What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?

I always loved browsing such posts on reddit, so thought I should make one on lemmy too

Edit: Usually these kind of posts only used to have excerpts from books or ancient proverbs, but now I am seeing a lot more quotes from shows/movies/games are also resonating with people. It’s pretty cool to see.

Nikki,
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“i have d cups grandma, the waitress thinks you have dementia”

StrikerMack,

“I understood that reference.”

Steve Rogers.

Also, I understood that reference. I quite like that quote and the story behind it.

ada,
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It’s not the first thought that comes to mind that matters, what’s important is what you after that

This was in the context of racism. I was raised in an racist environment, and I was struggling with the awful thoughts that had been indoctrinated in to me bubbling up when I encountered folk that were the target of that racism.

That quote helped me not be hung up on guilt and self flagellation, and instead to focus on being the person I want to be, rather than the person I was taught to be.

Sandman89,

We’re just happy to have you over here with us. 😄

dudebro,

I feel really bad for those children being brought up by racist parents.

They have two options: either acknowledge their parents for who they are, or don’t.

ada,
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My mum wasn’t racist. She’s the one who helped me see that racism isn’t just the way things are. But everyone else in my family, in my town, in the media… It was everywhere…

Vupperware,
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When camping, late at night, a buddy told another one of my buddies:

“If you can see my face, I can’t see anything”.

I thought it was hilarious and concise and it still sticks with me. If your flashlight is illuminating someone’s face, they are being blinded!

bob_lemon,

This extends to all kinds of directional light sources, notably headlights on cars and bicycles.

BigTechMustBurn,

“Ignorance is bliss.”

fckreddit, (edited )

"Compassion is priceless in the truest sense of the word. It must be given freely. In abundance. "- Steven Erikson.

“Religion was invented when the first con man met the first fool.” -Mark Twain

“You are too concerned what was and what will be. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called present.”- Master Oogway.

dudebro,

To be fair, religion is a much more abstract concept than people give it credit for.

Think early humans engaging in ‘shamanistic’ rituals (taking psychedelics) and trying to make sense of what they saw.

I believe a lot of the early interpretations of religion have just been bastardized by conmen and those who don’t care to understand the truth.

fckreddit,

I don’t doubt it. Too bad that it then became a tool of control, eventually.

wildcardology,

"It’s easy to grab a tiger by it’s balls, but it takes a real man to squeeze"

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bob_lemon,

“It’s really quite difficult to grab a tiger by its balls, but it takes an absolute moron to squeeze”

FTFY.

teawrecks,

“I never lose, either I win or I learn.”

As fluffy as this quote sounds, I always find it relevant. From taking on a difficult task at work, to getting past ladder anxiety in a video game. If you’ve ever executed on something so well that afterwards you felt like it was a waste of time, it might be. You didn’t get an opportunity to learn. Which reminds me of another relevant quote, “Losing is fun!”

NiTRo_SvK,

But don’t let that slip into toxic positivity, it’s natural to be upset about losing.

Nemo,

Natural is not always good. Being disappointed or frustrated are acceptable reactions; getting upset is not.

NiTRo_SvK,

Maybe poor choice of words on my part, sad would be better.

teawrecks,

Yeah for sure, we’re all allowed to have emotions. I just find this quote helps me process mine and maybe it will help others with theirs.

ophelia,
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People will rarely remember what you said, but always remember how you made them feel.

dudebro,

This is 100% true.

ophelia,
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“If you give someone enough rope, they eventually hang themselves”

Following this mantra has almost always worked out for me.

feck_it,

I wish my parents used that method too. I was a way too spoiled bright eyed summer child back then

Vupperware,
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I can’t help but feel pity when I see a child or teenager up to their waist in materialism and appearances.

Some day, many of those children will have a brutal awakening when the realize that they can’t live the way they did growing up forever.

fckreddit,

It’s called growing up. Everyone has to go through it. We did, they will. Pain is inevitable…

Spandex_Nightmare,

“Never interrupt your enemy when they’re making a mistake”

Yearly1845,

My dad always said

The hard way IS the easy way

And

Documentation is the name of the game

Over and over these have both proven 100% true in every situation.

fugepe,

care developing more on both?

Yearly1845,

Sure!

“The hard way is the easy way” has always rung true because when you take short cuts you end up making more work for yourself. Maybe the thing didn’t fit because you didn’t take the time to measure it properly, or you didn’t calibrate the machine. Or you made assumptions that turned out untrue because you didn’t take the time to fully research them or whatever.

Do the work up front, or it increases exponentially. I literally despise this quote. Growing up I hated when my dad quoted it at me. And I’m a little disgusted with myself for agreeing with him now haha. But it’s so true.

“Documentation is the name of the game”: My dad was a union president for the board of Ed in my town growing up. He had to deal with a lot of he-said-she-said cases. But whoever can prove what they’re saying with proper, timestamped documentation always wins the case.

Nobug404,

As an IT worker the documentation one hits home.

My job is basically a documentation writer who occasionally fixes computers.

freeman,

“No one is going to write you were a good employee on your headstone. “

And

“Time is the one form of compensation you can never recoup. “

Meaning Time off from work is valuable, more so than the $$ value especially once you get to a certain point.

LambChop,

In the same vein:

“20 years from now, the only people who will remember that you worked late are your children"

sloonark,

Don’t hold grudges. While you’re holding a grudge, the other guy’s out dancing.

arcrust,

I’ve got two:

“The apocalypse is not something which is coming. The apocalypse has arrived in major portions of the planet and it’s only because we live within a bubble of incredible privilege and social insulation that we still have the luxury of anticipating the apocalypse.” by Terence McKenna

And the other is from an old salty chief when I was in the navy. This is paraphrasing but:

“Every fuck up comes down to a combination of three root causes: didn’t know, didn’t care, or a material problem”

Someone gets hurt on the job? Well, did they not know they were doing something wrong? Did they not care enough about safety? Or was it simply because something broke? Maybe they didn’t know AND they didn’t care to find out.

fugepe,

mf they said quotes not long ass bible verses.

Vupperware,
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What made you think that comment was necessary?

macracanthorhynchus,

I once overheard a pair of utility workers talking, and as I walked past I only overheard a snippet of conversation. The older one yelled up the cherrypicker to the younger one and said, in a heavy Boston accent:

“If only you could use your powers for good, instead of for useless…”

That sentence is seared into my brain.

chikaygo,

The future is no place to place your better days.

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