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Piecemakers3Dprints, in What are some of the things you say / think to yourself when going through a hard time or dealing with uncertainty to help yourself along?
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Honestly? Something my little brother shared with me from our childhood. Apparently, it was during a hard time in his high school years. He came to me for advice, and what did I say?

“Life is pain. Get a helmet, Princess.”

I have no recollection of this, but he swears by it and says that it’s gotten him through some seriously rough times ever since, so I’ve started saying it to myself as well. Seems to work decently enough, and I like knowing that younger me had a supportive effect on the little bro like that. 🤗🥰

sociablefish,

is that second part a reference to something or what is it?

Piecemakers3Dprints,
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Best guess, I think the whole thing was a riff on the line from The Princess Bride, actually. 🤓

prole, in How do I learn to detect logical fallacies in a conversation?

I know it sounds dismissive, but I would get an Introduction to Logic and Reasoning textbook, and read it and attempt the problems. The internet is great, and you can get a lot from wikis, but you’re not going to beat the amount of useful info condensed into a book like that. The problems will also help you apply the knowledge. Also, since logic doesn’t generally change much over time, you don’t need to worry about getting the most up to date edition.

The only way to really get good at detecting fallacious arguments is practice.

Kolanaki, in What event did you miss that saved your life
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I guess it didn’t necessarily save my life, but I decided not to go to a party where the host was shot in the head by some random gang bangers who showed up. Victim was a friend of mine and invited me. I didn’t feel like going out tho. He didn’t even die. But he wasn’t really the same person after that.

Chainweasel, (edited )

A similar situation myself, I was supposed to go see a concert at the Alrosa Villa in Columbus, Ohio in 2004, but backed out because I was a senior in high school and my parents refused to let me skip school on a Thursday to go to a concert 2hrs away on a Wednesday night.
There was a shooting that night that killed Dimebag Darrell.

hahattpro, in What online games can be played by 2 users?

So you need at least 2 player, or only 2 player?

heyfrancis,
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only 2 players, but it’s also ok if more users can be added

redballooon, in What does an ideal world look like to you?

When subscribing to already outlined worlds, I’d think living in the Culture (Ian Banks) sounds quite desirable.

The culture is run by extremely competent AI space ships, the Minds, all scarcity problems are solved, and the Minds not only make sure that all humans have a good place to live, but also animals, each according to their needs and desires.

Freeman, (edited ) in How do I learn to detect logical fallacies in a conversation?

What helped me: “Rationality Rules” on youtube had a video series (and even a tabletop game) about types of logical fallacies with the focus on religious apologetics.

And as you said: Upvotecount show whose opinion/argument is popular with the viewership. There can be a correlation with how sound the argument is logically.

workishell, in Lemmy, what are your "missed flight" stories?

This was 30+ years ago, but I misread my tickets and missed my original flight out of Tampa headed to Chicago with a stop in Atlanta. I rebooked another about 3 hours later, but when I got to Atlanta, I found out my original connecting flight to Chicago crashed in Indiana due to ice on the wings. That could have been me. RIP to those who made that flight.

LachlanUnchained, in What event did you miss that saved your life

Sometimes, it’s surprising how life unfolds. I remember back in my second year at boarding school, we were all set to return for another term, standing on the train station platform. Fooling around, we missed the train.

With no other options and perhaps a bit of youthful audacity, we found dads old ford and we ended up driving it all the way to school.

The car broke down, we almost got caught. Then crazily, we crashed into a famous tree on campus.

However, as wild as that was, missing that train might just have saved us.

We later found out that the Chamber of Secrets had been opened around the time we were meant to be on that train. A deadly monster, a Basilisk, was slithering around the castle, able to kill just by meeting your gaze.

Who’s to say we wouldn’t have bumped into it, had we made that train? With our track record of stumbling into trouble, it seems more than likely. It’s a chilling thought.

Xoxo Ron

Sebeck012,

Wow, that’s crazy! They should make a movie about it!

Omgarm,

I’d rather he would make a nicely structured story about it. Perhaps with some more characters. Maybe write all his years in boarding school.

kairo79,
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This is pretty much the most authentic story in this thread…

LachlanUnchained,

😂😂

Wander, in What are the bad patterns of Reddit to never repeat on Lemmy?
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I’d say people worrying about Karma.

sociablefish,

karma (or upvotes-downvotes aka simple karma) shouldn’t be a reason to disallow someone from using a lemmy community

deegeese,

Requiring minimum positive karma is stupid when it can be gamed so easily.

Someone with very negative karma is likely a troll.

royche,

this /s

Hazzia,

I get the objective need for the /s in this particular context, but we absolutely should add “using /s when the sarcasm should be obvious for anyone with basic reading comprehension skills” to the list

ShaggyDemiurge,
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I don’t agree, /s is immensely useful for neurodivergent people, some of which cannot recognize sarcasm at all.

Also, really often something that is “obvious sarcasm” for you is a genuinely held belief by someone online. Nothing is too ridiculous for the internet

WarmSoda,

Maybe internet forums aren’t the best place for people that can’t recognize context.

wildeaboutoskar,
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Why should we exclude neurodiverse people from a space when it’s easy enough to make it accessible?

givesomefucks, in Have you ever gotten scammed, package stolen, or been a victim of fraud in any way?

I once thought “Amazon refurbished” was a program by Amazon…

Turns out they just throw that label on random companies that refurbished on their own.

Bought a cellphone from one, they sent me the wrong phone model, and I paid for unlocked and they sent me one locked to a different carrier, then said that carrier was the most popular (it’s not) and they assumed it was what I wanted.

When I was complaining about that, they told me all I had to do was put it in a UPS drop box, explicitly told me I didn’t have to go to a store.

According to them, they never got the return.

I talked to Amazon, and their customer service just flat out lied and told me they could see the return was in transit.

Weeks later Amazon tried to charge me for the phone, and I had to do a charge back. Because apparently following the sellers instructions to put it in a drop off, meant I couldn’t prove I mailed it.

I have no idea if I was sent the wrong phone intentionally as a scam where they were always going to say they didn’t get the return, but it definitely felt like it by the end of it

average650,
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I would bet they just didn’t care if it was the right phone or not.

Nanenroe, in Lemmy, what are your "missed flight" stories?

Foreigner flying out of Chicago, and no one explained that the pass I was given at check in wasn’t my boarding pass. My flight is almost boarded before I realised that a seat number wasn’t printed on the pass. I went to the counter to find out what I’m supposed to do, and the flight had been overbooked.

Neither of these are normal where I’m from. You get the boarding pass with your seat when you check in, and flights are never deliberately overbooked.

SHITPOSTING_ACCOUNT, in What's the worst company ever. Period.

I’m sure there are worse, and it’s not one company, but the companies that provide malware to dictatorships are pretty bad, and western countries are sheltering them/not doing much about them.

Examples:

luthis,

Nice! I didn’t even consider digital terrorism

orca,
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Pegasus is bad news.

OceanSoap, in People from the "hotter" regions, how do you deal with the heat?

I’m in Phoenix. It was 112°f here today. It’s hot as balls.

However, I’m immensely more comfortable in this heat than I was when visiting Germany last summer when it was in the high 70’s. The difference is the humidity. I was constantly sweating, soaking everything while I was over there. Here? I get a little sweaty at 100°, sometimes. Our power infrastructure is pretty solid, so lots of air conditioner.

monobot,

Yes, current problem in Eastern Europe is not temperature but humidity, Dew Point to be precise it is 20-22C (~72F).

redballooon, (edited ) in what's something you watched because the poster made it look awesome and it turned out really lame?

Men in Black 1.

Maybe not exactly the poster, but the preview. It was awesome, quick and funny.

But then the movie was long, slow and not very funny aside the jokes that were already in the preview. But we had seen those often enough already. Disappointed

SpaghettiYeti, in Lemmy, what are your "missed flight" stories?

Hungover after my wedding. We took too long at the hotel breakfast and had to drive about an hour to get to the airport.

Tried to buy a new ticket at the airport for my honeymoon and the agent laughed at me. They don’t sell tickets at the airport… So I had to stand in front of them, buy a ticket on my phone, then approach the agent. Who knew?

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