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phoenixz, to asklemmy in for the Reddit refugees, do you also feel a bit heartbroken?

12 years of reddit. It will take some time to adjust but I also switched from google to duckduckgo years ago after decades of google, and then too never looked back. Lemmy does need a LOT of work, still, but so did reddit in the early days…

To those working on Lemmy, please don’t fuck this up for us. Don’t be a spez.

Ataraxia,
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It’s also up to us not to fuck this up. Let’s not turn this into a toxic hate-filled dystopia lol.

phoenixz,

That will happen nonetheless, when more people start coming in. Its something that will just have to be managed.

On the other hand, I do hope that here on lemmy we will stop just kicking anybody with an opinion that we don’t like. That will only cause echo chambers where everybody will repeat the same stupid opinions that will only get more extreme. We will have to listen to those that we don’t agree with.

gonzo0815,

I’m sorry but no. I don’t have to listen to Nazis. If they are allowed here, it will drive me and a lot of other people away. We had more than enough “free speech” experiments now. It always ended in these platforms being an insufferable cesspool of Nazis, conspiracy theorists, incels etc. and all sane people were driven away. It doesn’t work. These people need to be deplatformed, that is the only way.

phoenixz,

I respectfully disagree.

First of all, on Reddit I rarely ran into right wing extremists. Do you know who I ran into a LOT? Left wing extremists. That is what tends to happen when you start polarizing discussions (both sides) and then kick out one side. The other side just becomes an echo chamber.

Second of all, this is not a problem you can ignore. Its not as if these people just magically disappear into thin air once you ban them. You can’t deplatform them because they’ll just go to another place. Where will they go? To their own moderated places, which will allow much more extreme discussions, leading to more and more polarization and problems in the real world. I think part of the problem here is that we (collectively) stopped listening to people in minor disagreements, and instead of having reasoned arguments, just kicked these people out to the curb. I honestly think that that sort of behavior from the left side of the spectrum is what fueled US polarization which culminated in Donald Trump becoming president.

You may not want to have reasoned discussions with people who are more on the right side of your political spectrum, but you HAVE to. We all have to because if we don’t, they will talk only amongst themselves and they will only fall deeper and deeper into their right wing pit. Have no illusion, the same goes for left wing extremism. Extremism on that end might still be milder, but its there alright.

I’d rather have a group of people with a few minor-and-controllable nutcases in it than a conform-with-the-rules group, and a group of dangerous terrorists outside that group.

gonzo0815,

There are examples where this was tried. It doesn’t work. People who disagree with Nazis leave the platforms, so the result is the same.

phoenixz,

The problem is that there are no Nazis. Nazi’s stopped existing in 1945, anything after that are people that sympathize with some or all of its ideologies. The problem is that its a sliding scale and people these days are VERY trigger happy to call out NAZI! I’ve been called a Nazi on Reddit (and banned from multiple sub reddits) for literally arguing that I’m not sure how good an idea it is to give puberty blockers to kids that might be trans, specially because these blockers do have consequences later in life.

Great, now I’m a Nazi, apparently? Should I be banned now?

When IS a person a Nazi?

I’ve talked a LOT on reddit, I had over 130K karma over probably the same amount of messages. I don’t recall talking to Nazi’s much, if ever. I have had quite a few deep discussions with people on the far right part of the spectrum and it helped me a lot understanding them, where they come from, and why they have the ideas that they have. I call that progress. You can listen to somebody and politely agree to disagree.

What you are pushing for tends to end in censorship. Can’t talk about naughty things now! Can’t disagree with the masses! All look in the same direction! Don’t dare to step out of line!

It also ends in situations where douchenozzles like Trump become president of the USA because the right feels like they no longer have a voice (which truthfully, is correct), so push back harder and extremer.

We MUST allow dissenting voices. Yes, if somebody scants “KILL THE JEWS!”, you ban him of course. But if there is a conversation happening about, say, the “US bathroom issues” I think we should allow dissenting voices. As long as the conversations are respectful and thoughtful, the worst that could happen is progress.

gonzo0815,

You can theorize about semantics all you want, but don’t try to gaslight someone who was physically attacked by actual, real Nazis, who describe themselves as Nazis and can’t be seen as anything but Nazis.

phoenixz,

TL;DR: You create neo-nazi’s.

Nazi’s are members of the Nazi party. Nazi’s, like the party, no longer exists. What does exist are Neo-Nazi’s. Semantics, perhaps, but when talking about “Nazi’s”, details become important. With that in mind, I wonder if you can tell a little more about who attacked you how?

In any case, I’m not theorizing nor gas lighting you. I’m talking about actual and serious problems that exist because of what you want.

I’ve been called a Nazi multiple times by, well frankly, by people like you. Why? Because I disagreed with them. Our disagreement here, for example, would be enough to call me a Nazi. I’ve been banned from multiple subreddits because of that. What happens here is that people with differing opinions get pushed away to places where they get pushed more and more in right extremist corners. What you want ends up in people getting more extremist. If you want to resolve that, if you want to avoid being attacked by neo-nazi’s, then talk to people before they become extreme…

Gatsby,

I’ve been banned from multiple subreddits because of that. What happens here is that people with differing opinions get pushed away to places where they get pushed more and more in right extremist corners. What you want ends up in people getting more extremist. If you want to resolve that, if you want to avoid being attacked by neo-nazi’s, then talk to people before they become extreme…

This sounds like a threat

If you’ve been banned specifically because of people thinking you’re a nazi, and you’re arguing getting banned will push people to farther extremes, brother thats not a good look.

linker3000, to askelectronics in Welcome to AskElectronics

Well, I've closed the windows, turned off the lights and locked the door over at r/askelectronics (sub is now private). Let's see how this unfolds...

Dandylion, to asklemmy in Lemmy, what do you call users of Lemmy?

Lemmons

Torty, to asklemmy in Lemmy, what do you call users of Lemmy?

I tried transforming the word Lemmy in the same way as demonyms for countries ending in Y just to see how it'd shake out.

Anything calling to anyone? 😅

Germany -> Germans -> Lemmans

Para/Uruguay -> Para/Uruguayans -> Lemmyans

Muscovy -> Muscovites -> Lemmites

Hungary -> Hungarians -> Lemmians

Norway -> Norwegians -> Lemmegians?

Turkey -> Turks? -> Lemms?

d4r1us_drk,
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Lemmites is the best one

Lizardonis, to asklemmy in For everyone new to Lemmy, how are you finding the experience?

I was new to Reddit (3 weeks of activity), and switching to Lemmy is a bit confusing. But one evening is enough to learn the basics, I hope. Let’s keep it rolling. :)

tbe, to electronics in Welcome to Electronics

Thanks for starting a new home for the community ☺️.

Do we like emojis here or rather not? :D

Krististrasza,

As long as a strict limit of one emoji per paragraph is kept and we don't make posts look like MLM invites.

CircuitGuy,
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I used to think emojis were odd, but now I really like them. They are so clear. I can't read emotions from faces, except for emotional vs not emotional. But emojis are easier. I wish people looked more like emojis. 😊

DavideAndrea,

Do we like emojis

Personally, I don't use them. Other than that, I have no opinion. Do you like emojis?

tbe,

It actually depends, on longer posts they somehow disturb the reading flow for me (because they are kind of distracting compared to plain text). For short comments on the other hand I like them and find them rather refreshing.

JustEnoughDucks,

Personally I think that in the modern age they add what is missing from text conversations: intonation.

If you are sarcastic, joking, serious, etc... it can add a lot of social context.

Faceman2K23,
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I don't mind emojis if they are used properly. just that replying with a block of 100 emojis is spammy. so is replying with a single emoji.

Quintus, to asklemmy in for the Reddit refugees, do you also feel a bit heartbroken?
@Quintus@lemmy.ml avatar

Not Reddit but I feel sad for Aaron Swartz. What a monster his creation became. Thankfully Lemmy exists to fill Reddit’s place.

thx1138,

I think Aaron would have appreciated the fediverse.

ZenkorSoraz, to asklemmy in Lemmy, what do you call users of Lemmy?

Lemmings

spiffyhippo,

This is the way

Ultra980, to asklemmy in Lemmy, what do you call users of Lemmy?

I saw someone suggest lemons lol

Intrepid_Corvid, to dadsplain in Thank you!
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Absolutely, it was the best most positive place on Reddit. We need to keep it going forward.

sulcras,

I loved how even moms appeared there somtimes. No one felt excluded. Great community and it's how I found out about Bluey too.

Intrepid_Corvid,
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Oh for sure, and mommit wasn't the most understanding place so a lot of them just hung out with us Dad's lol.

fratermus, to asklemmy in How are we going to pay for all this?
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edit: misposted comment - see bizarre explanation below (and it’s not just me)

  • westworld - lovely visuals
  • alias - excellent theme music
  • bojack horseman
michael,
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What lol

nrab, to linux in What distro(s) do you use?

NixOS everywhere (except for one server which I have yet to migrate from Rocky to NixOS)

ironveil, to linux in What distro(s) do you use?

Arch on everything, including servers. It’s just so easy to install everything via the AUR & configure everything easily. Plus the wiki is amazing. Although it is a pain to setup sometimes

argv_minus_one, to linux in What distro(s) do you use?

Debian. Several reasons:

  • It’s trustworthy.
  • It’s not going anywhere. Debian existed when I was a kid and it’ll probably still exist when I draw my last breath.
  • I know how to use it, since, once again, I’ve been using it since I was a kid.
  • It has all the desktop environments.
  • It fully supports systemd. I do not miss the unreliability, slowness, and complexity of what came before that. (Normally I wouldn’t mention this, but your former distro of choice exists solely for the purpose of not having systemd, so it’s relevant this time.)
deadsuperhero, to asklemmy in What kinds of things from reddit would you like to see Lemmy avoid as the user base grows?
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Massive amounts of cross-posting / re-posting of the same memes over and over again for klout farming. It’s seriously awful on Reddit.

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