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MeVoyAlSur, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

My cat

HC4L, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

My cat, why the hell he sleeps quietly until my girlfriend goes to bed and right after that he gets the zoomies…

bernieecclestoned, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

Tardigrade, what is the meaning of life?

popularmechanics.com/…/tardigrades-water-bears

Che_Donkey,
@Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml avatar

2nd for The Water Bear

Potatos_are_not_friends, in Is it actually possible to change your personality

Semantics. 360 is back to start.

But yes.

I was a social outcast introvert, and people used to assume I’d be some Columbine kid. Now I speak in front of huge crowds in my company, and manage a engineering department.

One of my staff member was in the Olympics. Now they’re doing tech work. Another was homeless. Another was a “mom who dropped out of high school”. And another used to work at Little Caesars. All of them are engineers doing kick ass work. And you would never know their history.

You are your actions.

monsterpiece42,

Semantics, but OP never said the unit of measure. It could be radians for all you know.

elephantium,
@elephantium@lemmy.world avatar

could be radians

That’s a reach. 360 (degree) spin is a common enough “could care less” type expression. There’s no way OP meant “spin 57 times, then turn a little more than one quarter more.”

captainlezbian, in Is it actually possible to change your personality

Yeah, on a more serious note there are effective treatments for personality disorders, most notably DBT.

Also we’re all growing and changing all the time. I was once an awkward and unpleasant prude, these days I’m anything but. The thing about personality growth is it’ll happen whether you want them to or not unless you’re stagnating (also bad).

You just act the way you want to act, and keep doing it until it’s who you are. A Vonnegut quote I love is “we are who we pretend to be.” I pretended to be socially confident and it turned out to not be hard after some practice. I pretended to be cool with stuff that I didn’t like made me irrationally uncomfortable and wouldn’t you know I got comfortable around it. Pretend to be nice and wouldn’t you know it eventually becomes second nature.

And yeah it can go worse. Shut yourself off from new experiences and the outside gets scarier. Spend time with bigots and you may find yourself agreeing with them. Move to Pittsburgh and not only will you risk enjoying their football you may even dump your fries on your sandwich even when you’re in the civilized world.

Choose your actions carefully, you risk letting them determine who you become. It’s a lot easier to justify your behavior than to change your habits and instincts.

Cookiesandcreamclouds,

Yes. Mine changed because I changed it. I had BPD my entire life. My providers are certain I was born with it. I’ve always only ever known extremes and unstable relationships, until now- after a year of intense DBT treatment. I have changed my personality, my entire perspective on life, so yes. I hope the OP sees this. (I’m also bragging a bit, it only took a year to recover from a disorder I unknowingly had my entire life once diagnosed and was informed.) You have to rewire your entire fucking brain, but you can.

intensely_human,

How much did that DBT cost you? It’s a pretty big undertaking right?

Cookiesandcreamclouds,

So, with my therapist’s guidance, I was able to do my own after she picked out things I specifically needed to work on. I ordered a DBT spiral workbook and learned from there, I can now apply these skills daily. It’s saved my relationships and life. And yes, you have to re-wire basically your entire brain and world view. I was able to get it done in about a year.

the_q, in What can we do, as lemmy users, to fight fake news being pushed in the platform?

Honestly? Don’t participate. Don’t use the platform and just quit with all social media because it cannot be stopped at this point. It takes far too much effort and time to battle all this crap.

shinigamiookamiryuu, in Is it actually possible to change your personality

I think you mean 180. 360 would be a full rotation, you’d be going from the dark side to the light side back to the dark side. But yes, it’s possible to change someone by overshadowing their bad influences. Good influences, by definition, have more influential potential.

jBlight, in Is it actually possible to change your personality

Anyone can change, but the first and hardest step is believing you can change.

theplanlessman, in What are the shortest karaoke songs?

The shortest song I ever found at a karaoke place was You Suffer by Napalm Death. It’s 1.3 seconds long.

DarkenLM,

I remember seeing this song for the first time on a reddit thread like "You have to sing a complete song from memory, which song would you pick?". That guy pulled a galaxy brain move.

itsgroundhogdayagain, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

a capybara. they seem so pleasant.

bionicjoey,

Guinea Big

BackOnMyBS, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?
@BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world avatar

Either a chill bird or whale that migrates across the world

What are your favorite places?

What do you like about them?

What are your favorite animals?

WmDo you have any interesting experiences to share?

What’s something you would like to share that I wouldn’t prompt because my limited migratory habits don’t provide the experience necessary to know to prompt it?

habanhero, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

Pando trees as they are the largest single organism in the world.

all-knight-party,
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That is a wild concept. I think you've got the most interesting answer so far.

Karlos_Cantana, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?
@Karlos_Cantana@sopuli.xyz avatar

My teenage child

kerr, in Do you know of any obscure useful websites?

Microwave Watt?? Converts cooking instructions to whatever your actual microwave is (mine’s a shitty 700w beast so I have to add about 50% cooking time to most things). www.microwavewatt.com

GoosLife,

I use that all the time. I have so many friends who just give it however long it says on the packaging and then complain their microwaves suck.

The only thing that can still throw me off course is when the packaging says: “microwave for about 7-9 minutes depending on your microwave”. Bro, what am I supposed to do with this information? I’m ready to go watt for watt, I don’t want to keep an eye on my microwave. I just wanna hear the bing and know it’s done.

shalafi, in Which organism would you most like to be able to conduct an extended translated interview with?

My mini (not really) pig. I’d kill or die to know just exactly how smart he is.

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