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QuarterSwede, (edited ) in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?
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Financially I save for a 401K and have the company match it. Then online off of what’s left over.

As far as doing things, we plan for larger vacations and events out 1 year. If it’s a less costly or time consuming thing locally we plan those by the week or month.

We don’t do a lot spur of the moment. Keeps the cost down and we’re busy enough as it is with 3 kids.

Azal, in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

Kidney stones, gallstones, whatever the fuck the body does of “Lets build a rock inside the body that can fuck us up” needs to stop.

mumblerfish,

Yeah, can we at least not have so many pain receptors in along the kidney and baldder tract?

corsicanguppy,

Disagree: when something’s wrong there, you really want to know.

Check back after I’ve passed a kidney stone, though, as experience may temper that!

APassenger,

Disassociate. And do it a lot.

Or have meds.

Cannot recommend and I’m sure mine was minor.

Kolanaki, (edited ) in What are some of your cheap eats hacks?
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If you are forced to consuming mostly cheap packaged goods like Hamburger Helper and the like, add the secret spice blend to make it actually have some flavor:

Salt*, pepper, onion powder, garlic powder and MSG.

*Check the sodium levels already in the packaged food first; if it’s already high, you can ignore adding more.

These spices are cheap and make everything so much better. Even non-savory stuff sometimes benefits.

ani, (edited ) in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

Reserve time for planning. Plan the next day the day before, the next week the week before, and so on. I recommend using the Get Things Done strategy.

foggy, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

Make lists, get passionate, attack problems with vigor, but also know when to set them aside.

So often our goal is “c” and we’re at “a”, so naturally we try to get to “b” so we can get to “c”.

Then you find out there is an a.0.0.0, and an a.9.9.9

Most people give up before they get to b (where you find out there is a b.0.0.0 and a b.9.9.9)

It’s about noticing that the leap from a.6.9.0 to a.6.9.1 is taking too much effort. Book marking it, and moving onto another thing.

Its about being disciplined and orderly. Don’t let frustration cloud your vision or goal.

Sincerely, /c/selfhosted

Nommer, in What's a useful mental model you've put into practice

You mean the terror I get from not knowing what is going to happen so I over plan and over estimate everything I’ll need is healthy? TIL

eightpix, in If humans went extinct, what would the Earth look like one year later?
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There’s a book on this topic, The World Without Us, by Alan Weisman.

bradorsomething, in Mickey Mouse is now public domain (Steamboat Willie specifically). What do you think we will see this year?

Steamboat dildies.

corsicanguppy, in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

chef’s kiss perfect list.

felixwhynot, in SAD light location and use for programmers?
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From what I’ve read, simply increasing the brightness of your living spaces can help. I’ve got some LED “corn bulbs” in a lamp next to my desk and in the living room. I like the Dragon Light brand.

toiletobserver, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

I treat retirement planning like Ron Popeil’s rotisserie cooker. “You set it, and forget it.” Index funds don’t need to be managed, and recurring transfers can be automated.

Medium term planning follows other people’s advice about normal budgeting, with specific piles for specific things.

Short term is extremely simplified at this point. Spend discretionary dollars at your discretion.

partial_accumen,

First, I completely agree with your thoughts on retirement savings.

However, that’s far from the only thing in “planning for the future”. The future is also things like:

  • when/if do I start a family?
  • should I get additional education to help my career prospects?
  • should I prioritize time with my elderly family members now at the cost of other opportunities for personal or professional growth?
  • should I put my efforts into growth for my spouse/child?

There’s no easy answers as many of these are mutually exclusive. It becomes a personal value judgement. You may only find out you made the wrong choice for yourself after you’ve passed the point of making a different choice. Such is life.

Tehhund, in How do you strike a balance between being present in the moment and planning for the future?

If I’m thinking about the future and it’ll take just a minute or two, I’ll do it right then. If it’ll take lots of time I’ll put a task on my calendar for another day and deal with it then, then get back to living my life (well, posting memes, but I didn’t come here to be judged). Now planning has a time but I don’t have to think about it until then.

CaptainMcMonkey, in Congrats, you've been made Ruler of the World. How do you fuck it up?

-Metric system

-abolish penny

-abolish daylight savings time

-Every month is now five 6-day weeks (More orderly, no Monday)

-Last five days of every year (Six on leap years) Is now a New Year’s festival.

-move august and july to end of year (now September, October, November, December Correspond with their correctly numbered month)

Ads cannot interrupt content, can only be before or after each episode/movie

Rhynoplaz,

I believe the question was “how do you fuck it up” not make everything better.

CaptainMcMonkey,

All beverages are now required to be Diet New Coke served exclusively in those tiny cardboard milk cartons.

grue,
BoisZoi, in What are some of your cheap eats hacks?
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Dr Pepper and Cold Brew make a fantastic mixed drink; it tastes similar to spiced rum with no alcohol.

RBWells, (edited ) in What are some small things we should change about the human body?

We should not get our adult teeth at 7 then no more ever. We need at least one more set.

I don’t think balding is useful, agree that could go.

Fertility should be manageable without using all the devices, hormones, etc. Like it should be a positive choice not a default state we have to harm ourselves to avoid. And I don’t think we need menopause either. Just turn on fertility only to get pregnant.

(ETA- I also think sexually transmitted diseases should not exist at all, they seem like religious fundamentalist biological warfare, but not sure what change in a human body could accomplish this and leave the pleasure intact. )

Appoxo,
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We should not get our adult teeth at 7 then no more ever. We need at least one more set.

Just be a shark at this point

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