troyunrau,
@troyunrau@lemmy.ca avatar

How’s kbin doing? Granted they federate with Lemmy so it’s like asking about an instance. But not quite the same

imaqtpie,

Kbin is doing pretty well, they are still holding on to about 6,000 MAUs. Lemmy still has around 32,000, for comparison. Lemmy peaked around 66,000 MAUs at the end of July, but a big chunk of that was probably alt accounts that have since gone dormant.

Kbin’s main developer had some major IRL events that coincided with the reddit exodus so he wasn’t really able to do much work on the code for a while. But now he is back, and another team has also made a fork of kbin called mbin.

kbin.social/u/ernest

Federation is still pretty janky with kbin, so I think that activity should pick up on both sides once we get some software updates and more intermingling of the kbin and Lemmy userbases.

OP is also spot on about this being the largest that a reddit alternative has ever gotten. I’m pretty sure alternatives such as discuit, squabble, tildes, etc have never even approached 10k MAUs, so we are already well past that. If not for the fact that this platform is federated, there would probably already be much more activity. However, the federated structure should become more and more useful as we grow larger, so it’s a worthy sacrifice even if it’s stunting activity for the time being.

dlok, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

I begrudgingly installed the Reddit app yesterday as I missed the content.

I think I gave cold turkey lemmy only long enough to give it a fair chance at filling that gap but now I browse both again now :/

Donkter,

Honestly it feels good to read the “end” of Lemmy occasionally. It reminds me that I spend a lot of time on this app (and used to spend more time in reddit) and forces me to close it and do something else, even if it’s just to open a non-social media app.

dlok,

I get that, it’s just it’s only good for certain topics and anything more niche or casual isn’t well represented. This place did get me into Linux again though haha.

redcalcium,

Don’t use the official Reddit app. Instead, grab the last release apk of Sync for Reddit from apkmirror, then use revanced manager to patch it with your own api key (and probably patched out the ads while you’re at it).

See this guide for more info.

dlok,

I’ll take a look, main reason I moved to Lemmy was because of sync as it’s what I was used to.

LatteWiiU,
@LatteWiiU@pawb.social avatar

Thanks dude

FrasseFisk, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

We need more idiots who can comment “this” on everything

chromeo,

Thizz

bignate,

this

yoz,

+1

yoz,

This

crawancon,

this.

TIN,

And my axe!

Karyoplasma,

this

SwingingTheLamp,

I, too, choose this guy’s wife.

onlooker,
@onlooker@lemmy.ml avatar

dis

Supermikea,

This

randomivysaur,

psstthis

rmuk,

I’m sure it won’t just be anot- why, you little scamp!

thechadwick,

I completely disagree. What this place needs is a bunch of bot accounts that endlessly spam the top comments from when whatever’s posted was on the front page last week.

Or the week before that I guess…

notepass,

Gonna build spezify_bot which will do that, copy over comments and comment “this” and “finally someone said it!” below the top comments. Maybe even some “I came here to say this, too!” at some points?

gohixo9650,

This!

TheWanderer,

This

stebo02,
@stebo02@sopuli.xyz avatar

i second this

Supermikea,

I third this

Dewbs84,

That?

Scolding7300,

I turd

rmuk,

I shidded and farded.

OsrsNeedsF2P,

This

greeny, to memes in Why? Are we not doing enough?

I love it here

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