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SonOfSuns, in Favorite Lemmy Client

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AceFuzzLord, in How long would you live if electricity for the whole world went out permanently?

I would definitely die sooner than a lot of people because of my mechanical heart valve. The blood thinners and needing to make sure my blood isn’t too thin or thick would be harder since I’ve been getting it checked for over a decade and I’ve never seen them use a non-electric method of testing.

pineapplelover, in Do you interact more in Lemmy?

Way more. There’s lots of genuine posts on here and not karma farming bots. Also, my posts in c/lockpicking and c/balisong actually got replies fairly quickly. On reddit, I would’ve been met with downvotes or people who don’t even interact with my posts.

DeathWearsANecktie, in Favorite Lemmy Client

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RBWells, in What are some must-haves on your Halloween music playlist?

I have a 108 song Halloween playlist!

Agree with the Misfits Halloween.

Some you may not have considered:

If You Were Still Around - John Cale

Vampire - Claudia Schmidt

Careful with that Axe, Eugene - Pink Floyd

What’s he Building? - Tom Waits

Rockin’ Bones - The Cramps

Zombie - Maitre Gims

Astroturfed, in Does noone train their dogs anymore?

I’ve always had well trained dogs, but I currently have one I just cannot seem to get under control with other dogs on walks. She will pull and bark anytime I get anywhere near another dog. Seems vicious, she just wants to play so bad… I have another dog and they play but he’s more chill than her and she just wants to play so badly with every random dog in the world. Treats, spankings, training collar, bark collar, nothing has worked.

5th dog, only one I wasn’t easily able to train. Probably because she’s an abused rescue dog and I just can’t break her of it. Sometimes it’s just not easy. I have to choke up on her and cross the street to not freak people with dogs out.

stoneparchment,
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I’m copying this comment I just wrote elsewhere because I think you might find it useful:

“I think there’s a lot of evidence that for most things (like “new tricks”) there isn’t any learning disadvantage for older dogs.

However, leash reactivity/aggression is not about teaching a dog a new trick (or even a new behavior) as much as it is trying to change an underlying emotional response to stimuli. I don’t know anything about your dog, and there are lots of reasons why dogs can react like that on leash (fear, intense desire to play and socialize, actual aggression), but usually if the dog is freaking out they are past the point where the “logical” part of their brain can make decisions for them.

The human analogy is that people of all ages can learn new skills, like how to cook a new recipe or build a cabinet or something. But if a person has a fear of heights, they can’t just learn the skill of not being scared of heights. That requires rewiring the base emotional response, which takes time and has a high rate of failure.

For dogs I worked with, we usually asked ourselves if we thought the dogs reactivity was lowering their quality of life. That is to say, does your dog need to be calm on leash to live a happy life? If you live in a city and she needs to navigate past dogs every time she goes to the bathroom, I’d say it’s worth trying to make that less stressful for her. If she lives in the suburbs or in a rural area, and she barely ever encounters other dogs anyway, why bother? The human analogy is: if a person works on skyscrapers for a living, they probably need to not be scared of heights, but many people are scared of heights and live totally fine and happy lives from the ground. Of course, a human can have some control over their environment and career, but dogs don’t have that luxury. We work with them where they are.

It’s also worth noting that even the best “rewiring methods” take a long time and usually only work to reduce the fear, not eliminate it. We do it because it will really improve the dog’s quality of life, not because we (selfishly) want a perfectly behaved dog to bring everywhere and do everything with.

A side note is that there are critical periods for dog socialization and development just like in humans. I haven’t looked into this in a while but me memory is that it occurs at like 8-12 weeks of age. Puppies in this period learn about how to interact and communicate with other other dogs in the same way we learn language early in life. If they aren’t socialized in this period, they usually struggle to effectively socialize for the rest of their lives. Still, this isn’t necessarily the cause of leash reactivity, so I’m just throwing it in as a side comment if you want to learn more.

AND lastly, if you do decide you need or want to work on your dog’s reactivity, I strongly recommend Grisha Stewart’s BAT 2.0. I am not affiliated with her in any way, but this is the technique recommended by reinforcement-based training organizations and has the most likelihood of reducing reactivity in my personal experience. The textbook is like literally hundreds of pages long and covers a ton of case-scenarios. It would take time to read and learn to do the protocol, and you need a BAT leash (a 15 ft leash) and lots of practice managing it, but I have seen dogs go from freaking out and screaming from seeing another dog >100 yrds away to being able to (tensely) stand to the side of a sidewalk and contain their panic as a dog passes. It won’t make a reactive dog confident and bomb proof, but it can make a huge difference when applied carefully and consistently, especially with other methods like look-at-that/counterconditioning, Karen Overall’s calmness protocol, and engage-disengage games.”

RBWells, in Does noone train their dogs anymore?

We train ours to walk at heel, loose leash. But if they are together they will still pull and bark aggressively at other dogs. They are in training, not completely trained.

I’m not sure what you mean by properly, though. I would consider the dog walking close to me & slightly behind a good trained walk, and do if possible cross to avoid giving them temptation if there is a dog. Better to give them a chance to be good, than to have to correct them.

Is there a dog scene?

Bluetreefrog, in "Return Youtube Dislike" Doesn't work anymore....

Not an open-ended, thought providing question. Locking.

ADHDefy, in What are some must-haves on your Halloween music playlist?
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Besides the obvious ones:

  • "Hell" - Streetlight Manifesto
  • "Wolf Like Me" - TV on the Radio
  • "Anybody Else" - Dom Fera

Also, a bunch of songs by Bear Ghost! "Haunt, The Cartoon Heart," "Necromancin Dancin," "Rivers is a Vampire," and others.

0ops,

“iiiiiiiiiinnnnn the afterlife you could be heading for some serious strife”

KittenBiscuits,

Wait, I thought that was Squirrel Nut Zippers?

🎶now you make us sing all day, but tomorrow there’ll be hell to pay 🎶

ADHDefy,
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It was originally! SLM did a really sick cover of it.

throwmeinthekbin, in What are some must-haves on your Halloween music playlist?
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Trilogy3452, in Do you interact more in Lemmy?

Me too, people are more forgiving and give the benefit of the doubt more oftenthabn not. I appreciate that

JadenSmith, in "Return Youtube Dislike" Doesn't work anymore....

Use their TamperMonkey add-on, that seems to still work. I uninstalled the extension before enabling the TamperMonkey userscript. Firefox here.

TornMD, in Do you interact more in Lemmy?

Not yet, but I plan to. I’m slowly tapering off Reddit, I’m forced to use the main app, I even managed to remove the ads off it, but I still hate it. It doesn’t show the posts that the third party apps always show, the ordering is off no matter how you change it. Hard to explain.

SacrificedBeans, in Do you interact more in Lemmy?

Definitely more. A lurker too. Idk, I feel like I’m less afraid of being judged here.

melodious_thunk, in What are some must-haves on your Halloween music playlist?
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